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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We personally choose to stay away from married people who are playing without their partners knowledge....
We really don't want to be caught up in any mess should there be one.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do u not think married guys would keep it strictly fun where a single guy may may not"
not necessarily...
weave nothing against meeting married people as such...we're not in any position to moralise to be honest but often find meets more difficult to organise because of time restrictions and end up getting cancelled more often., |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a married woman who doesnt want to meet married men, because I feel its too complicated fitting in meets between 2 marriages. Ive been told its doublestandards in previous subjects similar to this. I have met a married man before - my mistake I didnt read his profile properly and will admit to wanting to meet a guy on here who is married and he me but it wont happen because its too complicated. Awaiting lynch mob now lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if your married and cheating how can it possibly be nsa or nsf as theres always strings there, it is not swinging by any definition so most definatly stay away, avoid at all costs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do u not think married guys would keep it strictly fun where a single guy may may not"
Nope - I think the thought of someone's wife sitting at home whilst they're fucking me is as big a turn off as Ann Widdecombe.
I also don't consider it fun to think of my neighbours' being party to a slanging match on my doorstep should the wife find out. |
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I'm married and bi and, no, my wife doesn't know. It seems to me that single women and couples tend to stay away from married guys but other bi guys and gay guys tend to be more attracted to married guys! That's my experience! Any thoughts? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness."
....until your domestic situation lands on my door......as it has done to various people over my time on swinging sites....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I thought this site was for guys and girls to find fun sexually be it single or married"
No darling, this is a site for swingers. And as I've said previously, my idea of fun isn't being named in divorce papers/ having an angry wife on my doorstep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness."
please look up definition of swinging before having a go, swinging is about openess, honesty, no strings, exploring fantasies together with other like minded people, a cheating person is neither open or honest and there are always strings there.
there are sites out there for extra marital affairs but this isnt one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Touchy touchy..... I take your a fully paid up member of the holier than thou swingers brigade
I wasn't having a go at anyone....just giving my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness."
I can understand your point but I have read threads from people on here saying that after meeting someone who turned out to be married they ended up getting abusive calls/texts from the cheated partner.
Sounds risky to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Touchy touchy..... I take your a fully paid up member of the holier than thou swingers brigade
I wasn't having a go at anyone....just giving my opinion.
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Oh ffs is there any need to be so rude when someone has differing opinions. This is a controversial topic and is bound to bring with it emotive responses. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Touchy touchy..... I take your a fully paid up member of the holier than thou swingers brigade
I wasn't having a go at anyone....just giving my opinion.
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by "hollier than thou" you mean those playing with consent... or those using their own moral code (which apparently we are suppose to leave behind just because we swing)
anyway this thread has gone "victim mode" rather quickly...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your the one abbreviating foul lain gage love"
I was abbreviating foul language yes, I was also making a point about how you seem to find it difficult to have a discussion with someone who has differing views. I stand by my previous point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's because, in among the people who just want some extra curricular sex are a good number of..... I,m trying to be polite here, but struggling and this is purely my opinion...... Fruitcakes.... I take the time to out anyone who appears to be in this category and I've had no problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was accused of having a go..... I was having a go at no one, the poster who accused me obviously has a raw nerve about it. I repeat I have only given my opinion, but I won't sit back and let some one think they can take the moral high ground with me about my opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having had my ex play away for several years.. I tend to stay away, but should i meet someone in a club that is playing away then that would be me doing it unknowingly   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not the moral high ground. I've also been on the receiving end of an affair and they really hurt. "
I have also been there, it is the worst kind of low !!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's because, in among the people who just want some extra curricular sex are a good number of..... I,m trying to be polite here, but struggling and this is purely my opinion...... Fruitcakes.... I take the time to out anyone who appears to be in this category and I've had no problems."
Well I guess it is a difficult one to call because no matter what precautions taken there will always be the opportunists who find a way. I say no married men but really,how can I be 100% sure of that?
