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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on here quite a while and I still am struggling to meet someone  "
Keep at it mate, it's tough at times. Take on board the positive replies you get on here, and bin the boring negative ones  |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"yeah I know 7 weeks now but I was on here for about a year then deleted it in frustration!!"
If I could give you some friendly advice - work on your profile. It does nothing for you and it comes across as a bit moany 'oh poor me I can't get a meet'
Tell people about yourself, what you like and don't like. What are your turn ons/offs? What of lady are you looking for?
And lose all the exclamation marks as it comes across a bit ranty and is rather offputting - for me anyway.
Get yourself to a social, it's the best way to meet people or join in the banter in the forums and start chatting to people. Socials are advertised in the meet requests and parties forum.
Single guys outnumber everyone else on here significantly and you do have to work a bit harder and put in the effort. It's just the way it is on here. Just scroll down te forum and you will see countless other threads on the topic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah I know 7 weeks now but I was on here for about a year then deleted it in frustration!!
If I could give you some friendly advice - work on your profile. It does nothing for you and it comes across as a bit moany 'oh poor me I can't get a meet'
Tell people about yourself, what you like and don't like. What are your turn ons/offs? What of lady are you looking for?
And lose all the exclamation marks as it comes across a bit ranty and is rather offputting - for me anyway.
Get yourself to a social, it's the best way to meet people or join in the banter in the forums and start chatting to people. Socials are advertised in the meet requests and parties forum.
Single guys outnumber everyone else on here significantly and you do have to work a bit harder and put in the effort. It's just the way it is on here. Just scroll down te forum and you will see countless other threads on the topic."
Totally agree, check out profiles where single men are doing well, compare what your profile is like to there's and think of what they are doing right and you wrong, when messaging a lady or couple don't cut and past and take time to read there profile, you are one of hundreds of messages they are getting a day, you have to stand out from the crowd and catch there eye, dont be pushy or keep pestering people if its a no then move on as there will be someone for ya, once you get that break then hopefully things will pick up for ya, on here you are a few words and pictures but in real life meeting people at clubs or social event they get to see the real you, good luck and hope works out for ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yeah I know 7 weeks now but I was on here for about a year then deleted it in frustration!!
If I could give you some friendly advice - work on your profile. It does nothing for you and it comes across as a bit moany 'oh poor me I can't get a meet'
Tell people about yourself, what you like and don't like. What are your turn ons/offs? What of lady are you looking for?
And lose all the exclamation marks as it comes across a bit ranty and is rather offputting - for me anyway.
Get yourself to a social, it's the best way to meet people or join in the banter in the forums and start chatting to people. Socials are advertised in the meet requests and parties forum.
Single guys outnumber everyone else on here significantly and you do have to work a bit harder and put in the effort. It's just the way it is on here. Just scroll down te forum and you will see countless other threads on the topic.
Totally agree, check out profiles where single men are doing well, compare what your profile is like to there's and think of what they are doing right and you wrong, when messaging a lady or couple don't cut and past and take time to read there profile, you are one of hundreds of messages they are getting a day, you have to stand out from the crowd and catch there eye, dont be pushy or keep pestering people if its a no then move on as there will be someone for ya, once you get that break then hopefully things will pick up for ya, on here you are a few words and pictures but in real life meeting people at clubs or social event they get to see the real you, good luck and hope works out for ya"
thank you I have made some alterations hopefully it works |
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Just get rid of the bit 'I don't mind how it happens' - makes you sound like you'll shag anything 
Good luck!
