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What makes you ladies orgasm ??
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over a year ago
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I was thinking about what was the best way to pleasure you ladies
What is your biggest turn on and how would us men best pleasure you
I think all guys should think about this don't you ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One way - one man.
Never would happen on a meet.
Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together.
It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was thinking about what was the best way to pleasure you ladies
What is your biggest turn on and how would us men best pleasure you
I think all guys should think about this don't you ?
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I would imagine that it's different for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One way - one man.
Never would happen on a meet.
Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together.
It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there. "
True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One way - one man.
Never would happen on a meet.
Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together.
It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there.
True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ?"
No cumming is the final act and having fun getting there is important!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then
After all it's your bodies and you know what they like
Also to concentrate on the other person more ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then
After all it's your bodies and you know what they like
Also to concentrate on the other person more ?"
No no!!!
Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then
After all it's your bodies and you know what they like
Also to concentrate on the other person more ?
No no!!!
Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. "
Nice to hear the woman's point of view this is what a forum is about ??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then
After all it's your bodies and you know what they like
Also to concentrate on the other person more ?
No no!!!
Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only.
Nice to hear the woman's point of view this is what a forum is about ??
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Erm yes, everyone will have their own opinions of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. "
Jodie now come on!!
Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town.
Jodie now come on!!
Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! "
That's soooo not true Julie....of course men have heard of it. Trouble is it's not on any map, satnav is useless in bed as is google streetview, so there's no chance of it being found and most think it's a character from Lord of the Rings anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town.
Jodie now come on!!
Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!!
That's soooo not true Julie....of course men have heard of it. Trouble is it's not on any map, satnav is useless in bed as is google streetview, so there's no chance of it being found and most think it's a character from Lord of the Rings anyway."
Jesus now I know where I have been going wrong! Thanks Jodie - off to install a sat nav in my pants  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town.
Jodie now come on!!
Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!! "
Hey I knew there was one just not where pmsl
Btw that was a joke in case some people believe me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town.
Jodie now come on!!
Men don't know where a clitoris is so your story is wrong, wrong, wrong!!!
Hey I knew there was one just not where pmsl
Btw that was a joke in case some people believe me "
Cat's out the bag now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum.
plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either.
best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time.
listen and learn.
wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum.
plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either.
best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time.
listen and learn.
wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down."
It's not about preconceived ideas its a generalisation to help ?
I know everyone is different but there is already starting to be a trend and that is to listen and learn ?
My Idea was to just chat about it and maybe find some new things to enjoy when with someone not just the run of the mill stuff
And of course to have a laugh along the way
It's about exploring and enjoying sex / foreplay
Yes I know you thought us guys didn't know about foreplay well we do but I for one want to find out more as its the key to great sex I think ???
Sex has not got last hours if you have good foreplay what do you think ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum.
plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either.
best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time.
listen and learn.
wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down.
It's not about preconceived ideas its a generalisation to help ?
I know everyone is different but there is already starting to be a trend and that is to listen and learn ?
My Idea was to just chat about it and maybe find some new things to enjoy when with someone not just the run of the mill stuff
And of course to have a laugh along the way
It's about exploring and enjoying sex / foreplay
Yes I know you thought us guys didn't know about foreplay well we do but I for one want to find out more as its the key to great sex I think ???
Sex has not got last hours if you have good foreplay what do you think ?"
i have no idea what you mean?
who says men know nothing about foreplay? i certainly didnt.
some men are ignorant to the needs of others, as are some women, others are great.
good foreplay doesnt mean sex is over quickly, i dont get you.
we only soft play, so to us, foreplay is more important than to a lot, because this is all we do with other people.
we have great penetrative sex with each other.
if you are one of those that thinks whats between your legs is the only pleasure giver, as opposed to whats between your ears, then i feel you may be missing the point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"unless you have a writing pad, there realy is no point is saying xyz makes someone cum.
plus, you can play with 10 different people and the same thing with each person may not make you cum either.
best to wait til you have a meet with someone and enjoy each other as best you can at the time.
listen and learn.
wouldnt want to meet with anyone that had preconceived ideas about how to do things anyway, would just make for a let down.
