I like the wink system too, unfortunately many single women don't.
I've read on so many profiles winks and friends requests will be ignored (friends requests I understand).
Yet these same profiles usualy have a status often saying "too many messages can't reply have to mass delete if you are interested please message again".
Some people just seem to make things harder for themselves as I think winks are great way to show initial interest.
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over a year ago
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Don't mind receiving them if someone is a but shy or just wants to grab our attention, they're harmless. We send them to people who tickle our fancy as an icebreaker, usually followed up with a message. |
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over a year ago
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But surely the wink option is on here for a reason. I always reply to someone who's winked at me. I just think it's a nice way to know that someone has viewed your profile and likes what they've seen. |
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over a year ago
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Rarely but did other day found a local blackman its a miracle ,been chatting this week,meeting social soon 
I just don't take notice of many winkers,there always afar |
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over a year ago
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Isn't a wink just the smile across the bar before you decide to go and talk?
Dunno why some profiles rage about it like they do.
We use it express interest. If someone smiles back we go talk....... |
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I agree 
