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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you've only been on 6 weeks and had a meet already, thats better than a lot of men do on here
If you joined thinking women would be tripping over themselves to meet you and you'd be fighting them off with a base ball bat, your soon to find out swinging isnt like that, unless your me of course lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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perseverance dude as there's so many guys compared to single gals and couples....,,they can obviously pick and choose. They also get so many messages that it's not feasable for them to answer everyone. It can be depressing lol when you do get a message back even thanks but no thanks brightens your day pmsl. Be yourself, keep trying, be prepared to travel outside your locality......hope that helps, herels me speaking like a veteran lol........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As already mentioned by the others, you have had one meet in 6 weeks, and that is good going for a single gent who cannot accommodate IMHO!
Have patience and don't give up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience ... and give it time just like everyone else says. Well worded messages and take rejection on the chin 
Hark at me fountain of all knowledge this morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps you could include in your profile the reason why you cannot accommodate, as not being able to accommodate is often associated with someone who is playing away, which is frowned upon by a lot of peeps on here. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Perhaps you could include in your profile the reason why you cannot accommodate, as not being able to accommodate is often associated with someone who is playing away, which is frowned upon by a lot of peeps on here. "
But not by all people. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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My other half wouldn't have been able to accomodate when we first met. He wasn't married, but also didn't have his own place.
There are lots of reasons why people can't accomodate, but for me, unless you are going to meet that person it isn't anyone else's business.
Obviously it will ring alarm bells with people and those people normally stay away from such profiles, but for others they like to give the benefit of the doubt.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im single and i dont accommodate, reason being, im a single woman and i dont think its safe hading out my address to you nutters lol"
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I would keep your self-respect. If you get a bit "down" & try too hard, you could get into the merry-go-round of desperate dating. Logging on the site many times a day, sending messages to anyone "vaguely" suitable etc, then when you get few or no replys feel bad about it, then wonder what is wrong with you yadda yadda. & if you do get a reply it gives you a quick lift.
I suggest not putting much mental, emotional energy into this or any dating or sex website. They just are not worth it. Better meeting up with people from and in the "real" world rather than folk off the internet. That is my experience over the last 10years of using the internet, and being badly messed around by a few I met online.  |
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