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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well on a serious note:-
I think that those who indicate that they will meet anyone from 18-99 are simply saying that age is of no concern to them, I am such a person, if I find someone sexually attractive I find them attractive, it's as easy as that, age does not come into the equation, I do have criteria age is not one of them.
At the age of 53 I experience a lot of ageism, many people "write me off" when they read my profile, why shouldn't they ? having an age criteria is no different to any other meeting criteria, black, white, large small, bald, long haired, shaven, hairy, tall, short etc.
Now personally I am lucky, I can get to a club where my age is less apparent, at clubs people don't see my age they see a person where other attributes are apparent, some people see a sense of humour as being important, respectfullness, the ability to hold a conversation, a good physique no matter what age, personality and so on, like I say I am lucky and obviously have some of the other attributes that make people choose me to play with and my age is not always taken into account.
I have noticed at clubs that there are all types of people, young and old, I have seen many guys half my age who, shall we say "have not kept themselves in as good a shape as I have", who have no respect, no ability to hold a conversation, no sense of humour etc, so I have no hang-ups about my age.
Having an age criteria is not a bad thing, some people consider sex to be fun with people of any age, size or looks, that is good for them, many people have different criteria, only black, only white, large, slim, old, young, couples, singles they all have thier preferences and this is thier right.
So far only us old twats have got a mention in this thread, the poor youngsters get declined for thier age more often than us wrinklies, many guys and girls are considered too young to play with.
In defence of us old folk, many people find older people attractive when they forget about thier age, Kylie Mynogue is 40, Cliff Richards is 69, Sylvester Stallone is 62, Maddonna is 50, Sean Connery is 78, Pierce Brosnan is 55, Micky Rooney is 88, Cher is 62, Diana Ross is 64, Simon Cowell is 59 (sorry im_the_one he is outside your age criteria by 23 years), Gordon Ramsay is 46. Anna Ford is 63, Jeremy Kyle is 43, Tom Cruise is 46, Nicole Kidman is 41 ....... How many of you with an age limit would turn down sex with at every single one of the above soley because of thier age ?
So have your age criteria or any other criteria for playing, that is your right, just please, don't be abusive to anyone outside your criteria unless they deserve it, if they ignore your criteria and contact you anyway they deserve it, if they show you respect by accepting your wishes respect them back. |
Karen & Ian x
where there's a willy there's a way 