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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just got back from a drink with an old friend and told her about what site I was on.. She told me its wrong of me to be on and I should get some morals... And asking how I can meet people just for Sex.. Now I'm doubting it! But I'm just looking for fun so is there any harm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a single female looking for single men
No different to what any other contact or dating site offers
Can't see where morals comes into it
Just enjoy yourself  |
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"Just got back from a drink with an old friend and told her about what site I was on.. She told me its wrong of me to be on and I should get some morals... And asking how I can meet people just for Sex.. Now I'm doubting it! But I'm just looking for fun so is there any harm?"
does your friend rule any other part of your life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just got back from a drink with an old friend and told her about what site I was on.. She told me its wrong of me to be on and I should get some morals... And asking how I can meet people just for Sex.. Now I'm doubting it! But I'm just looking for fun so is there any harm?"
And she's a friend?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told my best friend I was a swinger and used this site. Her and her partner joined the site and come to clubs with us now. Tell her to try it for herself. She might actually like it.. but really who is she to judge. Your hurting nobody so ignore her. X |
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By *immCouple
over a year ago
Stourport on Severn |
Where on a dating site can you look for a male who you can vet for the same sexual preference to you? Your only young for an extremely short time. Have fun and be safe. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
I think there should be more female sexual empowerment (to say Yes and to say No) and less Slut shaming.
Do you think that your friend would have said the same thing if one of your male friends had said he was on here, rather than you? |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"I think there should be more female sexual empowerment (to say Yes and to say No) and less Slut shaming.
Do you think that your friend would have said the same thing if one of your male friends had said he was on here, rather than you? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't listen to her, they are the ones who are jealous  "
Why are they jealous not every feels the same, but it's interesting that it has the OP question whether it's right for herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone from this site questioned your morals like that, you'd probably block them and move on without a second thought. Maybe you need to review your actual friends as much as you might review the people who contact you here! |
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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago
Suffolk/Norfolk border |
Your only young but being on this site at your age isn't a bad thing, sex without strings or relationships is liberating & will help you find out more about yourself than any boyfriend can, maybe your friend isn't so grown up about life & sex as you are. Do what you love & enjoy but stay safe. |
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None of my friends would even consider a site like this, though none would condemn me they all view nsa as undesirable. I do wonder if very young people will regret being on here later in life - the OP is so pretty I'm sure she has no trouble attracting real suitors, and at her age I was out falling madly in love in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone from this site questioned your morals like that, you'd probably block them and move on without a second thought. Maybe you need to review your actual friends as much as you might review the people who contact you here!"
You don't have to agree on every aspect of life to remain good friends. But respect each others view. |
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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago
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"Just got back from a drink with an old friend and told her about what site I was on.. She told me its wrong of me to be on and I should get some morals... And asking how I can meet people just for Sex.. Now I'm doubting it! But I'm just looking for fun so is there any harm?"
You do have morals (I'd think). They just aren't the same as hers. Doesn't make her right. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
I have read every response in this thread and agree with them all!!
But at the end of the day, do what YOU are comfortable with. Real friends maybe surprised but will deal with it. I just hope she isn't a gossip and upset you further with it as it's obviously bothering you.
Not everybody I'd open minded  |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Well am on here and my mate on POF
But am the slag cause I meet ppl and sleep wiv them
But she does the same on pof
And she been wiv more then me lol "
Been there with a friend.... But she is apparently looking for lurve so it's ok lol  |
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By *ust4fun26Couple
over a year ago
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Before we got together my OH was using POF and there were women throwing themselves at him left, right and centre...it literally took a change of phone number to get rid of them, he was telling them he was now in a relationship and the responses were 'what she doesn't know won't hirt her come round I wanna shag' he was showing me these messages and that's what some other women get up to yet because they're not in it 'just' for the sex (most are!) they're not comparable to swingers! We have told our friends and families what we do and most are more curious than anything else...telling your mum you were on a cross getting electrocuted is hilarious by the way! I have always found those why put you down are envious as they would love to have more excitement and be a little bit more promiscuous but can't/won't/daren't. Just do what makes you happy and don't worry about others as long as you are safe and enjoying yourself then block out the haters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the genders were reversed and this was two men talking I wonder if one would critique the others morals?
My two pennyworth, are you happy, are you content, are you living the life you choose to live, are you enjoying the company of those you choose to share it with, are you hurting anyone?
No?
You live YOUR life the way you want to live it.
I suspect her moral outrage may have been a little bit of the green eyed monster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well am on here and my mate on POF
But am the slag cause I meet ppl and sleep wiv them
But she does the same on pof
And she been wiv more then me lol "
Your "mate" called you a slag!? |
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"Well am on here and my mate on POF
But am the slag cause I meet ppl and sleep wiv them
But she does the same on pof
And she been wiv more then me lol
Been there with a friend.... But she is apparently looking for lurve so it's ok lol "
That's what she says too lol
Only 4 of my mates know am one here and she's the only one who disapprove
Xx |
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