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over a year ago
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"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites
Hope I am not too far away lol  funny we just had one from Leeds. It wasnt you tho"
I wonder who that was lol  |
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over a year ago
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I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them. |
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"To perv pics ...I just delete them
Don't delete, allegedly if you leave the invite sitting there they can't send another for 30 days"
I simply block. If they show no manners why would I want to be friends with them. They are very naughty boys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them. "
Sneaky. I like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont understand people that have private pics the same as their public ones.
surely private is for those you dont want everyone to see (maybe intimate ones, or face pics)
its very random |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To perv pics ...I just delete them
Don't delete, allegedly if you leave the invite sitting there they can't send another for 30 days"
Can they send another after the .30 days ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont understand people that have private pics the same as their public ones.
surely private is for those you dont want everyone to see (maybe intimate ones, or face pics)
its very random"
Agreed. I think its to attract more attention. I.E. Get mail asking for a peek at their pics. |
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You mean you can get friends invites  lol
Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away
It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that
Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday  |
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"You mean you can get friends invites lol
Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away
It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that
Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday "
The majority are unsolicited.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You mean you can get friends invites lol
Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away
It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that
Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday
The majority are unsolicited. "
Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean you can get friends invites lol
Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away
It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that
Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday
The majority are unsolicited.
Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?"
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why be friends with someone who you have no intention of meeting??
We have plenty of pics not only of ourselves but others too....so why put them in private if we are going to share with random people miles away??
Some people won't get het up about it as they don't have personal pictures or pictures in their private gallery.
Gets on our nerves!!! We delete all friend requests from people who can be bothered to mail us and never send a request to anyone of the same.
But if people don't think that 'private' pics are for 'private' use.....go back to Facebook...
Sorry rant over. Lol |
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^ "
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes. "
Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first). |
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Must add, it isn't always single males doing this, get a few from couples. Mind when I feel cheeky I tease the couple to find out if it is the male or female sending invite. Any bets who in the couple are responsible in the majority if cases? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Must add, it isn't always single males doing this, get a few from couples. Mind when I feel cheeky I tease the couple to find out if it is the male or female sending invite. Any bets who in the couple are responsible in the majority if cases? "
The female! They're always the nosiest! |
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.
Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first)."
As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.
Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).
As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get? "
I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have many random friends requests daily, I just ignore them,my friends list is for people I've met either socially or for fun
I like to keep up with statuses etc of people I know ,my mugshot in all private pics and completely different to front as chop me head of a lot there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My Friends list started out as a "people I have played with" list, now it's gained some "people I want to play with" as well now."
In my experience the I want to play with never played just all talk to get on my list
Real genuine meets are happy with a pic of my mugshot,and are patient and get accepted wen met |
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.
Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).
As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?
I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point. "
But you would agree that single females will get far more? You get loads, they will get loads more. Mind would be interesting to see how many invites you get from 'straight' males |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.
Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).
As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?
I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point.
But you would agree that single females will get far more? You get loads, they will get loads more. Mind would be interesting to see how many invites you get from 'straight' males "
Of course i'd agree that women get more attention than guys. And its usually always straight guys that want to be friends. Maybe they fancy going for a pint now n again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?
Hate to have to agree but ^^^this^^^
Why does having a profile on here mean that random invites from people, who have not bothered to send you a message, not unsolicited? Is taking the time to send a message first too much to ask? Laziness and bad manners really doesn't tick a lot of people's boxes.
Because the simple fact of having a profile means your open to invites. Whether those invites are friends, meets or just to chat with! I don't get worked up about friend invites as i've previously stated. I just flete the unwanted ones, (after having a perv first).
As a man, how many unsolicited invites do you get? How does that compare to how many single females get?
I get loads actually. Usually from other guys but thats not the point.
