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Why do single guys want couples???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably that reason, or maybe they like the thrill of the partner watching him pleasure his misses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some"
There must be a shit load of bi men on here then; not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some
There must be a shit load of bi men on here then; not!"
There are the secret straight bi men dont forget  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here as a single guy and I have met couples and I am straight.
It's also not to just fuck the female, for me it was to take part in 3 some, to dp and spit roast the female, just watching the female change positions move between me and her partner was a huge turn on and is the same reason Bev and I meet single guys now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I should think because it's extremely horny to watch a lady you just fucked getting fucked by somebody else. Up Close and in your face. Like a porno but it's real.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reason id like to meet a nice couple would be to play with both of them, not just the lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy fucking a guy's wife and it's a horny sight when a girl is getting 2 cocks at once. Also I'm bi so it is the best of both worlds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do it because I like pleasing women and I love it when she's being fucked by me and she's sucking him off at the same time.
I'm not bi there is just something about a 3some I like...  |
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Same here mate.....i am totally straight but since my first mmf a few years back i just enjoy the thrill of meeting couples.
Its a good feeling being friends with someone with the added bonus of fucking his wife. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Theres a different dynamic with couples, not just the physical but socially thats One of the reasons I meet couples  |
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I am a bi male and the reason I get to meet couples is that I get to pleasure both of my guests,,extremely sensual and erotic situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
What a lovely looking lady you are.
Why, well it makes for a lot of fun and variation and giving pleasure is a real pleasure. ... The lady of the couple gets constant attention ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
tbh I cannot see the attraction either. I don't search for couples, as I'm just not bothered with massaging the ego of the male, just to get t pleasure his Mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think single guys also like meeting couples as they know then there definitely are no strings attached.
We've met guys who've had so many problems with single women getting clingy that it puts them off at times, and questioning who they're meeting by their veri's.
Just a possibility and I'm not saying all single fems are like but there are a few out there who want more than a meet. |
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Love new ting couples ,the nervous tension leading up to the meet knowing someone else's wife wants to have sex with you and not worrying about the hubby coming home half way through wanting to kill you. Lol. Always different types of meets too some like to be active so you can spit roast Dp or double vag . Others like to watch and direct some are cuck and once had one who went downstairs I just said I need to hear her cum . So I love it for the variety . |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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on a swingers site, I would guess sex.
if straight, then with the woman
if bi, then probably both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some
There must be a shit load of bi men on here then; not!"
Why not... Plenty of straight men enjoy a woman being greedy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
Nah I enjoy watching couples fucking,I also enjoy having my dick sucked while she is being fucked.100% straight. |
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
We have met a few single guys - we're not that moihered what their motivation is as long as we have fun! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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TBH I don't think the reason is important but I am glad they are on here as I love getting fucked by single guys while my other half watches |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I have been known to meet a bi couple and suck the guy's cock, she wasn't left out though... I just asked her to 'pop the kettle on'....
gives me a fucking huge thirst.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it's fun. I enjoy the interaction. I like being watched. I really like spit roasting. I like being able to have a rest and watch in long sessions. And I look forward to being part of a dp or dvp at some stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As well as the physical intimacy of being with a couple, I get a lot of pleasure from simply being in the same room and watching them play.
There's a voyeuristic side to me which really gets off on the act of seeing a couple in the throes of passion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss.
tbh I cannot see the attraction either. I don't search for couples, as I'm just not bothered with massaging the ego of the male, just to get t pleasure his Mrs."
My ego doesn't get massaged by this and it's a bit of narrow minded attitude. A 3some is extremely erotic and watching a woman enjoying 2 guys is a fantastic thing to see . I suspect your life may be lacking some experience if you don't enjoy this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss.
tbh I cannot see the attraction either. I don't search for couples, as I'm just not bothered with massaging the ego of the male, just to get t pleasure his Mrs.
My ego doesn't get massaged by this and it's a bit of narrow minded attitude. A 3some is extremely erotic and watching a woman enjoying 2 guys is a fantastic thing to see . I suspect your life may be lacking some experience if you don't enjoy this."
In your humble opinion of course....? Each to their own I would've thought.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss.
tbh I cannot see the attraction either. I don't search for couples, as I'm just not bothered with massaging the ego of the male, just to get t pleasure his Mrs.
My ego doesn't get massaged by this and it's a bit of narrow minded attitude. A 3some is extremely erotic and watching a woman enjoying 2 guys is a fantastic thing to see . I suspect your life may be lacking some experience if you don't enjoy this.
In your humble opinion of course....? Each to their own I would've thought.
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lol yed in my very humble and often very wrong opinion. But it is only an opinion x |
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"I've been on here as a single guy and I have met couples and I am straight.
