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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Those of you who do reply to messages from people you don't want to meet have you got a stock phrase you use to cushion the rejection or do you just say no thanks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just say no thanks and let them know why... distance, age range, whatever else is obviously stated in my profile that they neglected to read lol.
Most don't take no for an answer and come back with some counter-argument which is why I rarely bother responding any more unless I'm feeling particularly generous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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due to bein a mannerless harpie if someone sends a message and they not what im lookin for for whatever reason i dont answer!!
feel free with the abuse!! x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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thanks but no thanks if it is from someone who doesnt bother reading our profile
Sorry its a non-starter as your profile says "wont meet smokers" or "we are outside your age criteria" (most common replies sent)
Sorry we don't feel we would be sexually compatible for the nice people who read profiles, have pics etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"due to bein a mannerless harpie if someone sends a message and they not what im lookin for for whatever reason i dont answer!!
feel free with the abuse!! x "
nothing wrong with free choice, a non-reply is a thanks but no thanks anyway, you choose not to reply we choose to always reply = your correct to do that and we are correct to do what we do there are no wrongs in the equation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fuck off ya minger always works for me lmao!!!!! only joking
thanks but no thanks is good
i tried that with u tho!!! and it didnt work lol xxxx"
so thats me out for friday then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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im always polite even though i know theyve not read my profile, some i respond to but those that send messages with "Im in gloucester on thursday fancy a shag in a hotel" i delete without responding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im always polite even though i know theyve not read my profile, some i respond to but those that send messages with "Im in gloucester on thursday fancy a shag in a hotel" i delete without responding "
What about if they are in Doncaster and what have you got against Gloucester anway ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fuck off ya minger always works for me lmao!!!!! only joking
thanks but no thanks is good
i tried that with u tho!!! and it didnt work lol xxxx
so thats me out for friday then lol"
i like the rough look xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fuck off ya minger always works for me lmao!!!!! only joking
thanks but no thanks is good
i tried that with u tho!!! and it didnt work lol xxxx
so thats me out for friday then lo
i like the rough look xxx"
See thats what I mean you ruled me out for friday lmao  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fuck off ya minger always works for me lmao!!!!! only joking
thanks but no thanks is good
i tried that with u tho!!! and it didnt work lol xxxx
so thats me out for friday then lo
i like the rough look xxx
See thats what I mean you ruled me out for friday lmao "
no the other guys guna be the rough one, i want u to be the lady, while i watch....didnt i tell you that???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those of you who do reply to messages from people you don't want to meet have you got a stock phrase you use to cushion the rejection or do you just say no thanks?"
You should have asked me. I've become a bit of an expert on rejection phrases.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Those of you who do reply to messages from people you don't want to meet have you got a stock phrase you use to cushion the rejection or do you just say no thanks?
You should have asked me. I've become a bit of an expert on rejection phrases.
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Yes-asking you and anyone who cares to reply. What has been your preferred rejection phrase and least liked? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fuck off ya minger always works for me lmao!!!!! only joking
thanks but no thanks is good
i tried that with u tho!!! and it didnt work lol xxxx
so thats me out for friday then lo
i like the rough look xxx
See thats what I mean you ruled me out for friday lmao
no the other guys guna be the rough one, i want u to be the lady, while i watch....didnt i tell you that??? "
well thats me definitely out for friday and gonna remove ya from friends list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those of you who do reply to messages from people you don't want to meet have you got a stock phrase you use to cushion the rejection or do you just say no thanks?
You should have asked me. I've become a bit of an expert on rejection phrases.
Yes-asking you and anyone who cares to reply. What has been your preferred rejection phrase and least liked? xx"
Well I'm more used to receiving them than dishing them out LOL. I guess, if you actually receive a reply and it's polite then that's a RESULT!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I delete without reading: that's what they deserve because my profile starts "not meeting as I have enough playmates". If they then write they've obviously not read my profile and just trying their luck so my wishes don't count!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we got a reply once that said "no thanks, we don't do mingers", had a regular giggle at that one, kept it for ages before I deleted it
We tend to say "thank you for your interest, but we don't think you are what we are looking for, best of luck." |
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I pinched this of another thread last week and it has worked a treat
Thank you for your message. Unfortunately I dont think we quite match and will not be taking things any further at this time.
Once again .. Many thanks and all the very best
Hope it helps |
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