But you would agree that single females will get far more? You get loads, they will get loads more. Mind would be interesting to see how many invites you get from 'straight' males "
Still don't see what the big deal is. You don't have to do anything with the invites. Simply ignore. Do they jump out if the screen and kick you in the fanny? Are they losing you sleep? Noooooo. Ps.You haven't accepted my friend request yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wait until they're offline, accept their request, perv their pics (if women) then delete them from friends before they're back. Oh, and send them a message saying how much i enjoyed them. "
Ooh that's sneaky ! But I like it going for a perv right now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"
I use a tablet sometimes and in error have hit the send invite as it sits below send wink this is because touch screens aren't always accurate. I'm not saying this is everyones reason but just possibility?
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"Why do people from hundreds of miles away send us random friend invites"
I get these as well. I don't delete the request though so they cant ask again. I prefer my friends to be either people I have met or like chatting to or have something about them that I like. Random requests just get ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!"
Gutted. No honestly I am. Sense of humour failure lol. Right I'm off to find the nearest bridge. Been emotional.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!"
People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!
People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know. "
How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol. |
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!
People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.
How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol."
I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny
With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!
People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.
How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.
I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny
With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria. "
So basically you fuck all your friends? Surely the Friend option is there so you can add people you might actually just be quite content to chat and banter with. So in your case it should be called a Fuck List. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You mean you can get friends invites lol
Can't see why you can't be friends from miles away
It's just like being pen-pals or is it just me that remembers all that
Surely it could lead to meeting up if all clicked even for just a holiday
The majority are unsolicited.
Tbf, the simple fact of having a profile on here means that messages, winks and so on aren't unsolicited though. Otherwise, why have a profile?"
This
I might have a nose when they are offline if I have time, otherwise doesn't bother me and the requests can just sit there.
I have people I accept as friends as I want to keep in touch with them.
That is the way I use it.
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!
People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.
How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.
I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny
With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria.
So basically you fuck all your friends? Surely the Friend option is there so you can add people you might actually just be quite content to chat and banter with. So in your case it should be called a Fuck List. "
I have friends outside the side for social activities. I am here to meet people to play with, not talk about the news and weather. Isn't that what Facebook is all about? We are all here for different reasons, my reasons are clear. Simplez |
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"And one this morning from...Southampton, yeah that will lead to a meet!
People do travel and work in different areas though. We have had a couple of very good distance meets so you never know.
How very true. Unfortunately it's a little pop at me. I hilariously sent a friend invite in response to the scathing comments about how dare people bither them. Gurss it wasn't funny lol.
I mentioned no names, you outed yourself. Now that is funny, not hilarious but certainly funny
With regards distance, I am a working single parent so long distance just isn't going to work. Time is at a premium and most of my meets are short notice. The fact remains, unsolicited invites just end up on my blocked list. They are tedious, show lack of imagination or effort and more often than not come from single males who do not fit my criteria.
So basically you fuck all your friends? Surely the Friend option is there so you can add people you might actually just be quite content to chat and banter with. So in your case it should be called a Fuck List.
I have friends outside the side for social activities. I am here to meet people to play with, not talk about the news and weather. Isn't that what Facebook is all about? We are all here for different reasons, my reasons are clear. Simplez"
So I'm right. Cool. Leave it there then. No really shhhhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don't mind people perving our pictures, but our profiles states this.
" If you want to friend us to look at our pictures, we don't have a problem with that no matter your orientation. Just send us a message first telling us why your sending us the friend invite Otherwise we will DELETE the request. "
Only about 1 in 30 people that send requests read our profile and bother to send us a message telling us why the are sending the request. If they can't follow instructions, they don't get to peek. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't mind long distance friend invites as long as I've had some interaction with them in the forums and in pm's first. I don't mind travelling a fair old distance for a meet if that's why they want to be on my list either... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we will sometimes accept requests from a distnce away, if we have been chatting and get on, as we fancy having holidays away from time to time, and using it as an excuse to visit that area is only a positive thing |
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