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By *ullanon OP Couple
over a year ago
Hull |
Question for those of you out there, following a conversation we had with one half of a couple recently: are the couples out there whose female half are listed as bi-sexual/curious doing so because they genuinely are? Or because your male half is particularly keen to experience some girl on girl action. And also, are there any genuinely straight couples out there? It seems we're in the minority |
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over a year ago
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Gilly is most definitely bi when we first started I admit I was awe struck but to be honest as we've gone on I can take it or leave it. I like to see her enjoy herself who ever she is with |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
My mrs is the littlest bit curious, she has kissed another woman and enjoyed it, and had another woman go down on her and she enjoyed it, but she wouldn't be worried if ahe never did again.
But some women on here, and in clubs are incredulous when we say she isnt really into women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for those of you out there, following a conversation we had with one half of a couple recently: are the couples out there whose female half are listed as bi-sexual/curious doing so because they genuinely are? Or because your male half is particularly keen to experience some girl on girl action. And also, are there any genuinely straight couples out there? It seems we're in the minority"
Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am definately bi (little d) and is one of the reasons we entered swinging.
I would also enjoy a bi male mmf. So dont think it has a bad judgement but more hidden perhaps. Hubby is straight unfortunately |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol"
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm full on bi-sexual (was in a 2 year relationship with a girl) and love my girly fun to the full extent, to be honest Mr L wouldn't be interested in me doing it just for show, we do get a lot of messages clearly from the guys in couples saying they would love to me with there wife/Gf but it's no interest to me unless the women is full on bi-sexual and we are sharing a experience together... |
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle."
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!"
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle."
Same here |
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By *ullanon OP Couple
over a year ago
Hull |
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force! "
No lynching here, just genuinely curious. I think you're right though, it's not a surprise that there are more openly bi/tv etc on fab, this is a place of liberation  we've just spoken to a few women who seem to be doing it for the wrong reasons is all. You clearly don't fit into that category though, which is good to see! |
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Let the stereotypes go - I thought I was straight but in swinging I've found I'm just sexual so the sensuous kisses of a woman and the licking of a breast enhance the whole experience. I do love being fucked but the kisses of a sexy lady and her taste are magical. Don't write anything off because of social taboo - you may find some exciting fun out there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force!
No lynching here, just genuinely curious. I think you're right though, it's not a surprise that there are more openly bi/tv etc on fab, this is a place of liberation we've just spoken to a few women who seem to be doing it for the wrong reasons is all. You clearly don't fit into that category though, which is good to see! "
Thank you ...its a real shame that there preferences are forced for show but it happens I guess.. X
Ps sneaky peeking you naughty pair  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let the stereotypes go - I thought I was straight but in swinging I've found I'm just sexual so the sensuous kisses of a woman and the licking of a breast enhance the whole experience. I do love being fucked but the kisses of a sexy lady and her taste are magical. Don't write anything off because of social taboo - you may find some exciting fun out there "
Sums it up perfectly x |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force! "
Well in the past I have known, worked with, studied with, been educated by gay men, lesbian women and transsexuals, but not really any bi people. I hear there can be quite a lot of peer pressure from the gay and lesbian community if someone decides they are bi instead (on podcasts like the Savage Lovecast and Sex Out Loud)
I hope you dont think that I am part of any lynch mob. |
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By *ullanon OP Couple
over a year ago
Hull |
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force!
No lynching here, just genuinely curious. I think you're right though, it's not a surprise that there are more openly bi/tv etc on fab, this is a place of liberation we've just spoken to a few women who seem to be doing it for the wrong reasons is all. You clearly don't fit into that category though, which is good to see!
Thank you ...its a real shame that there preferences are forced for show but it happens I guess.. X
Ps sneaky peeking you naughty pair "
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force! "
What lynch mob,I'm just genuinely interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force!
Well in the past I have known, worked with, studied with, been educated by gay men, lesbian women and transsexuals, but not really any bi people. I hear there can be quite a lot of peer pressure from the gay and lesbian community if someone decides they are bi instead (on podcasts like the Savage Lovecast and Sex Out Loud)
I hope you dont think that I am part of any lynch mob."
