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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when meeting no one should pay than the other, unless you are meeting a fem on her own
then its good to offer we would"
No its not cheeky should be split equally between each person.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone we was just wondering when the time comes is it being cheeky or not to ask for a contribution towards cost of a hotel"
Are you booking it just for a meet then leaving?
or planning on staying the night? Because if you're going to be staying then I'd say it was a bit cheeky, yeah... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet a couple at a hotel and we always split the cost, it's only proper in our opinion. Unless its something out of the blue and we ask, then we cover the cost |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One reason I won't do hotel meets is I'd want to pay half and can't really afford to so I'd only do this with someone special and with notice. I think if its one man and women they should half it and if its a couple meeting either a make or female the couple should pay half and the other person should pay half ... But that's just me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone we was just wondering when the time comes is it being cheeky or not to ask for a contribution towards cost of a hotel
Are you booking it just for a meet then leaving?
or planning on staying the night? Because if you're going to be staying then I'd say it was a bit cheeky, yeah..."
Fair point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our first ever meet we booked a hotel. Guy. Never offerd a single penny towards cost of room
We now will always ask to split costs. "
I had this with a meet before xmas. I'd booked the room, met him in the bar, he never even bought me a drink, oh the cheek of it lol. I had mentioned going halves before we met but nothing. I only meet in hotels now if I'm staying in one for other reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One reason I won't do hotel meets is I'd want to pay half and can't really afford to so I'd only do this with someone special and with notice. I think if its one man and women they should half it and if its a couple meeting either a make or female the couple should pay half and the other person should pay half ... But that's just me "
 we meet lots of guys in hotel rooms some travel quit far as well they always pay for the room so yes ask them in sure your worth it |
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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago
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The guy I was my fb off here, he paid because it was business expenses.
We went away for a weekend so we went halves...
I'd pay half every time if I was using room all night and the guy wasn't getting expenses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our first ever meet we booked a hotel. Guy. Never offerd a single penny towards cost of room
We now will always ask to split costs.
I had this with a meet before xmas. I'd booked the room, met him in the bar, he never even bought me a drink, oh the cheek of it lol. I had mentioned going halves before we met but nothing. I only meet in hotels now if I'm staying in one for other reasons."
Iv had this too. Hence my profile now saying il only do hotel meets if they are covering costs as I wouldnt usually stay over in hotels. Seems to stop the single guys who wan a quick cheap shag messaging me. But If I meet n all goes well il offer to pay next time |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Hi everyone we was just wondering when the time comes is it being cheeky or not to ask for a contribution towards cost of a hotel"
The last thing you need to worry about is hotel costs.
The main thing you need to worry about is enough dry knickers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when meeting no one should pay than the other, unless you are meeting a fem on her own
then its good to offer we would"
Am I reading that right? Single fems shouldn't have to contribute? |
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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago
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"One reason I won't do hotel meets is I'd want to pay half and can't really afford to so I'd only do this with someone special and with notice. I think if its one man and women they should half it and if its a couple meeting either a make or female the couple should pay half and the other person should pay half ... But that's just me "
I agree 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we've booked a hotel somewhere for the night and we end up having a meet we'd never expect payment.
If however a meet is arranged and then we say we'll book a hotel usually we share but it's not an expectation that someone else must pay. Not everyone we meet has a lot of financial freedom, we don't make a deal out of money.
And no, we're not wealthy! Just sensitive to situations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our first ever meet we booked a hotel. Guy. Never offerd a single penny towards cost of room
We now will always ask to split costs.
I had this with a meet before xmas. I'd booked the room, met him in the bar, he never even bought me a drink, oh the cheek of it lol. I had mentioned going halves before we met but nothing. I only meet in hotels now if I'm staying in one for other reasons.
Iv had this too. Hence my profile now saying il only do hotel meets if they are covering costs as I wouldnt usually stay over in hotels. Seems to stop the single guys who wan a quick cheap shag messaging me. But If I meet n all goes well il offer to pay next time "
That's a good idea |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I think if either party is staying then they should pay. I wouldn't pay towards a room someone else was staying in"
Exactly. If you are staying you should pay. Even if you are a single female lol |
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