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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I read that a woman/couple is looking for 'exceptional' males, I assume they mean guys who are somewhat good looking, intelligent, well mannered and have some sort of idea about how to actually talk to women beyond 'hi/u horny wanna fuk now'. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles  "
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!! 
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An exceptional male is subjective to what the person wants.
It helps that they put the requirements on their profile.
Fabio's description is spot on.
For us an exceptional male is well groomed athletic and meets our age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An exceptional male is subjective to what the person wants.
It helps that they put the requirements on their profile.
Fabio's description is spot on.
For us an exceptional male is well groomed athletic and meets our age range. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!!
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!!
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I'd suggest it does not matter how many thumbs up to a poingiant or aparantly philosophical comment are given it does not make it true x
Of course an exceptional male can be aware he is statistacly exceptional which is indeed thinking he is .to be exceptional one would expect a high degree of self awareness and empathy . Now it could be declared a male who is aware he is considered exceptional would never be so bold or imodest to declare his observation x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An exceptional male in the UK is one who can wash, brush his teeth, have a decent haircut and dress properly, be respectful and polite.
Walk around any town or city in the UK and well groomed, well dressed guys stand out from the plethora of unkempt scruffs.
And well dressed doesn't mean expensive or designer clothing. You can put a pig in a suit, but it still grunts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With all due respect joke aside exceptional people throughout the history did wear suits and were not fashion statements but best in what they did in swinging term a person wearing suit does not mean any thing as clothes come off one believe lol they need to exceptional lovers but cleanness is must  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An exceptional male in the UK is one who can wash, brush his teeth, have a decent haircut and dress properly, be respectful and polite.
Walk around any town or city in the UK and well groomed, well dressed guys stand out from the plethora of unkempt scruffs.
And well dressed doesn't mean expensive or designer clothing. You can put a pig in a suit, but it still grunts. "
What about smart casual? |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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For me, someone who stands out from the shite "Hi, how are you?"
Someone who makes me laugh and can hold a decent conversation without feeling like I'm trying to get blood from a stone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always click off profiles that say this. For me swinging is about a connection. I'm not an exceptional male. I'm kind, caring, educated, half decent looking, with an awesome sense of humour.
This isn't exceptional this is very average. I consider myself as average and im happy to be just that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would appear to me that those on FAB who request "exceptional males" seem to want, in no particular order of importance, the following attributes;
Specified age range.
To be able to compose war and peace on the first contact message.
Athletic, toned and or six pack.
Accommodate.
Be very well endowed.
Share or even pay hotel costs.
Heavy cummer.
Breathe through ones ears.
Repeater.
Have a degree in astro physics.
Have pictures on the profile.
Like having their picture taken (for private use only, of course).
Patience.
More Patience.
Be genuine.
Drug and disease free.
Genuine.
Post a glowing schedule of verifications.
Not be a newbie.
So using that list of attributes for the exceptional male I am glad to report that I have in the past spoken to all three of them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles "
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles "
Exponential? So you just keep on getting bigger and bigger at an ever increasing rate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would appear to me that those on FAB who request "exceptional males" seem to want, in no particular order of importance, the following attributes;
Specified age range.
To be able to compose war and peace on the first contact message.
Athletic, toned and or six pack.
Accommodate.
Be very well endowed.
Share or even pay hotel costs.
Heavy cummer.
Breathe through ones ears.
Repeater.
Have a degree in astro physics.
Have pictures on the profile.
Like having their picture taken (for private use only, of course).
Patience.
More Patience.
Be genuine.
Drug and disease free.
Genuine.
Post a glowing schedule of verifications.
Not be a newbie.
So using that list of attributes for the exceptional male I am glad to report that I have in the past spoken to all three of them.
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Oooooh that's me lol!
We'll maybe not all - but I do have the physics degree and a GCSE in astronomy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Want an exceptional male..."
Most women write it meaning that they have preferences, that that would like to meet somebody who will take them out of their often unexciting lives, somebody who has a particular set of abilities and qualities that they would love to find.... somebody who can go some way to fulfilling their deepest and wildest fantasies....
"Want an exceptional male..."
Most men read this as: "Got a pulse..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer "
Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Want an exceptional male..."
Most women write it meaning that they have preferences, that that would like to meet somebody who will take them out of their often unexciting lives, somebody who has a particular set of abilities and qualities that they would love to find.... somebody who can go some way to fulfilling their deepest and wildest fantasies....
"Want an exceptional male..."
Most men read this as: "Got a pulse..."
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What nonsense. A pulse, own teeth and hair seem to be the minimum standard for some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!!"
That's often the case, doesn't take me long to get over it, profiles requesting exceptional or professional people tend to be the types you want to avoid, they often have over inflated egos and delusions of grandeur |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!!
