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"Some people care more about sex with strangers than the health and safety of their unborn child."
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If you want to have socials then allll good , no different to going for coffee with mates .
But either of you playing with others ??? No way !!!
Why put any risk to that child in the way !!!
Pure selfishness |
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"I like it, love to suckle the boobs while their are lactating 
You don't lactate until after otherwise you can bring on labour  "
I see yes. I wasn't sure myself what the time frame was  |
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"I like it, love to suckle the boobs while their are lactating
You don't lactate until after otherwise you can bring on labour "
That's not actually true, lactation starts before birth. Also, whilst stimulating a woman's breasts releases oxytocin, which stimulates the uterus to contract, levels are too low to induce labour. |
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"I like it, love to suckle the boobs while their are lactating
You don't lactate until after otherwise you can bring on labour
That's not actually true, lactation starts before birth. Also, whilst stimulating a woman's breasts releases oxytocin, which stimulates the uterus to contract, levels are too low to induce labour. "
It can induce labour . |
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It's a contentious subject on here bit its all down to personal choice. Safe sex doesn't put your unborn child at risk. That's a fallacy.
There are a lot of missconceptions out there, it's an emotive subject.
As with anything, it's a woman's choice but sadly people judge. |
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"I like it, love to suckle the boobs while their are lactating
You don't lactate until after otherwise you can bring on labour
That's not actually true, lactation starts before birth. Also, whilst stimulating a woman's breasts releases oxytocin, which stimulates the uterus to contract, levels are too low to induce labour.
It can induce labour . "
That's not strictly true. |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
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So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe? |
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I Have a couple of friends that have had kids and by all accounts sex whilst pregnant is good for the baby, It lowers blood pressure and it also stops the need of having to induce birth. |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?"
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it . |
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"What are people's views on swinging while pregnant?"
Sex drive went through the roof while pregnant but all I could think about was my baby.
That's just me though. |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it . "
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on. |
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It's a personal viewpoint.
Personally, it was a very special time for my husband and I. It didn't cross my mind to smoke, drink etc. My husband even got rid of the cat as he heard cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women. Ott? Perhaps, but we were doing everything to protect our unborn child.
We stress the use of condoms to try and minimise risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Therefore I do struggle understand why a pregnant woman would risk it having sexually with strangers.
At the end of the day it's not me who's affected so whatever! |
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"You would be using condoms, how would you catch an std ?"
Condoms aren't 100% effective in preventing stds and they can also break, many people don't use them for oral sex either or cover fingers etc. There is more than one way of catching a sti. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?"
sex with anyone is always a risk, you can be as regular as clockwork down the GUM clinic ~ but in between visits you could catch something like HPV for example and pass that on.
why risk putting yourself at risk for the sake of casual sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on. "
Not a problem 
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it . "
Well you can only take the word of someone and decide if you trust them or not. That goes for your partner too. Only 100% safe way is to have no sex at all, but I've heard most women are quite horny while pregnant and that sex is a good thing while pregnant.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
Well you can only take the word of someone and decide if you trust them or not. That goes for your partner too. Only 100% safe way is to have no sex at all, but I've heard most women are quite horny while pregnant and that sex is a good thing while pregnant.
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Yes it is , with your partner  |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on.
Not a problem
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE "
You display a complete misunderstanding of the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue and worse you spout your misguided views declaring shame on others.
It's you who should be ashamed. |
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"I Have a couple of friends that have had kids and by all accounts sex whilst pregnant is good for the baby, It lowers blood pressure and it also stops the need of having to induce birth."
you're kidding right?
If a baby is overdue they do recommend sex as something in semen can start labour off but it isn't fail safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on.
Not a problem
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE
You display a complete misunderstanding of the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue and worse you spout your misguided views declaring shame on others.
It's you who should be ashamed. "
I won't ever be ashamed of putting my babies first |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on.
Not a problem
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE
You display a complete misunderstanding of the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue and worse you spout your misguided views declaring shame on others.
It's you who should be ashamed. "
I am not wishing to enter this argument but I am interested in what the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on.
Not a problem
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE
You display a complete misunderstanding of the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue and worse you spout your misguided views declaring shame on others.
It's you who should be ashamed.
I am not wishing to enter this argument but I am interested in what the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue are."
Yeah be interesting to know .