After all, I am not looking for a relationship so that makes things more difficult in a sense.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well myself i am married and i wouldnt change her for the world but due to medical reasons doesnt have sex, so needs are a must so there are some good reasons depends on circumstances i think so i never judge and why should it be messy as its the person not the other couple |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"well myself i am married and i wouldnt change her for the world but due to medical reasons doesnt have sex, so needs are a must so there are some good reasons depends on circumstances i think so i never judge and why should it be messy as its the person not the other couple"
okay... so lets play the "real life" game...
if she were to discover you were here.... what would likely happen?
honest question..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We stay away from anyone that is married and on here cheating on there partner. We don't think it's right and don't want to be part of it. The problem is when we point out we don't meet people that are married they generally reply back with a sob story. To us cheating isn't swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay away, as well as the moral issues, married guys are more likely to let you down or just want quick shag and go meets as they have to get home, not the kind of meets I enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are married and I have a reluctant other half which is a little frustrating but I wouldn't do anything without my wife knowing or hopefully being there  |
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"Im a married woman who doesnt want to meet married men, because I feel its too complicated fitting in meets between 2 marriages. Ive been told its doublestandards in previous subjects similar to this. I have met a married man before - my mistake I didnt read his profile properly and will admit to wanting to meet a guy on here who is married and he me but it wont happen because its too complicated. Awaiting lynch mob now lol. "
I didn't know you felt so strongly towards me! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do u not think married guys would keep it strictly fun where a single guy may may not"
Actually i think the opposite is true. A fwb provides a way out of an unhappy relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But in theory, you only trust what a person says on here or webcam etc, they can say they are married and the other half knows but it all comes down to trust and instinct, it is down to the individual/s who choose who they meet, if someone says they are single yet can't meet everyday of the week except 1 hour on a Tuesday then that's pretty obvious. I don't want to enter this argument but we are all adults and choose who we meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are married and I have a reluctant other half which is a little frustrating but I wouldn't do anything without my wife knowing or hopefully being there "
So you tell your wife every time you are going to a meet?
Does she not give you a bad time about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are married and I have a reluctant other half which is a little frustrating but I wouldn't do anything without my wife knowing or hopefully being there
So you tell your wife every time you are going to a meet?
Does she not give you a bad time about it?"
Not been to one and trying to persuade her. Realy don't want to go without her.  |
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Doesn't bother us or me (Mrs) in the slightest. They're here for their own reasons and who are we to judge.
Although i always make a point of making it clear if the person is married/partnered, we do not want any uneasy situations knocking on our door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a married woman who doesnt want to meet married men, because I feel its too complicated fitting in meets between 2 marriages. Ive been told its doublestandards in previous subjects similar to this. I have met a married man before - my mistake I didnt read his profile properly and will admit to wanting to meet a guy on here who is married and he me but it wont happen because its too complicated. Awaiting lynch mob now lol.
I didn't know you felt so strongly towards me! lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"married guys are more likely to let you down or just want quick shag and go meets as they have to get home "
I'm sorry, but that is a complete generalisation, and in many cases untrue! You have your opinion, so I can have mine.
However, I can understand totally why a lady wouldn't like the guy who's 'fitting her in' for a quick half hour. But as I've said, not all marrieds, male and female, are necessarily in that category, fact! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On balance we would prefer to avoid but being pragmatic there is absolutely no point in asking a person to confirm they are unattached.
Therefore we dont even bother asking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its 6 of one and 1/2 dozen of the other....
There's single guys who aren't really single and married guys who haven't got permission. It seems the "single" guy is going to get more meets because the worry that the married guy is only going to have a limited time. I think we all know though what response this question would have been if it had been centred around married women..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its 6 of one and 1/2 dozen of the other....
There's single guys who aren't really single and married guys who haven't got permission. It seems the "single" guy is going to get more meets because the worry that the married guy is only going to have a limited time. I think we all know though what response this question would have been if it had been centred around married women....."
i've seen a thread not long ago that was a single woman and they had pretty much the same response as this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its 6 of one and 1/2 dozen of the other....
There's single guys who aren't really single and married guys who haven't got permission. It seems the "single" guy is going to get more meets because the worry that the married guy is only going to have a limited time. I think we all know though what response this question would have been if it had been centred around married women.....
i've seen a thread not long ago that was a single woman and they had pretty much the same response as this one."
My wife has a profile on fab and on it she states that she's married. Sometimes we both look through her messages together and the majority of men that message her never bother to ask whether or not I know what she is upto.
I might well be at fault of making a generalization but I believe that most men on here wouldn't be bothered whether the woman they were meeting was married or not but that just comes from what I've seen for myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay away as much a possible. Its hard to know whos single and whos not though as not everybody is so honest. But here to have fun not get caught in the crossfire if things go wrong. |
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This is the fastest growing forum topic! Its a mix bag! Took me half an hour and a few arguement threads to get to the bottom. But let's face facts. People feel strongly each side. Some hate the cheating as they've been cheated on even caught STDs off a cheating partner! Other love married with kids even as its a kicks thing. Personal preference. Nice to see most posts are judging either way, were all on a swinger site to do something sexual. We are all adults. I've got permission so its good but still many don't want to meet and I respect that. I have been told to not say at all as its too honest. But rather be up front. x |
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"Do u not think married guys would keep it strictly fun where a single guy may may not"
Not for me!
