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over a year ago
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When I tried anal I found lying on my side the best position, also good with a bullet vibe on your clit!!!
But I'm not a big fan, some of us never really take to it and prefer other stuff.
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"Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube."
So are you a fan of it yourself vanilla? Do you still need a little butt plug to warm you up? |
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"Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube.
So are you a fan of it yourself vanilla? Do you still need a little butt plug to warm you up?"
Part of my prep. |
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"Start off with a small butt plug to help relax the sphincter, with lube.
So are you a fan of it yourself vanilla? Do you still need a little butt plug to warm you up?
Part of my prep."
Have you never "collar"ed anyone willing to warm it up with their tongue? |
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The deep breathing will also ensure there's plenty of blood to supply your tissues, allowing easier stretching.
Start the anal after some foreplay, as the higher your sexual arousal, the easier it should be. As others say, rimming will get you more sexually turned-on down there. You also don't have to do a full session in one go, you can stop and start, perhaps getting in deeper each time etc.
It's worth playing with different positions: it's also about what you find pleasurable and not just easier. Potentially just bent over is simple and adjustable, as is on all fours. As you build up expertise, you'll have an incredible variety of positions to move onto. Have fun  |
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Firstly a nice massage will help to put her in the mood. Hover about her arse teasing her with your fingers and of course tongue. Now the all important lube use lots and then lots more and start by inserting a solitary finger slow and easy and then graduate to 2 fingers. If she is happy with this the go for it, but 1st use more lube on her and LUBE YOUR COCK aswel I'm sure then she will be able to accommodate your cock. Remember pull out of course if she feels any uncomfortable sensations, you can of course try again at a later date. All the best and hope the pair of you enjoy your anal experiences. By the way, maybe you should allow her to finger fuck your arse aswel using of course lots of lube and maybe you could graduate onto a dildo or vibrator in the future  |
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"My top tip - when you first put finger in, use the pad if your fingertip and gently massage until it is taken in. resist the urge to poke !"
Still reckon a tongue is better than finger |
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