I think what they actually are trying to say is , I will say whatever I can to make myself feel ok about risking my baby |
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"I Have a couple of friends that have had kids and by all accounts sex whilst pregnant is good for the baby, It lowers blood pressure and it also stops the need of having to induce birth.
you're kidding right?
If a baby is overdue they do recommend sex as something in semen can start labour off but it isn't fail safe. "
It's the prostaglandins in seamen that helps induce labour, but the cervix has to be softened and getting ready for there to be an effect. Also, jiggling can have a physical effect. |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgemental
You can still have sex with your partner.
Only if you trust them 1000000% though! , right?  "
Well if you are having a baby together then surely you would |
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"So what if I'm pregnant and single? Legs crossed for 8ish months?
know the facts and make an informed decision before having causal sex.
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Ok so that's ok for causal sex but what if I just fancy a shag?  |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on.
Not a problem
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE
You display a complete misunderstanding of the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue and worse you spout your misguided views declaring shame on others.
It's you who should be ashamed.
I am not wishing to enter this argument but I am interested in what the biology, physiology and ethics of this issue are.
Yeah be interesting to know .
I think what they actually are trying to say is , I will say whatever I can to make myself feel ok about risking my baby "
I think it's their decision and theirs alone. |
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"So what if I'm pregnant and single? Legs crossed for 8ish months?
know the facts and make an informed decision before having causal sex.
Ok so that's ok for causal sex but what if I just fancy a shag? "
entirely up to you, plenty of women do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgemental
You can still have sex with your partner.
Only if you trust them 1000000% though! , right?
Well if you are having a baby together then surely you would "
Not necessarily true. There are plenty of different circumstances and sometimes there isn't a partner? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
I'm so pleased you're not judgmental and fully informed on the issue that you are preaching on.
Not a problem
You wanna do it then fine
But you can deal with the consequences if you catch an std
I am extremely judgemental because I think it's wrong and those who do it should be very ashamed of themselves .
BABY IS NUMBER ONE "
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgemental
You can still have sex with your partner.
Only if you trust them 1000000% though! , right?
Well if you are having a baby together then surely you would "
Yeah, because all relationships are monogamous and guys don't cheat and babies are planned. Heard of Jeremy Kyle? Lol
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
well you got peoples views and none of us are mind readers."
No but a few of you are judgemental and assume just because someone mentions swinging they must mean full swap |
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"So what if I'm pregnant and single? Legs crossed for 8ish months?
know the facts and make an informed decision before having causal sex.
Ok so that's ok for causal sex but what if I just fancy a shag? "
The act is sex itself won't harm the baby but catching an STI could.
The most common being HPV...whilst it's very rare to do so you could pass a form of genital warts on to your unborn baby. Also warts grow quicker whilst being pregnant which in turn if left untreated can cause problems to your cervix.
Like I said make an informed choice.... |
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
well you got peoples views and none of us are mind readers.
No but a few of you are judgemental and assume just because someone mentions swinging they must mean full swap "
Don't count me among the judgemental ones. What did you mean? You seem to think that we should know without you telling us. |
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
well you got peoples views and none of us are mind readers.
No but a few of you are judgemental and assume just because someone mentions swinging they must mean full swap
Don't count me among the judgemental ones. What did you mean? You seem to think that we should know without you telling us. "
Sorry the judgemental part wasn't aimed at you, it's just something I viewed while people commented that once you mention swinging (granted the question wasn't perfectly written) people assume you mean full swap |
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I do think it's very harsh to tell people they should be ashamed of themselves. At the end of the day people will use their own judgement and it's their decision.
Im currently nearly 6 months pregnant and personally I've completely gone off the idea of having sex with strangers as I've become very protective of my little girl that's growing inside me.
Just because you don't agree with something someone does doesn't give you permission to attack them. |
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
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okay my non science lesson opinion is....
the thought wouldn't even enter my mind to swing in any shape or form whilst pregnant. |
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
well you got peoples views and none of us are mind readers.
No but a few of you are judgemental and assume just because someone mentions swinging they must mean full swap
Don't count me among the judgemental ones. What did you mean? You seem to think that we should know without you telling us.
Sorry the judgemental part wasn't aimed at you, it's just something I viewed while people commented that once you mention swinging (granted the question wasn't perfectly written) people assume you mean full swap "
If you mean me , if u look at my first comment I mention about socialising
But yes any other form of swinging is a no no |
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
well you got peoples views and none of us are mind readers.
