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How excited and nervous do you get
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get excited more than nervous if I'm accommodating but if I'm going to theirs it's probably the reverse for some reason?  "
Ditto!
I always accommodate and very comfortable in my own surroundings. I can't remember the last time I went on a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never get nervous before a meet and only get excited when it's game on time. However, for repeat meets, I can be grinning for days before  "
I agree with repeats meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep - I do to. It's all part of the experience for me. I always look for a connection with my meets and aside from the messaging and flirting, to know that you're both feeling the same way makes it so much more exciting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always a bit nervous when meeting someone new, but it's a good feeling. Not knowing what to expect or sometimes even what they look like is always a bit of a thrill!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My 1st experience was a party a couple of weekends ago. I thought I'd be fine until about 30mins before then I just started chatting like a budgie and wouldn't shut up to the point where my date told me to calm down. It took me a few hours to think I was able to do something and that was only after they took the lead. But once in the room I was the wildest one there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not nervous so much as full of anticipation - in my cases will have chatted to the people for a while so theres a connection so we have already established we get on as people. It's just the chemistry - I think if you don't have any preconceived expectations about how the night will go then its better because you have no expectations to be disappointed on. Once you meet it should just be like a meet in real life - you talk flirt and it build to the point where you either play or you dont.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was so nervous for a meet not long back I was almost arrested , needed pee badly so whipped it out under a bridge to relieve myself and coppers pounced  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not nervous so much as full of anticipation - in my cases will have chatted to the people for a while so theres a connection so we have already established we get on as people. It's just the chemistry - I think if you don't have any preconceived expectations about how the night will go then its better because you have no expectations to be disappointed on. Once you meet it should just be like a meet in real life - you talk flirt and it build to the point where you either play or you dont. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Before a new meet?
(Not social)
Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .
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You get nervous? would never have thought that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before a new meet?
(Not social)
Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .
You get nervous? would never have thought that "
just normal - interested in your tour too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before a new meet?
(Not social)
Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .
You get nervous? would never have thought that "
And that's exactly why we are often misunderstood .
We wouldn't do it if we didn't get the nerves ., we are human after all , despite how we are perceived by some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can get really really nervous ... If it wasn't for how good I know I feel after there are times I would wonder if I could do this.
However this is only for meets where we are going to them privately or them us... And I think it's harder if I know the chances are its play on a first meet after a social. If its straight to play in many ways I get less nervous. I won't have much interaction with the guy from a couple or single guys we are meeting simply because it actually makes me to nervous to bother.
Set me up a group session and I'm just peachy lol x but its what I am used to , so it's all about stretching my abilities x |
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I get really nervous and stay that way until the clothes come off and it all starts. After that I'm fine.
Hubby only feels slight nervous. He's usually just a horny freak before a meet and that takes over everything else. |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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I don't get nervous or excited at all. Either we will like eachother or we wont.. will either have great sex or not. I feel happy when I am due to see my playmate, but never get het up about new meets.
Maybe I'm just weird (yeah, probably)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very
To the point I want to cancel
I'm OK once I am there its just that what if they don't like me, what if they see me and can't contain their look of disappointment, what if I take my clothes off and they think fucking hell I'm not going there that I can't stop thinking about
I hate to think I've wasted somebody's time
I very rarely arrange meets because of this I think the last meet I had was around February time, I get talking to people and then don't take it any further because I convince myself they won't like me, but when I do bite the bullet and agree to meet I make myself I'll with worry
I'm a very odd person
I do much better with people I have met at parties or socials first, I can't sit at talk to anybody when it's a none sexual meet, in fact shutting me ups the biggest problem
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By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago
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"Very
To the point I want to cancel
I'm OK once I am there its just that what if they don't like me, what if they see me and can't contain their look of disappointment, what if I take my clothes off and they think fucking hell I'm not going there that I can't stop thinking about
I hate to think I've wasted somebody's time
I very rarely arrange meets because of this I think the last meet I had was around February time, I get talking to people and then don't take it any further because I convince myself they won't like me, but when I do bite the bullet and agree to meet I make myself I'll with worry
I'm a very odd person
I do much better with people I have met at parties or socials first, I can't sit at talk to anybody when it's a none sexual meet, in fact shutting me ups the biggest problem
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OMG im exactly the same  |
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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago
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"Very
To the point I want to cancel
I'm OK once I am there its just that what if they don't like me, what if they see me and can't contain their look of disappointment, what if I take my clothes off and they think fucking hell I'm not going there that I can't stop thinking about
I hate to think I've wasted somebody's time
I very rarely arrange meets because of this I think the last meet I had was around February time, I get talking to people and then don't take it any further because I convince myself they won't like me, but when I do bite the bullet and agree to meet I make myself I'll with worry
I'm a very odd person
I do much better with people I have met at parties or socials first, I can't sit at talk to anybody when it's a none sexual meet, in fact shutting me ups the biggest problem
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Same!!!!  |
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