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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I need some help. My man has asked me to shock him in the bedroom. We've had a threesome and a foursome. He's not into bondage and he's more into bras and panties than suspenders and corsets etc. Could do with some ideas here. I'm extremely open minded. How do i shock him? Thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch "
lmao |
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Blindfold him when he comes home from work on a Friday night and guide him to the bedroom while telling him your thinking about stripping with him.
Removing the blindfold revealing decorating equipment with the message that he's redecorating the bedroom this weekend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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get a VVVWE bloke to stand naked in the bedroom, then when he comes in and says 'oo, im gonna enjoy watching you with him' say
'he isnt for me, bend over honey'
can imagine he would be shocked |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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If your not into BDSM purple wands would definitely be to extreme.
E-stim done properly isn't really very extreme, think along the lines of TENS for pleasure. Done well it can feel similar to having lots of tiny vibrators working in the stimulated part(s). Just be very gradual with the power settings. |
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Apart from threesome and foursomes what else have you done? What does he like, do you have an idea of any fantasies he might be thinking of but not talking about? What one person finds shocking another person will find full so we need a bit more information. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think he'd be in to a gang bang. He says anything i'm turned on by turns him on. Thats a lot of pressure though. Like i'm in to light bondage but he's not. I know there is things i would do that he wouldnt be comfortable with. Of all the things we've done, its me with another woman is the ultimate thing that turns him on. Been there and done that so obviously that doesnt shock him. I hope i'm not sounding to vague. You can let me know if you think i am. |
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I think he's asking a lot of you and you should take his assurance that whatever turns you on turns him on as fact. So why not combine your desire for bondage with his love if seeing you with a woman? Does he go for outdoor sex at all? Could you take him for a walk then surprise him by throwing your coat off to reveal that you're naked, kneel and beg to suck his cock and fuck him? Meet him during his lunch break and drag him off for a quickie? Or is that all too tame? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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No I think that probably isnt too tame. I think i need to nail down what his fantasies are and then i'll take it from there. Thats really helpful. Thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He wants to be cuckolded.lock him in a chastity device,tell him your going out, to meet another man. You could just pretend the first time to see how he reacts, just go the cinema or something. Come home and tell him all about how hard you got fucked! and how you loved it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch "
is that why shes the now ex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need some help. My man has asked me to shock him in the bedroom. We've had a threesome and a foursome. He's not into bondage and he's more into bras and panties than suspenders and corsets etc. Could do with some ideas here. I'm extremely open minded. How do i shock him? Thanks "
I have just had loads of fun tonight with a neon wand, specifically with the power tripper attachment. That'll be exciting and shocking for you both...loads of fun!!  better than expected!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch
is that why shes the now ex"
it was a joke, as id never go out with a lady if she couldn't cook, clean and iron in the first place  oppsss did I just say that, better run and hide  |
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"when I was with my ex she asked if there was anything she could do to shock me, I said yeah, stay off facebook, tidy the house up and have me tea on the table for once u lazy bitch
is that why shes the now ex
it was a joke, as id never go out with a lady if she couldn't cook, clean and iron in the first place oppsss did I just say that, better run and hide "
You'll be single then lol
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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago
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blindfold him. strip him naked and start to give him some head. Then hit play on the recording you made earlier asking him if he likes his cock being sucked while you watch?
Even indulge his threesome fantasy by telling him you are touching the girl while she sucks him?
When he hears your voice telling him to cum in her mouth at the same time you are sucking him he might just be shocked. It works better if he is gagged too, so he doesn't interupt the recording! |
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This may have been suggested or to tame, but whats wrong with the good old fashioned head, You need a glass of ice cubes and a mug of something warm.
Ideally he'd be blindfolded, but you lick/suck him, then get an ice cube and freeze him then take a warm drink and warm him up.
It's not e shocks or a massive dildo/man to do him up the ass but the change of temp on his intimate areas should keep him shocked for a little while, and which guy doesn't like head?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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if you have to ask a bunch of strangers whats going to shock someone they dont know, then you dont talk about your sex life together enough.
while lying in bed, stroking each others bits and pieces, preferably before sex, not after as we dont work after, try asking him his biggest thrills and fantasies, then you can work to the extremes of those. |
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If he likes the idea of a gang bang (or you with another man) and he also likes the idea of you with another woman....... why not blindfold him, invite a TV round, start playing with the TV then let him watch? |
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