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'selling points' that actually turn you off
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.
For me, if a guy says he 'loves giving oral' I have often found that this means they love the feeling of having their face buried in a pussy and getting all wet in the process. Rather than they love giving really good oral and seeing the woman respond.
So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slut/whore etc
I like to feel some sense of achievement when it comes to success with my meets, as in, I've met an attractive, sexy woman who could have had many guys, but chose ME because she likewise found me sexy and attractive.
Why would I be interested in a woman whose 'slut' status suggests she'll have anyone? |
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By *r jblMan
over a year ago
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"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.
For me, if a guy says he 'loves giving oral' I have often found that this means they love the feeling of having their face buried in a pussy and getting all wet in the process. Rather than they love giving really good oral and seeing the woman respond.
So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"
I think you just haven't found the right man who can.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me."
I've only a met a few guys who have mentioned they love giving oral on their profile, never had oral off any of them. 
The ones who don't mention it tend to give.
Dom puts me off, i hate being submissive, i equally hate being used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a heavy cummer
I can fuck for hours
I can breathe through my ears
Your pleasure is more important than mine...yeah...right!!!
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I for one get off on a woman getting off. Pleasure through their pleasure so to speak. I put on my profile that everyones enjoyment is important. And I mean it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you just haven't found the right man who can. "
Oh I have met several
They just tend not to be the ones whose opening messages tell me they 'love giving oral'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No black, asian and company... a total turn off "
why is that a turn off that's personal preference same as ones that say looking for BBC.. How can that be a turn off??
I don't like the ones that say no photo due to work, or professional couple when they have spelt professional wrong.
1's that r txt spk
And the worst is any couple profile where only the man ever seems available |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No black, asian and company... a total turn off why is that a turn off that's personal preference same as ones that say looking for BBC.. How can that be a turn off??
I don't like the ones that say no photo due to work, or professional couple when they have spelt professional wrong.
1's that r txt spk
And the worst is any couple profile where only the man ever seems available"
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
I've only a met a few guys who have mentioned they love giving oral on their profile, never had oral off any of them.
The ones who don't mention it tend to give.
Dom puts me off, i hate being submissive, i equally hate being used."
With you on both of those |
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"So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
I've only a met a few guys who have mentioned they love giving oral on their profile, never had oral off any of them.
The ones who don't mention it tend to give.
Dom puts me off, i hate being submissive, i equally hate being used."
Agreed, and when you say you are Dom, they ask if that is because you had a bad experience being a sub ....
Also anyone that says no blacks, no ... any other type of person in such a tone - its the tone/semantics/phraseology I don't like - there are different ways of saying what you mean, and how you say it tells me what you are like - especially on your profile, when you have any amount of time to edit and re-word. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"Yeah, I find the heavy cummer weird.... And the stamina thing. I would prefer a great fuck in 15mins than a mediocre one that lasts an hour..."
not a fan of someone banging into me for ages - it doesn't really do anything for me and gets boring very quickly. I would much rather be doing licky/sucky stuff with a little bit of that thrown in  |
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"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.
For me, if a guy says he 'loves giving oral' I have often found that this means they love the feeling of having their face buried in a pussy and getting all wet in the process. Rather than they love giving really good oral and seeing the woman respond.
So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"
Most stuff puts me off on here, to be honest  |
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"Love a squirter/gusher.
I'll make you squirt /gush.
This. I can't stand profiles that say this  "
Yes. It seems some kind of 'badge of honour' for most men, doesn't it??
Porn has a lot to answer for, methinks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love a squirter/gusher.
I'll make you squirt /gush.
This. I can't stand profiles that say this
Yes. It seems some kind of 'badge of honour' for most men, doesn't it??
Porn has a lot to answer for, methinks "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" not a fan of someone banging into me for ages - it doesn't really do anything for me and gets boring very quickly. I would much rather be doing licky/sucky stuff with a little bit of that thrown in "
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The ones who are looking for a type - milf, bbw, cougar. I am more than just my age and body shape.
Also the one's looking to try new things and who want a guide/teacher. I've been there and tried all kinds of things most of which I don't want to try again. So I have no desire to hold someone's hand as he tries things that I know don't excite or interest me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quality over quantity .
Like it makes them better than anyone else ?
and over 50 veris from a few months LOL"
Yeah this puts me off as well. Forgot about this one. They're just after a regular fuck and realised it's hard to get one on here because those of us who are 'after quantity' are just highly active sexually and tend to be more fussy about regular meets (which isn't them). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't bite...unless you want us to...
Guarantee to make you squirt...
Doms or bulls or anyone who goes on about how rough they like to fuck...
And the endless referral to their enormous cock...
Fuck, it's a wonder we've met anyone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.
For me, if a guy says he 'loves giving oral' I have often found that this means they love the feeling of having their face buried in a pussy and getting all wet in the process. Rather than they love giving really good oral and seeing the woman respond.
So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"
Well I (Rogue) do live giving oral, and for the purpose of making Blondie squirm and squeal to a satisfying orgasm, but would never list it on our profile.
I consider myself a giving person in that and other respects but it's nice to surprise our meets with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also the one's looking to try new things and who want a guide/teacher. I've been there and tried all kinds of things most of which I don't want to try again. So I have no desire to hold someone's hand as he tries things that I know don't excite or interest me."