Sorry please don't misquote me, I wasn't referring to this thread being a lynch mob, but surely you've seen some of the abuse that goes on regarding preferences of fabbers!! To be quite frank id like to know what argument the gay community have?
I can imagine the debate... "Bi-sexual isn't normal... a women shouldn't lay with a man and women... It wasn't gods intention" |
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"Lynch mob" was perhaps a trifle strong, but the thread certainly started off as a bit of a "some people are different to me, so they must be faking it, or under the control of a manipulative man" rant.
I understand that you may not understand someone else's preference, but isn't it possible just to live and let live?
Or is it just a case of "if those poor people have no bread, why don't they just eat cake?"
Mr.ddc |
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By *ullanon OP Couple
over a year ago
Hull |
I think you may have misread the tone of our original post. It was certainly not we are holier-than-thou. If anything, both of us are fairly open to new experiences, which I guess means you could say that under the right circumstances, either of us could be 'bi'. The original point was, though, that some people seem to be doing it or labelling themselves for the wrong reasons, as I'm sure you could say about some people trying swinging full stop. It was a genuine, curious question, and not an attack. Perhaps treat it as such? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why can't we just all get along... Especially you hot ladies in the room!! Yummy.. Just kidding, wouldn't want to try and twist your arms.. Just your nipples |
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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago
wigan/bolton |
I would never meet a woman on my own but in clubs and meets I love touching and kissing other women but only if there are men around..hmm..god knows what I am! I genuinely get turned on playing with women but it's definitely more of a buzz knowing my man (and others) are getting off watching it!
Hmm. ..and I bi? Bi playful or a show off? No idea...I like it tho. Kissing women is sooo hot |
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"I think you may have misread the tone of our original post. It was certainly not we are holier-than-thou. If anything, both of us are fairly open to new experiences, which I guess means you could say that under the right circumstances, either of us could be 'bi'. The original point was, though, that some people seem to be doing it or labelling themselves for the wrong reasons, as I'm sure you could say about some people trying swinging full stop. It was a genuine, curious question, and not an attack. Perhaps treat it as such?"
I may have misread it, except you have just repeated the theory that "some people must be doing it for the wrong reasons"
So I guess not.
"Let them eat cake" is not holier-than-thou. It is commenting on a situation so far from one's understanding, that one inevitably puts one's foot in it.
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
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Hi i no im not a couple but i was thinking excatly the same thing !!! Seems to be a LOT of bi women out there lol
Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit recently,why is that?!
How many open swingers/Tvs/CDs full stop do you know in the vanilla world!!
Fab is a safe haven for the liberated .. Well at least I thought it was, until the lynch mob come out in force!
Well in the past I have known, worked with, studied with, been educated by gay men, lesbian women and transsexuals, but not really any bi people. I hear there can be quite a lot of peer pressure from the gay and lesbian community if someone decides they are bi instead (on podcasts like the Savage Lovecast and Sex Out Loud)
I hope you dont think that I am part of any lynch mob.
Sorry please don't misquote me, I wasn't referring to this thread being a lynch mob, but surely you've seen some of the abuse that goes on regarding preferences of fabbers!! To be quite frank id like to know what argument the gay community have?
I can imagine the debate... "Bi-sexual isn't normal... a women shouldn't lay with a man and women... It wasn't gods intention" "
Ok, i was thinking this thread isn't very lynch moby compared to others! But i understand what you mean now. The Savage Lovecast episode 452 tells the story about a lesbian being ostracized for experimenting with bisexuality. Its an interesting relationship agony uncle podcast that I listen to. Life on the swingset is a great swinging podcast, and Sex Out Loud is a great podcast about sexuality, sex ed, LGBT, sex workers, biology, sexual anthropology etc etc. |
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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago
Dunstable |
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Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle."
I can't be openly bi in real life....I couldn't admit to being bi in the vanilla world, I can only be myself on here... I'm sure a lot of men and women have a similiar experience... |
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"I think we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one, Derby!"
Really?
That we can't live and let live?
Shame.
So does that mean you both have to become bi, or that my wife can only be straight from now on?
Or that my wife only ever does things that I tell her to do?
