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The key to no strings attached meets is that there are no strings attached. To feel jealous would suggest an emotional attachment which means you’re better off in a normal relationship rather than swinging (or casual hook ups). |
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"Do you get jealous of a single or couple you've met and had a great time with meet someone else next day or within a couple of days?
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No I am very much fire and forget. Out of sight out of mind. My life is busy to think on what random fuck meets do after a meet |
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By *essTTWoman 6 days ago
Birmingham |
No I prefer it
I don't meet very often cause of health issues and there's been a few times where I've had people who I've met before trying to get me to meet when I'm not upto it, at least if they're meeting others it takes the pressure off |
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Not jealous but I feel 'devalued' and somewhat discombobulated, and perhaps a tiny bit regretful.
I'm not a swinger, I'm a slow burn and selective with whom I meet after weeks, month/s of chatting. I usually glow for days/weeks after I've met someone, and therefore I'm not 'sensually wired' to meet someone new so quickly because the person I just met mattered to me and the experience that we shared was unique, lingering and enduring.
I'm not ignorant of the lifestyle and I know that people meet people but if you're bonking someone the day after we've met then, in hindsight, you're not for me. |
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theres no room for jealousy on this scene i play when i want with whom i want hubs plays when he want with whom he want and those we meet couldnt careless who they meet ..
but ive had some pretty jealous women/men/couples message me on here over the yrars because ive met someone they've met ..some people just dont get swinging and the concept of it.. |
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"theres no room for jealousy on this scene i play when i want with whom i want hubs plays when he want with whom he want and those we meet couldnt careless who they meet ..
but ive had some pretty jealous women/men/couples message me on here over the yrars because ive met someone they've met ..some people just dont get swinging and the concept of it.."
That's sad to hear.
I agree 100% |
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By *sWyldWoman 5 days ago
Edinburgh |
This is quite a tricky question for me. I want to be the woman who is laid back and cool. I always want those I'm friends with to have the best time (even if that doesn't include me)
However, I'm also sometimes (usually when we have seen each other a lot) the woman who will torture herself over it because she's insecure.
Its therefore strange I find myself in this world sometimes. |
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