It's also not to just fuck the female, for me it was to take part in 3 some, to dp and spit roast the female, just watching the female change positions move between me and her partner was a huge turn on and is the same reason Bev and I meet single guys now"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine, and its certainly the case for us, is people like to indulge in something a little different. They dont want just a mf scenario, they want something a bit naughtier, forbidden and taboo, a fantasy, like someone earlier described it as a real life porn film, and that's true, you get to see and do things from a different perspective that you cannot achieve in just a mf s scenario.
Many guys can go out at night and get casual sex and even if the sex is good and a variety of positions and great technique, it is still something he's experienced time and time again.
The threesome is different. There are more positions that can be achieved that are a complete new experience. I don't know why people assume the guy is looking secretly for a bit of man on man. Its a fantasy, variety, thrilling with the added taboo which gives it the edge.
And of course it does tend to be no strings fun as the woman is never likely to want more.
Fab allows the opportunity to fulfil a. fantasy, so why stick to conventional if
You can have so much more.
Id imagine that's the thought process behind why men seek couples and why couples allow another man through the hallowed doors of their bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
It's an important question for us. We try to find single guys who genuinely enjoy the unique pleasures of a MFM threesome, rather than the ones who are just after a fuck with someone's wife. There's a big difference in attitude and an even bigger difference in the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet single guys and single women, we think its soo horny watching each other play and also the 3rd party will have no emotional attachment for either of us so everyone uses each other for perfect no strings attached fun x.... Shame so many single guys ruin it for the others with crude or copy n paste mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of guys get clingy too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another reason to meet a couple is learning to be a better lover. I wasn't a hair puller until I was playing with a lady, and her husband told me to pull her hair. I did and she loved it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here mate.....i am totally straight but since my first mmf a few years back i just enjoy the thrill of meeting couples.
Its a good feeling being friends with someone with the added bonus of fucking his wife."
Very nice basic reason for enjoying this type of activity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many more possibilities with a couple.
We know some guys who prefer a couple to a single because of the variety, and of course the added kink of fucking somebody elses wife (yey me!)
Sure some guys are just desperate for a fuck but don't assume it's any more meaningful if they approach a single female.
Having both a single/couple profile I see first hand. |
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I like the cuckold scenario myself
Also there's no strings attached and the single guy don't want any commitments
I like giving pleasure to a wife as her husband watches .
Once the fun starts and all 3 are comfortable the wife would be more eager to please and to be pleasured .This leads to a highly erotic time had by all
(So get in touch cucks) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
Being honest when I was single this would have been the reason for me. And was also the reason couples never interested me. A big part of group fun for me is watching crystal (and previous partners) getting fucked and knowing she is watching me. Remove that emotional dynamic and group sex has zero appeal for me personally. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"A lot of guys get clingy too! "
not just guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a bi male and the reason I get to meet couples is that I get to pleasure both of my guests,,extremely sensual and erotic situation."
Absolutely right.....looking for a couple and to enjoy both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Husbands like to please their lady and I enjoy making the lady happy too. The best bit is feeling part of a team aimed at making their mfm dreams come true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss.
Being honest when I was single this would have been the reason for me. And was also the reason couples never interested me. A big part of group fun for me is watching crystal (and previous partners) getting fucked and knowing she is watching me. Remove that emotional dynamic and group sex has zero appeal for me personally."
Me too, thought I was weird though. I feel better knowing it's not just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest - I've always been a '1 on 1' person myself, but wouldn't turn group meet down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss "
Was just thinking the same. Bemuses me how some people find themselves onto this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are looking for a kinky,fit,Bi male to join is for regular meets mmmm yummy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always enjoyed mmf porn. That led me to want to try it. I just find it a massive turn on to watch a woman receive such pleasure,taking more than one cock. In taking part in a mmf I'm fulfilling my fantasy and helping the couple with theirs, leads to a lot of sexual electricity. |
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Well Married Ladies are more Fun lol |
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Im totally straight so no bi reason for wanting mmf
It just turns me on meeting couples...as long as its relaxed its great fun
I dont bother chasing single fems on here for a few reasons i wont go into |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss.
It's an important question for us. We try to find single guys who genuinely enjoy the unique pleasures of a MFM threesome, rather than the ones who are just after a fuck with someone's wife. There's a big difference in attitude and an even bigger difference in the experience."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
Two get a shag with both of them is the main reason...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of our MMF meets have beem with bi guys. Though most are up for MMMF or any size/type of group |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss "
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am naive to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am naive to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple. "
True - why people that don't agree with swinging would sign up to a swinging site I don't understand however. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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SAme as why do single women want a couple, a shag ofcourse lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once posted on a golfing forum "why do you all feel the need to ruin a good walk?"....didn't go down too well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once posted on a golfing forum "why do you all feel the need to ruin a good walk?"....didn't go down too well "
What were you doing on a golf forum in the first place?... oh, I see a pattern here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
some couples want men too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all of us are interested in couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am naive to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple.