No but a few of you are judgemental and assume just because someone mentions swinging they must mean full swap
Don't count me among the judgemental ones. What did you mean? You seem to think that we should know without you telling us.
Sorry the judgemental part wasn't aimed at you, it's just something I viewed while people commented that once you mention swinging (granted the question wasn't perfectly written) people assume you mean full swap "
No problem .
I think the point that lots of people are making though is that it isn't the act of penetration that's potentially harmful. |
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"What is fascinating is I never said full sex, I was just looking for people's views not a Fucking science lesson
well you got peoples views and none of us are mind readers.
No but a few of you are judgemental and assume just because someone mentions swinging they must mean full swap
Don't count me among the judgemental ones. What did you mean? You seem to think that we should know without you telling us.
Sorry the judgemental part wasn't aimed at you, it's just something I viewed while people commented that once you mention swinging (granted the question wasn't perfectly written) people assume you mean full swap
No problem .
I think the point that lots of people are making though is that it isn't the act of penetration that's potentially harmful. "
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"I do think it's very harsh to tell people they should be ashamed of themselves. At the end of the day people will use their own judgement and it's their decision.
Im currently nearly 6 months pregnant and personally I've completely gone off the idea of having sex with strangers as I've become very protective of my little girl that's growing inside me.
Just because you don't agree with something someone does doesn't give you permission to attack them."
I don't see how having an opinion is attacking someone. My opinion is that if someone has sex- full swap or soft swap- while pregnant, then in my opinion they don't care about their unborn child.
There are risks with both full and soft swap. If people don't know the risks then why the fuck are they having sex with strangers in the first place?! |
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"I do think it's very harsh to tell people they should be ashamed of themselves. At the end of the day people will use their own judgement and it's their decision.
Im currently nearly 6 months pregnant and personally I've completely gone off the idea of having sex with strangers as I've become very protective of my little girl that's growing inside me.
Just because you don't agree with something someone does doesn't give you permission to attack them.
I don't see how having an opinion is attacking someone. My opinion is that if someone has sex- full swap or soft swap- while pregnant, then in my opinion they don't care about their unborn child.
There are risks with both full and soft swap. If people don't know the risks then why the fuck are they having sex with strangers in the first place?!"
I'm sorry but you're talking a load of bollox. Just because people continue to swing, full or not, does NOT mean that they do not care about their unborn child |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgemental"
Judgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her"
And if a woman is single?? |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? "
Scroll up ^^
I answered that one earlier... !! |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? "
Should her baby still not be paramount?
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Honestly, some people are so fecking obsessed with swinging they can't even call a time out when they're going through one of the most amazing and beautiful experiences a couple can share. For goodness sake, sort your life out, it's only a few months! |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her"
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? "
Read my post above... |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?Her baby should come first, not her or sex
Her
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
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"Honestly, some people are so fecking obsessed with swinging they can't even call a time out when they're going through one of the most amazing and beautiful experiences a couple can share. For goodness sake, sort your life out, it's only a few months!"
The op has asked for people's views, they haven't said they will be actually doing it. |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
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Not by putting any risk on the baby .
Imagine you go off with whoever and then go to give birth find out you have an std and have to have a c section and find out your baby is now very poorly due to std |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?Her baby should come first, not her or sex
Her
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
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posted in wrong place...her baby should come first, not sex or swinging
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"Honestly, some people are so fecking obsessed with swinging they can't even call a time out when they're going through one of the most amazing and beautiful experiences a couple can share. For goodness sake, sort your life out, it's only a few months!
The op has asked for people's views, they haven't said they will be actually doing it. "
Good point. To clarify, my comments aren't aimed at the OP. Just my opinion about pregnant women in that situation - swinging while pregnant. |
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"Honestly, some people are so fecking obsessed with swinging they can't even call a time out when they're going through one of the most amazing and beautiful experiences a couple can share. For goodness sake, sort your life out, it's only a few months!
The op has asked for people's views, they haven't said they will be actually doing it.
Good point. To clarify, my comments aren't aimed at the OP. Just my opinion about pregnant women in that situation - swinging while pregnant. "
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
Not by putting any risk on the baby .