I use paddles, crops, candles, I shave playmates pubic hair, I even have temporary tattoos "property off..." I use.
I've even had one man arrive with bespoke soap and shower gel his wife used so not to leave a scent trail! He didn't stay! 
Married men are NO fun to play with for me at all. Viva single men!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a man who is married and does swinging without his wife, and visa versa is cheating . but a wife/husband that tells their other half what they doing with their consent is not cheating.
I swing with and without my partner - not cheating. and he does the same
when im in my role as switch (bdsm) my partner knows ..... not cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a man who is married and does swinging without his wife, and visa versa is cheating . but a wife/husband that tells their other half what they doing with their consent is not cheating
RUBISH I love bumming a married guy and he dose to .... just my opinion  |
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"This is the fastest growing forum topic! Its a mix bag! Took me half an hour and a few arguement threads to get to the bottom. But let's face facts. People feel strongly each side. Some hate the cheating as they've been cheated on even caught STDs off a cheating partner! Other love married with kids even as its a kicks thing. Personal preference. Nice to see most posts are judging either way, were all on a swinger site to do something sexual. We are all adults. I've got permission so its good but still many don't want to meet and I respect that. I have been told to not say at all as its too honest. But rather be up front. x"
I am upfront about it and the vast majority of people I approach say "No thanks", or don't bother to reply. I accept that I am not for everyone so the occasional ones that do say "Yes" are a bonus for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if your married and cheating how can it possibly be nsa or nsf as theres always strings there, it is not swinging by any definition so most definatly stay away, avoid at all costs."
My feelings completely...... its not swinging, its cheating, pure and simple. So STAY AWAY!!!! |
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"Would love to know if the same proportion of couples looking for bi women would voice similar concerns or if the relative availability alters peoples perceptions and scruples. "
I'm not bi but if I were same rules would apply. Also no one comes into my home who can't invite me into theirs: no exceptions! |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
I only ask as when I was swinging with my ex we got loads of messages from couples asking if she would play solo especally in chat, sometimes even assuming she was online alone asking her to go behind my back. Mind you given that it turns out she was sneaking away to some single and possibly married men in secret maybe there was a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love to know if the same proportion of couples looking for bi women would voice similar concerns or if the relative availability alters peoples perceptions and scruples. "
what has bi women got to do with cheating then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well myself i am married and i wouldnt change her for the world but due to medical reasons doesnt have sex, so needs are a must so there are some good reasons depends on circumstances i think so i never judge and why should it be messy as its the person not the other couple"
I know two people in the same situation as you .. But they aren't on here but they do have a f.b |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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The question partly came out of personal experince but was aimed at drawing out if peoples expectations regarding cheating change due to the mainstream desirability and relative scarcity of some groups on the site. Sorry if you felt I should have worded it differently or not selected a specific group but it is easier to discuss situations from within my own experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I played with married guys and all I'll say is, if your Mrs finds out I'm not making excuses for you - would even give her your Fab username and encourage her to try some of the toyboys on here |
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My profile profile clearly states that I am married so its the other persons choice if they choose to contact me or not. What I would say is a large percentage of so called "single" guys on here are in a relationship of some kind. I just find its much easier to be upfront from the beginning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stay clear of any cheater
I'm not out to cause myself or anyone any grief
I certainly don't feel its any safer emotionally as to me a cheater obv needs to be attached where as a single can live without the need to be with someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol...this is a hard one for me...
I don't have an issue playing with married men...just liars!
If a guy will lie to the love of his life...imagine the horse shit he'll hit me with!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am married and play alone as my wife, also on the site as Jaybug doesn't like the idea of a 3 some or more some at the moment so we both play alone. I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
I would meet someone that is married and would also meet single people. As mentioned we are all adults and make our own choices in life and will have to deal with any consiquences that arise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Havnt read all the replies, but I have to admit I just find the whole idea of cheating quite sad for both parties involved. Not something me or J would ever do or worry about the other doing, having said that we wouldn't be put off straight away by a married man or woman if everything else fit the bill. Just like with everyone else we would want to get to know them better if we liked what we saw. BUT would defo prefer anyone we played with to be single( unless in a swinging couple of course! ) Hope that doesn't put people off us! Lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stay away from or play I'm married myself and NSF is defo the thing for me how about anyone else"
Stay away....... we all have our own opinions but cheating husbands are not for us, sorry..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
and the choice of their partner counts for nothing?"