True - why people that don't agree with swinging would sign up to a swinging site I don't understand however."
I didn't say I didn't agree with it, it's just not for me that's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
You really cant think of another reason? Maybe its because we might be adventurous, kinky, and imaginative and not just horny. Does your failure to consider these properties, speak volumes about YOU?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
where the world takes me |
Because i'm bi and it's an ultimate fantasy to have a domme woman make me play with her man or have him take me whilst my head is between her thighs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best experiences have been with couples where the woman enjoys the attention of 2 men. That is why I seek couples. Hope that answers the OPs question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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same here, I am here to shag mostly single women. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
As a single guy I met couples - because the female half enjoyed the attention of, and playing with two guys at once.
As a couple we meet single guys - for the same reason.
It's a different dynamic. Not just a question of one persons agenda.
We've even been known to meet more than one single guy at once.
Shocking, I know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am naive to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple.
True - why people that don't agree with swinging would sign up to a swinging site I don't understand however.
I didn't say I didn't agree with it, it's just not for me that's all."
Sorry - I must have taken the wrong meaning from the "So yes, I am naive to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple." bit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there. is most. of them. mail me  |
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"Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some
There must be a shit load of bi men on here then; not!
There are the secret straight bi men dont forget "
Must be loads as they keep sending me messages.... Or they can't read.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss. You really cant think of another reason? Maybe its because we might be adventurous, kinky, and imaginative and not just horny. Does your failure to consider these properties, speak volumes about YOU?"
No, it doesn't. fab is a tiny part of my life and whatever assumptions you've made about me are ignorant and incorrect. Think before you lay into people for no apparent reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I merely asked a question. Just as you did. You assumed you knew the reason for single males preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I merely asked a question. Just as you did. You assumed you knew the reason for single males preferences. "
I didn't know the reason, which is why I asked the question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets do a similar thread but asking why single women wanna fuck couples, for an easy shag lol. discuss . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe he is bi and wants the best of both worlds,all involved 3some"
That sounds more like it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am mauve to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple. "
So if you're just here for sex why does it irk you that guys are interested in just sex with couples too? Are we inhabiting a domain that you believe is yours?
If you have such a personal deep-seated issue with how couples behave this is a place where you are only ever going to be unhappy because some couples like to fuck other people, that's the painful truth and why we're here. Find a no strings dating site perhaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I merely asked a question. Just as you did. You assumed you knew the reason for single males preferences.
I didn't know the reason, which is why I asked the question "
Reread your o.p. It wasnt just a question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am mauve to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple.
So if you're just here for sex why does it irk you that guys are interested in just sex with couples too? Are we inhabiting a domain that you believe is yours?
If you have such a personal deep-seated issue with how couples behave this is a place where you are only ever going to be unhappy because some couples like to fuck other people, that's the painful truth and why we're here. Find a no strings dating site perhaps."
You're so far off the mark! There is a huge amount of singles on here that just want to meet other singles. You use the site for one thing and I, another.
As for thinking that it irks me as to why men want to meet a couple, you're wrong on so many levels!!! Did I say it irks me???
Honestly, some people just want an argument and nothing else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand swinging...discuss
Because you hadn't noticed, a vast amount of singles use this site just for sex, I being one of them. Not everyone that is on this site is into swinging, far from in fact.
So yes, I am mauve to swinging and I intend to keep it that way; it's world away from what I'd be into if I was part of a couple.
So if you're just here for sex why does it irk you that guys are interested in just sex with couples too? Are we inhabiting a domain that you believe is yours?
If you have such a personal deep-seated issue with how couples behave this is a place where you are only ever going to be unhappy because some couples like to fuck other people, that's the painful truth and why we're here. Find a no strings dating site perhaps.
You're so far off the mark! There is a huge amount of singles on here that just want to meet other singles. You use the site for one thing and I, another.
As for thinking that it irks me as to why men want to meet a couple, you're wrong on so many levels!!! Did I say it irks me???
Honestly, some people just want an argument and nothing else "
I never said singles weren't looking for singles. I think maybe you don't understand the inferences you yourself are making with what you are saying.