It's not about preconceived ideas its a generalisation to help ?
I know everyone is different but there is already starting to be a trend and that is to listen and learn ?
My Idea was to just chat about it and maybe find some new things to enjoy when with someone not just the run of the mill stuff
And of course to have a laugh along the way
It's about exploring and enjoying sex / foreplay
Yes I know you thought us guys didn't know about foreplay well we do but I for one want to find out more as its the key to great sex I think ???
Sex has not got last hours if you have good foreplay what do you think ?
i have no idea what you mean?
who says men know nothing about foreplay? i certainly didnt.
some men are ignorant to the needs of others, as are some women, others are great.
good foreplay doesnt mean sex is over quickly, i dont get you.
we only soft play, so to us, foreplay is more important than to a lot, because this is all we do with other people.
we have great penetrative sex with each other.
if you are one of those that thinks whats between your legs is the only pleasure giver, as opposed to whats between your ears, then i feel you may be missing the point"
My point it to use what is between my ears better
I am not arrogant just trying my best thats all and trying to find out from the woman's perspective
I want to better myself that's all is that wrong ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of us have no interest in getting to orgasm from a Fab meet - it's not what we want.
If guys would make fewer assumptions about it, then we'd be far more inclined to say yes to a meet, but it can be very off-putting when a guy starts by saying that he's guaranteed to get us off, or whatever...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not arrogant just trying my best thats all and trying to find out from the woman's perspective
I want to better myself that's all is that wrong ?"
not wrong at all, just easier and makes much more sense to sort it out with whoever you are with at the time.
what doe sit for V wont do it for Julie, and son on, so you would be wasting your time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Many of us have no interest in getting to orgasm from a Fab meet - it's not what we want.
If guys would make fewer assumptions about it, then we'd be far more inclined to say yes to a meet, but it can be very off-putting when a guy starts by saying that he's guaranteed to get us off, or whatever...
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I find I enjoy the flirting at a meet and never assume there will be sex that's just not the way it works for me
But sometimes it happens and it's fine if that's what everyone wants |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My own fingers.
 men can't make me cum  "
all men, or the ones you have been with?
its a big suggestion to say that no man, in the entire world, would be able to make you cum, however its easy to say those you have come into contact with so far havent done it for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My own fingers.
men can't make me cum
all men, or the ones you have been with?
its a big suggestion to say that no man, in the entire world, would be able to make you cum, however its easy to say those you have come into contact with so far havent done it for you"
Ok ok, I am yet to meet a man who can make me cum .... Better ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My own fingers.
men can't make me cum
all men, or the ones you have been with?
its a big suggestion to say that no man, in the entire world, would be able to make you cum, however its easy to say those you have come into contact with so far havent done it for you
Ok ok, I am yet to meet a man who can make me cum .... Better ?"
absolutely.
now that i have helped, await all your messages telling you that you ahvent met the right men and they can do it for you. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique  "
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
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Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway."
Erm yes it is! I know my body 
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it? "
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol"
Could just be piss haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol
Could just be piss haha "
Haha id know by the taste |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol"
P.S a number of ladies who do squirt say it is not the same thing as an orgasm
P.P.S no I don't squirt and no, no meet could make me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol
P.S a number of ladies who do squirt say it is not the same thing as an orgasm
P.P.S no I don't squirt and no, no meet could make me "
Well, theres only one way to find out.....FIIIIGHT lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol
P.S a number of ladies who do squirt say it is not the same thing as an orgasm
P.P.S no I don't squirt and no, no meet could make me
Well, theres only one way to find out.....FIIIIGHT lol"
I am off to hide behind Mister!!! You can fight him lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol
P.S a number of ladies who do squirt say it is not the same thing as an orgasm
P.P.S no I don't squirt and no, no meet could make me
Well, theres only one way to find out.....FIIIIGHT lol
I am off to hide behind Mister!!! You can fight him lmao "
Hmmmm im not sure my technique would work on him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
Your asking me how I know they didn't squirt...id have thought the answer was obvious lol
P.S a number of ladies who do squirt say it is not the same thing as an orgasm
P.P.S no I don't squirt and no, no meet could make me
Well, theres only one way to find out.....FIIIIGHT lol
I am off to hide behind Mister!!! You can fight him lmao
Hmmmm im not sure my technique would work on him lol"
It wouldn't work on either of us. |
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway."
being good at something is sexy
being arrogant with it, is more of a turn off. |
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"I was thinking about what was the best way to pleasure you ladies
What is your biggest turn on and how would us men best pleasure you
I think all guys should think about this don't you ?
