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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well peeps tonight I got a message off a couple asking for pics so sent a few and they liked, they asked for a number but I refused to give it out, however I did say I would do a social first or skype call.

I basically got this as a reply saying I was a player and I don't have a clue about swinging. Followed by a bit more abuse

My question is am I a player for not giving my number out to people I don't know?

Could I of done anything different?

Was I right to stick to my guns?

I'm not desperate to jump into anything rushed for the sake of a fuck, or do people like them really exist that because I'm a single bloke I'll do anything I'm told to get laid, as according to them I'm a player and making excuses.

Thoughts ..........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

no, you play it exactly how you see fit and feel comfortable doing so.

dont let anyone tell you how you should be doing things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Stick to your own standards.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sounds to me that they have no idea how the swinging world works!

Delete and forget...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are you absolutely sure they were a couple?

But to answer you're questions, no you're not a player, no, you shouldn't have done anything different and yes, you were very right to stick to your guns

I only give my number out to those I've chatted to on here for a while so I trust them and when I know a meet is likely to take place. Only three men on Fab have my number!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks peeps glad Im not alone in what I was thinking was right just needed to get a concensus on if I was over reacting or not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do what you feel comfortable with and ignore the abuse. I always meet socially first and have had abuse and been called a time waster for it but do I really care, do I want to meet someone with an attitude like that? Certainly not. Genuine people are happy to meet socially and definitely never feel the need to abuse others.

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