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meets a week ???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres no amounts, its whats right for you
I think single people will meet more than couples simply because they are single, if a couple only has 1 meet a months thats ok as they still have each other for sex
If i only had one meet a month id only get sex once a month because i have noone at home, and i dont have sex with people in my private life ie friends, neighbours, anyone i know from outside swinging really so meeting off here is the only way i get sex, i just prefure not to mix my home life with my sex life
So i tend to meet more regular, but because i have kids and work i do have to limit my meets, i usually go to a club once a week and have a private meet once a week, its still not enough really as my sex drive is far higher than having sex twice a week but i have to make do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon "
when i first started swingin 5 years ago i actually arranged to meet 3 guys on the same day ..had all my timings worked out and everything .....then i just thought ..oh my god you are getting addicted !! and i put a stop to all 3 meets and ive never been than obsessed again ..i think i hit my swinging brick wall ...now im much more selective not obsessed at all !!!!  |
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Mostly i do about one a fortnight but it can be up to two a week but not usually more than that these days. Years ago i would often have two meets some days but i much prefer to relax and have quality nowadays |
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon
when i first started swingin 5 years ago i actually arranged to meet 3 guys on the same day ..had all my timings worked out and everything .....then i just thought ..oh my god you are getting addicted !! and i put a stop to all 3 meets and ive never been than obsessed again ..i think i hit my swinging brick wall ...now im much more selective not obsessed at all !!!! "
i know what you mean - i once met 7 guys in 4 days and then thought - hmmmmm 
i have calmed down a lot since i first joing fab  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon"
five!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5 is my six-monthly quota now i think, the old bones and body can't go like they use to......
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i am lucky as i seem to get more meets than most blokes but i do include massage into my meet for the ladies and this tends to open a few doors for me,this week i have been greedy as i was at chams on sunday,had 2 meets since and i got a massage booking for tomorrow so this week has been excellent!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think most of us go mad when we first start swinging, even more so women when you get all the messages from guys wanting to meet, i think you go thro a kid in a sweet shop phases but soon come out the other end lol |
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon
five!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5 is my six-monthly quota now i think, the old bones and body can't go like they use to......
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how you doing on your quota so far _abio |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon
when i first started swingin 5 years ago i actually arranged to meet 3 guys on the same day ..had all my timings worked out and everything .....then i just thought ..oh my god you are getting addicted !! and i put a stop to all 3 meets and ive never been than obsessed again ..i think i hit my swinging brick wall ...now im much more selective not obsessed at all !!!! "
So you admit to starting your lifestyle as a timewaster  giggles |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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it would depend on how horned up i was - have had 4 meets in 24 hours before with a 300 mile round trip. was excellent . other times i can go a month without a meet and not miss the sex.
so what is too much - when you just can't find enough hours or people to satisfy your needs wihtout bringing your "normal " life to a stand still |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it too stressful to meet mid week, as I seldom work a 9-5 day, and am likely to work extra hours at a drop of a hat.
In addition, I have to sort out pet care.
Therefore, I stick to meeting during weekends, no more than twice a month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon
when i first started swingin 5 years ago i actually arranged to meet 3 guys on the same day ..had all my timings worked out and everything .....then i just thought ..oh my god you are getting addicted !! and i put a stop to all 3 meets and ive never been than obsessed again ..i think i hit my swinging brick wall ...now im much more selective not obsessed at all !!!!
So you admit to starting your lifestyle as a timewaster giggles "
i did let them know i wasnt going to meet that day ... timewasters dont let you know they just dont turn up !!  |
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Ummm 5 meets in 5 days, made the most of house sitting, and not having my son around..and only the other week, and enjoyed every minuet of it, and then had 3 meets the next week.
And proboably will not happen again.
But I did enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have 0.019230769 meets per week, which roughly works out at around 1 per year
That's of our choosing though and we're happy with that
Addicted ? Nope, never have been, never will be.
Swinging lives for us, we don't live for swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you can't sit down without wincing is when you have had to many meets 
When we first started we were limited because we needed childcare so went slowly,even though we were all excited because it was something new
Now we don't have to worry about childcare we're limited because of my work so we still go slowly,and we're happy with that,once a month,sometimes less sometimes more depending on whats happening in real life really
I never wanted to fuck every man in the country,just a few of them is fine for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll never get to the stage where I have several meets a day: it's not something that would appeal to me.
For me swinging is another hobby, fun to pick up now and then. I have a close family, friends and other interests. I don't plan my life around arranging meets, I personally would find that depressing and demoralising.
I'm lucky in that I have a couple of local playmates I can call upon when I'm feeling horny.
Sad thing is...I can't be arsed of late!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i once had a mission to go for the perfect week - a meet a day for a whole week
most i got to was 5 lol
might reinstate that mission soon
when i first started swingin 5 years ago i actually arranged to meet 3 guys on the same day ..had all my timings worked out and everything .....then i just thought ..oh my god you are getting addicted !! and i put a stop to all 3 meets and ive never been than obsessed again ..i think i hit my swinging brick wall ...now im much more selective not obsessed at all !!!!
So you admit to starting your lifestyle as a timewaster giggles
i did let them know i wasnt going to meet that day ... timewasters dont let you know they just dont turn up !! "
Very true! And manners cost nothing which is always good to see! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One a week would be nice!!!
Its not easy here. Being a little older perhaps doesnt help but everyone I have actually met has played. Getting them to meet is the issue
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a female friend that used to arrange to meet 3 or 4 guys a day if she had a day off work! She used to take great delight in telling them they were #2,3 or 4 as they were leaving! Used to make me giggle. Jessica |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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As another single mum my meets only tend to take place when the boys go to their dads which can be once every 6 weekends or so.
On occasions I have been able to free some time up for a weekday meet but with 3 school runs it makes it very hard to sort.
Again as another female poster, with no partner at home if I only have that 1 weekend free every 6 weekends then that is the only sex I will get which for me can be frustrating.
I would to have a partner to be able to have more regular sex for a more fullfilling sexual life. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Once (and only once) managed a weekender -meet on Friday and Sunday with party in the middle. The only other time that was surpass was 5 parties in succession.. but that was years ago.
These days its averaging 1 meet a month (in absence or clubs and parties... which seem to be averaging 1 in 6 weeks)... but to answer the original question... YES, I'm addicted and I admit it!
I get to work on Monday clock-watching till Friday (as meeting during the week is damn near impossible without precision planning) so I can see what the weekend has in store... otherwise its dvd's, laundry and other chores for the weekend, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had 5 guys in 2 days. Would have been more but work got in the way. I guess after 2years im only just starting to slow down.lol
This is my hobby and boy do i enjoy it.;-)
Would i class myself as an addict?. Who the hell cares its all about fun!.xx |
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for most couples (certainly those not blessed with a local club to attend) swinging is like buses - nothing for ages then a whole slew.
Anything is acceptable provided you are safe and happy within yourself.
( 5 days in a resort with 200 other couples is our 'record') |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depending on what else is happening could be 2-3 meets a week, if that is the case though chances are 1-2 meets will be social and not play meets, but for various reasons mainly real life related not met or visited a club for around 7 weeks.
Nice when it happens but not bothered if it don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couple of months ago i went through a complete slut phase and in 10 days I had 12 meets, but then other months i can have no meets at all through choice, it all depends how greedy am feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what do you all class as a meet? Do you validate after a social meet or wait till you've had playtime? hehe
you are obsessed with verifications...."
i was thinking that |
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