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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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looks then personality, they have to look ok to me but not good looking.
its not always easy to tell just by looking at pictures what people are like but you can get a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing draws to me tbh, if they are up to fuck thats all that matters  ."
Well, at least you are honest. 
Both for me, I don't really want to sleep with someone if I'm not physically attracted to them but I wouldn't sleep with them if they were a complete a-hole either (although I would just do them up the arse now I mention it). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing draws to me tbh, if they are up to fuck thats all that matters .
Well, at least you are honest.
Both for me, I don't really want to sleep with someone if I'm not physically attracted to them but I wouldn't sleep with them if they were a complete a-hole either (although I would just do them up the arse now I mention it)."
Thanks and yes its good to be honest to. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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First it's looks (am I attracted to them) then personality (do I want to spend time with them)
If the answer is no to any of the above, then it's out with the wand! I can wait for who I want to meet!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a person doesn't like what they are looking at then it doesn't matter to many if you have the best personality in the world they don't stand much chance of anything more than chatting.
Male or female.
(Just my opinion - no offense intended) |
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"If a person doesn't like what they are looking at then it doesn't matter to many if you have the best personality in the world they don't stand much chance of anything more than chatting.
Male or female.
(Just my opinion - no offense intended)"
Yes I'm inclined to agree, not many of us are here to form committed relationships we're meeting for sex so looks are the main thing initially. Of course you need to get along I do have to like the people we meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here via a message I would say looks 1st & personality 2nd.
In the forums though peoples personalities can shine through which can be a very attractive trait.
So all in all ~ both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both as the people have to be reasonably attractive but personality is a huge part as we love to laugh & really don't take playing too seriously. Afterall this supposed to be FUN |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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Both - obviously I have to be physically attracted to someone, but I am afraid that the most attractive of people can put me off by opening their mouth.
I have met truly stunning women that I could just never, ever fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality "
Looks same as just about everyone then personality I laugh at this personality mainly thing as you get no replies without pictures but 10x more with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like people with personality too but looks are important too. Having said that most people have something really nice about them. So it's their whole persona wich appeals to me the most. Jim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to have both ...... looks only get you so far in this . Can have the best body and face and he a real nasty piece of work ."
I totally agee. Being a nice person is really important to me too. And being a interesting and a giver of pleasure is so important too xx Jim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality
Looks same as just about everyone then personality I laugh at this personality mainly thing as you get no replies without pictures but 10x more with them."
Agreed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both are important, there has to be some degree of physical attraction in order to sexually excite me toward a woman, but if they have little in the way of an attractive personality also, then their initial appeal soon wears off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely both, there has to be a connection with personality in order to keep our attention but the physical attraction is just as important when organising meets.
Miss Mcjoy  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A nice healthy mix of both, the looks will draw you in initially in most cases, but a shining personality, a filthy sense of humour and passion will keep me coming back |
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Personality comes into it after the fancy the pants off him stage is decided. Even if a man is drop dead gorgeous I still need to find him interesting enough to talk to and spend time with before and after we get jiggy