Lmao. It's not about wanting a guide or a teacher, it's about being willing to learn and experience new things. I've had my mind expanded since joining fab. I'm sure there's tons more for me to experience yet. I like to think of it as being prepared to go a bit left field and not just go lick suck fuck cum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No single males. Guys we will find you.
Makes me think I'd be dealing with Liam Neeson's character in Taken.
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We took that off our profile after our first few weeks cos it sounded a little odd.
Now we just specify that we want bi singles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can't just be me that gets turned off by things that some folk think are great selling points. I'm not talking about the obvious ones like no physical attraction or pushiness.
For me, if a guy says he 'loves giving oral' I have often found that this means they love the feeling of having their face buried in a pussy and getting all wet in the process. Rather than they love giving really good oral and seeing the woman respond.
So 'I love giving oral' has actually turned into a bit of a turn off sentence for me.
Are there any other 'selling points' which are actually turn offs for you?"
Shame, some people are quite good at it |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
I hate heavy cummer, love oral and women that brag that they squirt or men that brag they can make women squirt.
If women squirt or gush so be it but don't brag like it's part of your sexual prowess |
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Often women swoon over my culinary skills, mention a meringue roulade, with home-made lemon curd, mascapone cheese and double cream and they're putty in my hands.
Then they see my copy of the "Natural Harvest" cookbook, and suddenly they don't want to know 
Mr ddc
Ps you may, or may not, wish to Google "Natural harvest".... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No black, asian and company... a total turn off why is that a turn off that's personal preference same as ones that say looking for BBC.. How can that be a turn off??
I don't like the ones that say no photo due to work, or professional couple when they have spelt professional wrong.
1's that r txt spk
And the worst is any couple profile where only the man ever seems available"
He's just giving his own opinion the way the OP and others have. What's the difference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate heavy cummer, love oral and women that brag that they squirt or men that brag they can make women squirt.
If women squirt or gush so be it but don't brag like it's part of your sexual prowess "
Maybe it's more of a warning than a boast. |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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Most of the above, plus: ranty and negative profiles, moaning about not getting meets, timewasters, fakes, naming and shaming - all especially in shouty capitals. We're all here for fun and a positive profile is much more attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it's:
"will fill this in later" or "anything you want to know, just ask" when you can see they've been on the site over a year! As others have said, how difficult is it to actually write something about who you are and some idea of personality!
The second is aggressive negative list type profiles about what you will not do! Can anyone ever meet the impossible combinations spelt out?
We also get put off by those that say, "no black or Asian"! Even when phrased nicely, for us,I'm sorry we don't go for people who have preferences based on skin tone or ethnic and racial backgrounds.
Lastly, although pushing the boundaries of the post topic, I'm afraid it's cock shots, or more importantly bad ones! Ones taken on the loo, ones that make it look like a hideous growth we'd never want a zillion miles near us! We've instantly turned off more profiles due to this than any other! Seriously guys, Do people ever look at the photos they've taken and think, "yes that looks good" Maybe we are just weird? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .
It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .
We can all piss on someone no need to brag ! |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .
It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .
We can all piss on someone no need to brag !"
Yayyyy fully agree! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .
It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .
We can all piss on someone no need to brag !"
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definatly the ladies that brag about being a squirted or a gusher like its some kind of great act .
It's seems to be the Fab badge of honour .
We can all piss on someone no need to brag !
Lol "
ahhh but ya need good aim for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People with a meet listing on every day and never get a meet. (makes me think they are desperate or fake)
Things like "try me you wont be disapointed"
or interests ticked they clearly dont have a clue about
"professional cant sent pics but will skype"
and the yo yos
the people who leave every fooking week or month and come back, same photos same blah blah thinking they are "new"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they write,
"Been here before and I know how it works."
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ahh i have something on the top of my profile like that
saves the how you finding fab and that pile of shit messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No profile photo and no public photo's and if they do its all Cock, tit and Pussy shots.
Friend invites without messaging you.
Verifications, so what, it's like a bragging list, had a couple with loads of verifications no show. Even though they arranged the meet twice. 
We've had quite a few men posing as couples. Blocked.
Profiles that aren't about fun- ones were they want the perfect couple that meets every tick box.
E.g must be Attractive, Athletic, Fit and WVE.
Or make the first meet sound like an inter_iew for job and if your lucky you may get to the second round.
All We want to do is have fun with each other and other like minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I maybe be the odd one out but I hate guy who uses heavy cummer, VWE, can fuck for hours...
BECAUSE THEY ARE NEVER A HEAVY CUMMER, JUST A DROP CUMS OUT.
THEY SAY THEY ARE 8 INCHES BUT IN REALITY AS 5 INCHES.
AND THEY CUM IN 3 MINS OF FUCKING
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"I maybe be the odd one out but I hate guy who uses heavy cummer, VWE, can fuck for hours...
BECAUSE THEY ARE NEVER A HEAVY CUMMER, JUST A DROP CUMS OUT.
THEY SAY THEY ARE 8 INCHES BUT IN REALITY AS 5 INCHES.
AND THEY CUM IN 3 MINS OF FUCKING
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No need to SHOUT |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahaha. All fucking brilliant guys and gals! Thanks.
These also reminded me that I hate hearing how somone wants to 'experience' an older woman. If you want an 'experience' go to Chessington World of sodding Adventure... |
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