I would imagine that it's different for everyone."
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over a year ago
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Sometimes its all about the X factor and sexual chemistry between 2 people, and that would be rare to get on a meet or club visit........some woman get off just on being naughty, but its the brain that needs the bigest stimulation
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then
After all it's your bodies and you know what they like
Also to concentrate on the other person more ?
No no!!!
Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only. "
Oh I beg to differ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think us guys need to listen more and be happy to take direction now and then
After all it's your bodies and you know what they like
Also to concentrate on the other person more ?
No no!!!
Listen to each other and work out what you both like, should not be about concentrating on one person only.
Oh I beg to differ! "
I am not as mean as you |
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
being good at something is sexy
being arrogant with it, is more of a turn off."
Very true, id never dream of being arrogant |
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
being good at something is sexy
being arrogant with it, is more of a turn off.
Very true, id never dream of being arrogant "
its lucky you dont need to dream about it then |
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
being good at something is sexy
being arrogant with it, is more of a turn off.
Very true, id never dream of being arrogant
its lucky you dont need to dream about it then"
Now now lol, |
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it? "
This!
I've only orgasmed with men I've had an emotional connection with and only ever had mind blowing orgasms with my husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im here to pleasure all the wemen i can.
Have been told by a few ladies that i have fantastic oral skills.
Xxxx"
thats a nice way of saying you talk a good fuck lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I think we are all I agreement that there are two ways Sex and making love
Sex is what ever it is for that person
Making love is an emotional act as well as a sexual one and with two different outcomes
We have all had sex but how many of us can say we have really made love ?
Now speaking from experience the feeling of making love to someone is truly amazing and effortless everything just happens the whole fireworks earth moving thing
I hope one day to experiance that again but until that time sex will have to do
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
Of course its not bollocks lol, unless your stopping yourself. It hasn't failed yet anyway.
Erm yes it is! I know my body
And no I am not stopping myself.
Having an orgasm for me comes from an emotional & physical connection and that is not, no matter if you can breath through your ears, going to happen on a meet! End of!
How do you know the women who it hasn't failed on yet are not faking it?
This!
I've only orgasmed with men I've had an emotional connection with and only ever had mind blowing orgasms with my husband."
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique "
What a ridiculous statement. How can you possible know this unless you've tried it on all women everywhere.
All you can say is the women you've been with have all orgasmed. And forgive me but you can't even say that with any certainty.
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique
Bollocks!
No meet would make me cum, regardless of technique!
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I can only orgasm with mental and some emotional connection... So it would fail on me too. |
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I'm surprised how many women say they don't orgasm on meets 
It can be lots of ways with me. Talking lots before meets always helps, so we both know what buttons to press  |
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"My own fingers.
men can't make me cum
all men, or the ones you have been with?
its a big suggestion to say that no man, in the entire world, would be able to make you cum, however its easy to say those you have come into contact with so far havent done it for you
Ok ok, I am yet to meet a man who can make me cum .... Better ?"
The more a guy tries to make me cum the less its possible. I can get close but never quite 'tip over'.
Btw i can be made to squirt, but its not an orgasm. |
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"One way - one man.
Never would happen on a meet.
Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together.
It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there.
True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ?"
much more important for me, i have never cum thro penetration, to be honest it don't do that much for me and could quite happy have a meet and only do the kissing, licking, sucking, touching |
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"One way - one man.
Never would happen on a meet.
Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together.
It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there.