Imagine you go off with whoever and then go to give birth find out you have an std and have to have a c section and find out your baby is now very poorly due to std "
So women who are pregnant don't get tested regularly, don't play safe and have no standards with who they sleep with?  |
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"Honestly, some people are so fecking obsessed with swinging they can't even call a time out when they're going through one of the most amazing and beautiful experiences a couple can share. For goodness sake, sort your life out, it's only a few months!
The op has asked for people's views, they haven't said they will be actually doing it.
Good point. To clarify, my comments aren't aimed at the OP. Just my opinion about pregnant women in that situation - swinging while pregnant.
Mine too "
Same here, something i wouldnt be worrying about swinging while pergnant, just my opinion.
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
Not by putting any risk on the baby .
Imagine you go off with whoever and then go to give birth find out you have an std and have to have a c section and find out your baby is now very poorly due to std
So women who are pregnant don't get tested regularly, don't play safe and have no standards with who they sleep with? "
I would hope women who are pregnant don't play about :/
You may use a condom but stds can be caught from fingers , mouth and even when wearing condoms .
Having standards doesn't come into it really .. The best looking business man could be walking around with herpes and boom , you now have it too and so does your unborn baby. . .. |
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
Not by putting any risk on the baby .
Imagine you go off with whoever and then go to give birth find out you have an std and have to have a c section and find out your baby is now very poorly due to std
So women who are pregnant don't get tested regularly, don't play safe and have no standards with who they sleep with? "
You can still catch an STI in between tests can't you...nothing to do with standards!!
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
Not by putting any risk on the baby .
Imagine you go off with whoever and then go to give birth find out you have an std and have to have a c section and find out your baby is now very poorly due to std
So women who are pregnant don't get tested regularly, don't play safe and have no standards with who they sleep with? "
one of my points, why would you even want to sit in a clinic with a baby in you 
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"So if your pregnant you can't have sex till you've had the baby ? Your so judgementalJudgemental? Sex should be left with the father, not swinging with anyone, my opinion.
Her
And if a woman is single?? Should her baby still not be paramount?
Her
Her baby can be paramount and she can still enjoy her life?
Not by putting any risk on the baby .
Imagine you go off with whoever and then go to give birth find out you have an std and have to have a c section and find out your baby is now very poorly due to std
So women who are pregnant don't get tested regularly, don't play safe and have no standards with who they sleep with?
You can still catch an STI in between tests can't you...nothing to do with standards!!
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"Some people care more about sex with strangers than the health and safety of their unborn child.
This
If you want to have socials then allll good , no different to going for coffee with mates .
But either of you playing with others ??? No way !!!
Why put any risk to that child in the way !!!
Pure selfishness "
Exactly, once the baby has something, the baby has something.
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remember a human being is inside you. If you can't abstain from swinging till you give birth. I think your sexual libido should be called into re-examination. To me. That is selfish. Anything can happen during sex with strangers. I wouldn't like to risk swinging while pregnant. Call me old fashioned.
Swinging can be placed on hold. |
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People are people - If you're into it (Which .. it turns us on, to be honest) .. Then good luck. Hard to find though!
If you're not into it, also. Good luck to you. ; ) |
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it . "
Btw there is not such thing as 100000%. It's a 100% that it.
And frankly people have been fucking for eons while pregnant and it does no harm (as long as you have safe sex) and There's nothing for anyone to be ashamed off.
You're just showing your narrow minded ignorant views which on a swingers site is laughable. |
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"remember a human being is inside you. If you can't abstain from swinging till you give birth. I think your sexual libido should be called into re-examination. To me. That is selfish. Anything can happen during sex with strangers. I wouldn't like to risk swinging while pregnant. Call me old fashioned.
Swinging can be placed on hold. "
Explain why exactly it is selfish? I doubt you'll be able to come up with an intelligent reason. |
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"remember a human being is inside you. If you can't abstain from swinging till you give birth. I think your sexual libido should be called into re-examination. To me. That is selfish. Anything can happen during sex with strangers. I wouldn't like to risk swinging while pregnant. Call me old fashioned.
Swinging can be placed on hold.