That's often the case, doesn't take me long to get over it, profiles requesting exceptional or professional people tend to be the types you want to avoid, they often have over inflated egos and delusions of grandeur "
So at least 80% of fellow fabsters are delusional? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!!
That's often the case, doesn't take me long to get over it, profiles requesting exceptional or professional people tend to be the types you want to avoid, they often have over inflated egos and delusions of grandeur So at least 80% of fellow fabsters are delusional?"
80%? Where did you get that stat from?? Thin air? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!!
That's often the case, doesn't take me long to get over it, profiles requesting exceptional or professional people tend to be the types you want to avoid, they often have over inflated egos and delusions of grandeur So at least 80% of fellow fabsters are delusional?
80%? Where did you get that stat from?? Thin air?"
An estimate of those who request professional and or exceptional status!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles "
I always read it as someone they're prepared to make an exception for... I imagine the parameters for that exception may be different each time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!!
That's often the case, doesn't take me long to get over it, profiles requesting exceptional or professional people tend to be the types you want to avoid, they often have over inflated egos and delusions of grandeur So at least 80% of fellow fabsters are delusional?
80%? Where did you get that stat from?? Thin air?An estimate of those who request professional and or exceptional status!!"
Get real, your way off, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
It's a nonsensical term, whenever I read it on a profile I always ask them why would an 'exceptional ' make meet you? I very rarely get an answer Ooooooooooo you will be termed abusive and blocked for such temerity!!
That's often the case, doesn't take me long to get over it, profiles requesting exceptional or professional people tend to be the types you want to avoid, they often have over inflated egos and delusions of grandeur So at least 80% of fellow fabsters are delusional?
80%? Where did you get that stat from?? Thin air?An estimate of those who request professional and or exceptional status!!
Get real, your way off,"
I was never any good at estimation mathematics! |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
I always read it as someone they're prepared to make an exception for... I imagine the parameters for that exception may be different each time..."
That's how I read it too! Lol J x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I am going to annoy some of the people who gave me a thumbs up....
so bare with me....
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!! (and you probably have a big head and trouble with modesty.....lol)
the problem is that "exceptional" isn't a descriptive word.... so unless you are some sort of "mind reader" its is going to mean different things to different people.....
useless....... its a word that says absolutely nothing!
I am unique.... but does that make me exceptional....
exceptional because I have a degree...
exceptional because I had a reebok commercial made about me (long time ago)
exceptional because I know the first 20 minutes dialouge to the wizard of oz word for word (don't ask!!!)
so maybe the lesson is rather than being lazy and using the word.... actually describe what you are after!! |
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"what exactly that means as every one is exponential in some way
Just asking as it required on some profiles
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!! "
again with yet another pearl of wisdom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to annoy some of the people who gave me a thumbs up....
so bare with me....
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!! (and you probably have a big head and trouble with modesty.....lol)
the problem is that "exceptional" isn't a descriptive word.... so unless you are some sort of "mind reader" its is going to mean different things to different people.....
useless....... its a word that says absolutely nothing!
I am unique.... but does that make me exceptional....
exceptional because I have a degree...
exceptional because I had a reebok commercial made about me (long time ago)
exceptional because I know the first 20 minutes dialouge to the wizard of oz word for word (don't ask!!!)
so maybe the lesson is rather than being lazy and using the word.... actually describe what you are after!! "
As alway Fabio ....perfect.
We are all exceptional
Just not exceptional to all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am going to annoy some of the people who gave me a thumbs up....
so bare with me....
If you have to ask what an exceptional male is... you aren't one!!!
If you think you are an exceptional male... you aren't one!!! (and you probably have a big head and trouble with modesty.....lol)
the problem is that "exceptional" isn't a descriptive word.... so unless you are some sort of "mind reader" its is going to mean different things to different people.....
useless....... its a word that says absolutely nothing!
I am unique.... but does that make me exceptional....
exceptional because I have a degree...
exceptional because I had a reebok commercial made about me (long time ago)
exceptional because I know the first 20 minutes dialouge to the wizard of oz word for word (don't ask!!!)
so maybe the lesson is rather than being lazy and using the word.... actually describe what you are after!! "
Yer Yer Yer! How many times have we heard that, Come on theres no way you Know the FULL twenty minutes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male to female ratio in swinging every female is exceptional lol "
Not true at all. Just on here and this site is not truly indicative of the wider scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we can all label ourselves as something exceptional and/or unique
self perception can be very funny and in some cases fooking way off according to those orbiting said person |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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Exceptional ... whenever I see that requirement in a profile I move on ... exceptional in or at what? just define exactly what you want and hopefully that'llavoid mis-interpretation and time wasting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most exceptional males hide their profile as they choose who to approach as oppose to fishing for whatever comes their way.. "
Ah but then those 'exceptional males' might then miss the exceptional female who is doing the same...... |
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