True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ?
much more important for me, i have never cum thro penetration, to be honest it don't do that much for me and could quite happy have a meet and only do the kissing, licking, sucking, touching "
and you REALLY wont meet couples? lol |
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"I'm surprised how many women say they don't orgasm on meets
It can be lots of ways with me. Talking lots before meets always helps, so we both know what buttons to press "
I can count on one hand the guys that have made me orgasm... I have a good time... But till I met Lee I never came with a meet.
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We have only done soft meets (soon to change ) but V has already said she is not after orgasms and would find it frustrating if all the men played and played and played trying to make it happen, she would prefer for them to just fuck no holding back ... The pleasure is in the act if she needs to come she will make it happen or we will |
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V has never 'orgasmed' on a meet.
cum plenty, but never the big O.
doesnt seem to be a priority to most either as they see she squirts and its job done lol |
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Said it before, but anyone who says " I can make any woman xxxx" is an instant avoid for us.
From my experience (male) I can't think of 2 women who've liked exactly the same thing, so tend to go into every meet with an open mind and work it out as I go along.
Both of us have been shocked at the sheer uselessness of males, both that we've played with and seen in clubs.
We once witnessed a very pretty girl in a club go through several "Adonis" types in the club without cumming once and looked like she was ready to kill someone! Every single one of those guys walked away from her acting and thinking they'd given her a great time, hence why we take personal self appraisals with a pinch of salt.
As for what women like, just figure it out between you. If you need to be told that, you can join the queue of men who "can make any woman xxxx"
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"Its easy to make a woman cum, and to squirt, even if she's never done it before, its just technique "
Don't you mean: "It's easy to ignore what a woman actually wants and bore her to the point where she fakes an orgasm..."
In all my wide circle of women friends, I don't know a single one who hasn't ended up doing it just to save some poor guy's ego....
You'll never know for sure if we're faking it or not, will you...???
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Don't you mean: "It's easy to ignore what a woman actually wants and bore her to the point where she fakes an orgasm..."
In all my wide circle of women friends, I don't know a single one who hasn't ended up doing it just to save some poor guy's ego....
You'll never know for sure if we're faking it or not, will you...???
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet"
doesnt suprise me.
for V orgasms are the pinacle, that she can only get to when suitably relaxed, turned on and enjoying herself.
really dont think it is possible to get to the mental state where you are ready to have something like that, when being serviced by, or around, people you dont know that well. |
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet
I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one"
I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal |
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet
I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one
I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal "
*warning* unfounded ridiculous statement approaching. please stand clear *warning*
i reckon i could make you orgasm just by looking at you
*warning*unfounded ridiculous statement now moving away. please mind your feet. have a pleasant day*warning* |
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet
I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one
I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal "
Do a search on the forums as there are actually quite a few women who haven't ever orgasmed |
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"interesting how many women don't orgasm on a meet
I wonder out of that count, how many are like me and have never had one
I thought I was in the minority tbh. Glad I appear to be normal
Do a search on the forums as there are actually quite a few women who haven't ever orgasmed"
Very rare for me I think I'm just insatiable |
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How do you make a lady cum ? Simple answer you rarely can make a lady cum
Most men can be made to cum or at least they place their head in the right place so helping them to squirt is not to difficult thus they work on the same principle make cum
I would suggest one helps a lady to cum . It will be her decision whether she wants you to be part of it or not . However much stimulation you may provide if her mind is not in the zone it will not happen
is there a single key to a ladies orgasm yes in many cases there is
Will I disclose it absolutely not, apart from to say a number of ladies have given it away already on this thread  |
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"One way - one man.
Never would happen on a meet.
Try to thing about just having fun and let a woman guide you, and explore together.
It isn't all about the finish line but how you get there.
True have always thought that intercourse / sex as a full stop its the finishing act what happens before that is more important ?
much more important for me, i have never cum thro penetration, to be honest it don't do that much for me and could quite happy have a meet and only do the kissing, licking, sucking, touching "
Me to sex is not always important |
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"Just do what men have been doing forever. Make base camp on the nipples after sucking on them like they're going to come off, then head south, play a fleeting visit to the clitoris before you take that vagine to down to pound town. "
Funny as fuck! |
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