Explain why exactly it is selfish? I doubt you'll be able to come up with an intelligent reason. "
You haven't read the whole thread have you as some people have voiced credible reasons.... |
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"remember a human being is inside you. If you can't abstain from swinging till you give birth. I think your sexual libido should be called into re-examination. To me. That is selfish. Anything can happen during sex with strangers. I wouldn't like to risk swinging while pregnant. Call me old fashioned.
Swinging can be placed on hold.
Explain why exactly it is selfish? I doubt you'll be able to come up with an intelligent reason.
You haven't read the whole thread have you as some people have voiced credible reasons...."
I have and only real concern is STIs which with safe sex will reduce the risk considerably. Just seems people have a personal issue with it. Although why the OP thinks it's something that needs to be talked about on here is beyond me. |
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as a single guy I can see both sides of the argument, personally I see nothing wrong with the idea PROVIDED that both parties are aware of the potential risks.
one day I'll be lucky enough for it to be invited to play with a pregnant lady.....
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"What exactly are the risks to the baby?
Stds .........
Herpes as an example is not tested for and can cause serious issues for the baby !!!
So it's only dangerous if you don't know and trust your swinging partners? Meeting people who are clean, whom you trust would have no il effect on the baby would be totally safe?
If you 1000000% know they are clean !!
But why you would want to I have zero idea . Talk about being disrespectful for the baby inside you .
Shame on you if you do it .
Btw there is not such thing as 100000%. It's a 100% that it.
And frankly people have been fucking for eons while pregnant and it does no harm (as long as you have safe sex) and There's nothing for anyone to be ashamed off.
You're just showing your narrow minded ignorant views which on a swingers site is laughable. "
be very careful of what you write when calling someone ignorant |
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"remember a human being is inside you. If you can't abstain from swinging till you give birth. I think your sexual libido should be called into re-examination. To me. That is selfish. Anything can happen during sex with strangers. I wouldn't like to risk swinging while pregnant. Call me old fashioned.
Swinging can be placed on hold.
Explain why exactly it is selfish? I doubt you'll be able to come up with an intelligent reason. "
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Clearly for some it would be best to stay at home , get wrapped up in cotton wool and join a monastry for the duration of the pregnancy !
Truly can't see the issue with soft play , and protected during pregnancy .
But I can see that many have this protect at all costs mentality and for them that's fair enough . |
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People can do what they like as long as they know the risks and are willing to take them......it's not for anyone to judge unless you are a saint yourself (which lets face it no one on here can say they are) |
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"What are people's views on swinging while pregnant?"
Personally I am more horny whilst pregnant but would only have sex with my unborn babies father. A pregnant woman is responsible for that child growing inside her and going with strangers whether they use protection still carries risks. Its a personal choice for women but if sex is that important to a woman than her baby, who am I to judge. |
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"I like it, love to suckle the boobs while their are lactating
You don't lactate until after otherwise you can bring on labour "
I started producing milk at 18 weeks pregnant! So not completely accurate |
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"I like it, love to suckle the boobs while their are lactating
You don't lactate until after otherwise you can bring on labour
That's not actually true, lactation starts before birth. Also, whilst stimulating a woman's breasts releases oxytocin, which stimulates the uterus to contract, levels are too low to induce labour. "
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Hell fuck no.
I am judgemental on this and not afraid to admit it.
It's just bloody wrong. Pregnancy is such a beautiful time, it's personal, it's made for a COUPLE to share, not ever Tom, DICK and Harry that comes along.
I personally would let anybody I knew who did this that they were a tramp and I would have nothing more to do with them....
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If I was pregnant swinging or fucking random people would be the last thing on my mind. The health, safety and development of my unborn child would be my main concern. If you think that playing with strangers is more important than the new life inside you then you really have your priorities fucked up. |
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"If I was pregnant swinging or fucking random people would be the last thing on my mind. The health, safety and development of my unborn child would be my main concern. If you think that playing with strangers is more important than the new life inside you then you really have your priorities fucked up. "
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I can't see a issue if protection is used personally I wouldn't and when I was pregnant tbh sex in the last 12 weeks was the last thing I wanted but again that's me |
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Makes me wonder how the rest of the childs upbringing would be.
There are plenty of people out there, who are desperate to have children and are unable to.
Any good mother would not put a child at these risks.
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Swinging when pregnant. Could be a non swinging relationship, partner pregnant, man still goes out and shags. Swinging partners or non swinging the risks are the same. So its a bit irrelevant in my opinion. |
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