There partners choice counts however if the person is intent on cheating then they will do regardless if its with me or someone else. |
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"I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
and the choice of their partner counts for nothing?
There partners choice counts however if the person is intent on cheating then they will do regardless if its with me or someone else. "
Yea I know its rather sad isn't it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
and the choice of their partner counts for nothing?
There partners choice counts however if the person is intent on cheating then they will do regardless if its with me or someone else.
Yea I know its rather sad isn't it "
sad yes but maybe they have good reasons to cheat and their partner isnt so perfect, and saintly as they like to think they are. |
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"I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
and the choice of their partner counts for nothing?
There partners choice counts however if the person is intent on cheating then they will do regardless if its with me or someone else.
Yea I know its rather sad isn't it
sad yes but maybe they have good reasons to cheat and their partner isnt so perfect, and saintly as they like to think they are."
We can't possibly know that though can we. That's why we stay away from attached people, too complicated and only ever hear one side of the story. Well part of the reason why anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
and the choice of their partner counts for nothing?
There partners choice counts however if the person is intent on cheating then they will do regardless if its with me or someone else.
Yea I know its rather sad isn't it
sad yes but maybe they have good reasons to cheat and their partner isnt so perfect, and saintly as they like to think they are."
There is no good reason to cheat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite often these kind of threads are 50:50 in opinions but don't think I've seen one so anti-marrieds for a very long time.
I used to meet married men because they were less complicated,they knew what relationships were and they weren't needy in the way that unmarrieds my age can be. Now, I don't meet, just lurk but I think the whole thing is a minefield I'd rather not cross. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stay away from or play I'm married myself and NSF is defo the thing for me how about anyone else"
I meet with a married man on a regular basis, yes I'll grant you that sometimes we have to plan ahead but more often than not it is spur of the moment which is good fun.
Everyone has their reasons for being on a swinging site & if he wants some extra NSA fun then that is his choice. But I don't see a problem with it. On the reverse side, I have blocked & reported a guy who claimed that single fems on here are akin to upaid hookers, and he was a single guy. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness."
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness. "
Yep! But the same applies to all users of the site equally, even those who don't want to meet attached people. It's no one elses business what choices you make up to and until you involve them. If it is a married or attached persons prerogative to be here it is my prerogative to choose not to play with them and just as they often insist I don't judge them for their choice neither should they judge me for mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not for us at all we dont want to be involved in anyones misery and make it clear on profile but still get the emails from married guys but maybe they dont read the profile(shock!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't judge people that are cheating on there partners, I don't agree with cheating but if they wish to do so then that's there choice.
and the choice of their partner counts for nothing?
There partners choice counts however if the person is intent on cheating then they will do regardless if its with me or someone else.
Yea I know its rather sad isn't it
sad yes but maybe they have good reasons to cheat and their partner isnt so perfect, and saintly as they like to think they are.
There is no good reason to cheat"
Whatever reason people give to cheat the fact is it is always a very selfish reason. Also those who ok cheating also have very selfish attitudes towards it. |
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness.
please look up definition of swinging before having a go, swinging is about openess, honesty, no strings, exploring fantasies together with other like minded people, a cheating person is neither open or honest and there are always strings there.
there are sites out there for extra marital affairs but this isnt one of them."
It is indeed but you didn't mention Choice/preference |
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We dont meet with married men playing away from their wifes , but thats our choice ..Being married and swinging without your partner knowledge is cheating .. but each to their own .. |
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By *EXY50ishWoman
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness."
Well said, I agree.
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yes if they state there married they give you the chance to say no, if they dont then there been low enough to potentialy drag innocent people into there web of lies, and very quickly situations like that can get out of hand, this is why cheating has no place whatsoever on a swinging site or in the swinging lifestyle, cheating is not swinging. |
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"It's a swinging site and I was never aware that swinging was the personal domain for unattached or happily together people only.
Swinging, to me, is being able to seek out what you want sexually when you want it with whom you want it.... You domestic situation is only your buisness.
Yep! But the same applies to all users of the site equally, even those who don't want to meet attached people. It's no one elses business what choices you make up to and until you involve them. If it is a married or attached persons prerogative to be here it is my prerogative to choose not to play with them and just as they often insist I don't judge them for their choice neither should they judge me for mine.
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*Applauds*...this!!! |
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