It reads quite clearly that you have a problem with what couples do. All I will add is that as this site is still for the purpose of swinging. If anyone is lost, it's not those who swing, its those who are 'deliberately naive'' to it and it's attraction. This isn't a great place to snipe at swingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, you were the one casting aspersions on single blokes motives. Read my profile, I make my reasons crystal clear. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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if the original thread had a less pious tone to it, it would not have gone this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My innocent molehill has become a hideous mountain. As they say, time to move on.... |
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
In my case, being bi, sometimes it's to have sex with the man as well. Othertimes, I just have sex with the woman as the man watches or joins in with little or no man to man contact. On occasion, I've been there as a voyeur and loved watching a couple having sex. It heightened the pleasure for them too, having a guy watching them. The ladies I have had sex with, with their husbands have invariably loved having sex with two men, either watching us as she masturbates or with man to man contact or just two guys just for her and no man to man contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It probably wouldn't if you had just asked the original question in your heading.I think what has annoyed some by answering it in a fashion in the first post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm a bi male and am finding it very hard to meat the right couples to play with. There are some fantastic profiles that say both are bi and looking for guys, but yet cannot contact as they block men. Is that due to to much interest who knows?
For me it's the thrill of having a fun time sometimes it's the couples fantasy to have a bi male and I know how much I enjoy being with a sexy couple lots of dynamics and fantasy fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
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i have no bi inclinations what so ever. i have a mate who i have 3 somes with, see in story forum, and we all have a great time. happy to meet with single fems as well.. i havent caught the gay, and doubt very much that i will |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"if the original thread had a less pious tone to it, it would not have gone this way."
I've been thinking of a way I could answer the OP with the same amount of condescending overtones... but in the end thought "fuck it!!!"......
the "generalisation" is strong in people today..... wow... I managed it!!! |
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It's something different to try out. And there are some very sexy ladies in couples who I wish to have fun with . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So here is a proper answer.
I have 'swung' for several years, had a couple of proper relationships.I enjoy meetuing people who are likeminded and if possible sexually appetizing.I like watching and taking part in group sex, however I'm happy being with just one person on meets.
I'm not out for myself, and if I can help others to meet other people, I'm happy to give advice/introduce people(which doesnt mean I ask to come to their meets lol)
I suppose u will have to ask yourself why couples meet singles too, if u want to be a bit less single man bashing lol
While I havent perved ur profile OP,I'm unsure what it exactly that seems to have ur negative tone..I'd probably jump to assume ur looking for regular fuckbuddies(or just the one)....but dont want them meeting others....if I'm wrong apologies
to be perfectly honest, those that adapt to the different aspects of the scene generally have more fun....I dont find that much interesting in just getting 1on1 fucks when there is a whole scene on ur doorstep with many potential fucks...plus the fun aspects.
willingly naive?- thats a bit of a silly thing to say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So here is a proper answer.
I have 'swung' for several years, had a couple of proper relationships.I enjoy meetuing people who are likeminded and if possible sexually appetizing.I like watching and taking part in group sex, however I'm happy being with just one person on meets.
I'm not out for myself, and if I can help others to meet other people, I'm happy to give advice/introduce people(which doesnt mean I ask to come to their meets lol)
I suppose u will have to ask yourself why couples meet singles too, if u want to be a bit less single man bashing lol
While I havent perved ur profile OP,I'm unsure what it exactly that seems to have ur negative tone..I'd probably jump to assume ur looking for regular fuckbuddies(or just the one)....but dont want them meeting others....if I'm wrong apologies
to be perfectly honest, those that adapt to the different aspects of the scene generally have more fun....I dont find that much interesting in just getting 1on1 fucks when there is a whole scene on ur doorstep with many potential fucks...plus the fun aspects.
willingly naive?- thats a bit of a silly thing to say. "
Wrong. Why argue for the sake of arguing? I've said or done nothing wrong. Admitting to being naive isn't 'silly', it shows a willingness to learn and to gain knowledge. Jeez |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here mate.....i am totally straight but since my first mmf a few years back i just enjoy the thrill of meeting couples.
Its a good feeling being friends with someone with the added bonus of fucking his wife."
This is very true |
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"Just to get a shag with the woman I suspect. I can't think of any other reason. Discusss."
you suspect incorrectly and there are plenty of other reasons which I'm sure people have pointed out. Having sex with another mans wife in front of him isn't something that men do lightly despite what you read and very few do it just to get a shag...the dynamic just isn't like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Naïveté isn't an issue, but 'willingly naive' suggests purposeful ignorance - which is fine too, unless you're talking about swinging, on a swinging site. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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If it wasnt for single men being interested in meeting couples, there would be a lot of couples here not getting to fulfil THEIR fantasies!!!
Unlike you (OP) they do consider themselves swingers and happy to partake in the swinging lifestyle 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it wasnt for single men being interested in meeting couples, there would be a lot of couples here not getting to fulfil THEIR fantasies!!!
Unlike you (OP) they do consider themselves swingers and happy to partake in the swinging lifestyle
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