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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

...on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well they won't know until they look

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"take it as a compliment"

erm.....okay

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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I fyou're getting messages use the filter to block single men from contacting you

Can't help with the ones that are looking at you though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe it has something to do with your profile pic

I agree with the poster above, be flattered and not offended!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!

"

Many Bi men it would seem hide that fact and state straight on their profile, so they could be just wondering if you do the same.

The ones that only look (as stated) wont know your sexuality according to your profile, besides they could be looking for many reasons, to see if you have any verifications and if so to take tips from your profile, because you have posted in the forums, or chat room, just to have a nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

lol I did laugh at the self concious comment with your profile picture being what it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"lol I did laugh at the self concious comment with your profile picture being what it is "

would you like me to change it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your not the only one i get it too.

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"lol I did laugh at the self concious comment with your profile picture being what it is

would you like me to change it?"

The first pic on your profile might be a better one to use, in my opinion anyway - damn that means I just had a peek at your profile too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Your not the only one i get it too."

Glad I'm not the only one, was wondering!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention "

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off."

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off."

Not unless you are registered on there.

People won't know what you are looking for and why they will look at your profile. Block single men from viewing your profile if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off."

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Not unless you are registered on there.

People won't know what you are looking for and why they will look at your profile. Block single men from viewing your profile if it bothers you."

Didn't realise I could do that, thought it was only messages that could be blocked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject"

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

"

This is your OP

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..."on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!"

I can't see anything there that is asking the question of whether your and other single guys profiles are being used on fabguys

Thats why I said it was a different subject.......because it is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/03/10 16:06:39]

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

"

Hi Mr Pedantic

Your opening post was '...on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!'

Nothing about someone using your profile/pics on another FAB site

Signed

Mr Pedantic 2

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

This is your OP

.

.

.

..."on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!"

I can't see anything there that is asking the question of whether your and other single guys profiles are being used on fabguys

Thats why I said it was a different subject.......because it is

"

Snap - Your typing must be quicker than mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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Snap!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

This is your OP

.

.

.

..."on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!"

I can't see anything there that is asking the question of whether your and other single guys profiles are being used on fabguys

Thats why I said it was a different subject.......because it is

Snap - Your typing must be quicker than mine "

and me, hence me deleting my post, lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have to say, tannedandtall's profile text isamusing

Tony

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

This is your OP

.

.

.

..."on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!"

I can't see anything there that is asking the question of whether your and other single guys profiles are being used on fabguys

Thats why I said it was a different subject.......because it is

"

Have you ever heard of lateral thinking?......didn't think so.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Not unless you are registered on there.

People won't know what you are looking for and why they will look at your profile. Block single men from viewing your profile if it bothers you.

Didn't realise I could do that, thought it was only messages that could be blocked?"

If you find anyone looking at your profile that you don't want them to, then manually block them from looking at it.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

To be fair Tannedandtall, your question started off with why are people looking at me to a suggestion that your profile has been posted on another site without your knowledge.

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

This is your OP

.

.

.

..."on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!"

I can't see anything there that is asking the question of whether your and other single guys profiles are being used on fabguys

Thats why I said it was a different subject.......because it is

Have you ever heard of lateral thinking?......didn't think so."

I was thinking it would have to be more like mind reading rather than lateral thinking for us to know the 2 subjects were related!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"well use your filters to stop men messaging you its easy

Unless you secretly like the attention

It's not a question of if I "secretly like the attention", I'm totally ambivalent, just wondering if my and other single males profiles were being posted on the other FAB site, in which case I'd be royally pissed off.

Why did'nt you post that at the beginning then

Its a compleletly different subject

Call me pedantic, but how is that a different subject?

This is your OP

.

.

.

..."on my profile to suggest I'm anything other than straight. Why is it then that I get so many messages and "looked at" notifications from other guys?

Beginning to feel a little self conscious!"

I can't see anything there that is asking the question of whether your and other single guys profiles are being used on fabguys

Thats why I said it was a different subject.......because it is

Have you ever heard of lateral thinking?......didn't think so."

Oh don't be so bloody rude

I gave you good advice at the start,just because you hav'nt got a sense of humour and took one of my posts the wrong way which I put a wink and a smile at the end of ,you're now getting pissy about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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I also notice that the only person he has responed with a shitty attitude to is a woman

2 other men have agreed with me but you hav'nt said a word to them

Im clearing off of this thread before I really say something I may have to ban myself for

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"I also notice that the only person he has responed with a shitty attitude to is a woman

2 other men have agreed with me but you hav'nt said a word to them

Im clearing off of this thread before I really say something I may have to ban myself for "

I did notice that too, but I bet he has had a sneaky peek at both our profiles though

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

ok time out Tall with the insults.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Poop, try again, don't want people thinking Ms Rooney posted that.

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Just a thought, but maybe he doesn't want to put off the guys form looking.

tongue firmly in cheek, don't take offence Mr OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Poop, try again, don't want people thinking Ms Rooney posted that.

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Just a thought, but maybe he doesn't want to put off the guys form looking.

tongue firmly in cheek, don't take offence Mr OP. "

I expected better from you than that!

Tongue equally firmly in cheek, and from you I don't think anyone could ever take offence!

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By *b430Man  over a year ago

Tayside


"Poop, try again, don't want people thinking Ms Rooney posted that.

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Just a thought, but maybe he doesn't want to put off the guys form looking.

tongue firmly in cheek, don't take offence Mr OP. "

I do prefer your other profile to this one, it could have something to do with the pic selection, I just hope you don't mind me looking at your profile though?

Tongue firmly in my cheek there too

Right, although this is fun I have a Social to attend tonight and sitting here is stopping me getting ready

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