(I wish!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think disagreeing on something means that it's impossible to live and let live, not in my book, anyway"
I don't think you guys disagreed, it just sounded like a bit of a generalisation, but you cleared that up very quickly.. I hope others can see that too |
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"I don't think disagreeing on something means that it's impossible to live and let live, not in my book, anyway"
Then what are we disagreeing on? My premise was simply that some people are straight, others like to play, to differing degrees, with partners of both sexes. Why should either way be questionable? It would never cross my mind to question your assertion that you are straight. |
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By *ullanon OP Couple
over a year ago
Hull |
But my post was specifically a response to multiple conversations we have had with women who are doing it because they think their partners will enjoy it! Not because I can't understand or am disbelieving of someone saying they are bi. You're right, if someone is genuinely 'bi' then that shouldn't be questioned, but that wasn't being questioned. The most interesting responses to this thread are those who are saying that it's easier to be bi in an environment like fab than in real life, and that was the crux of it. Not those who seem determined to take offence |
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My partner is genuinely bi, Rita loves to be with a woman and I love to see her enjoying herself. We are best friends so we discuss everything, she told me when we got together she has always been attracted to woman but did not act on her feelings so we tried it out and she Has enjoyed her experiences with woman ever since. It's her choice and makes us both happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes on Fab it feels like:
Bi women = sexy
Bi men = filthy disease ridden perverts"
It is exactly like that for some. Like only bi men can have an sti. Rubbing vaginas together can transfer diseases too. |
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By *ullanon OP Couple
over a year ago
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Perhaps we should have just posted a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread, they seem to go down without too much bother! Thanks, though, to those who have posted about their experiences. It is genuinely interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My partner is genuinely bi, Rita loves to be with a woman and I love to see her enjoying herself. We are best friends so we discuss everything, she told me when we got together she has always been attracted to woman but did not act on her feelings so we tried it out and she Has enjoyed her experiences with woman ever since. It's her choice and makes us both happy "
Good because she is all mine!! |
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Sorry if my response didn't fit.
To answer your original questions then:
"are the couples out there whose female half are listed as bi-sexual/curious doing so because they genuinely are? Or because your male half is particularly keen to experience some girl on girl action? "
Yes.
No.
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"My partner is genuinely bi, Rita loves to be with a woman and I love to see her enjoying herself. We are best friends so we discuss everything, she told me when we got together she has always been attracted to woman but did not act on her feelings so we tried it out and she Has enjoyed her experiences with woman ever since. It's her choice and makes us both happy
Good because she is all mine!! "
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"Perhaps we should have just posted a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread, they seem to go down without too much bother! Thanks, though, to those who have posted about their experiences. It is genuinely interesting"
I disagree, if you don't ask interesting questions, you don't learn. But you do have to be open to answers other than those you were expecting.
You will rarely find us posting any details about our meets, we tend to keep those things private. The same with our 'action shots'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I can't be openly bi in real life....I couldn't admit to being bi in the vanilla world, I can only be myself on here... I'm sure a lot of men and women have a similiar experience..."
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I can't be openly bi in real life....I couldn't admit to being bi in the vanilla world, I can only be myself on here... I'm sure a lot of men and women have a similiar experience..."
I think its sad when people cant express their sexuality. My family, friends, colleagues and community would be fine with me expressing myself as bi, or gay (if I was), but i understand that that is not the case for everyone. I hope we get to a place soon where it is the same for everyone. Although the UK isnt perfect, i feel as though we are a lot more accepting of the LGBT community than some other countries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not bi for pauls entertainment. I love playing with other women (although not fully 'bi' as couldn't have a relationship with a woman) and it's just an added bonus that I can share that experience with my man. It was me that suggested an ffm 3sum first.
Sasha x |
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By *andkCouple
over a year ago
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I can't speak for everyone but I am a female bi in a relationship with a guy and I meet more girls than I do guys. We have meet couples when you get a feeling the girl isn't that interested (in either of us) I try not to meet girls who say their curious in case you get naked and they decide their no longer curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Especially when you count the number of openly bi women you know in the vanilla world. I cant think of a single openly bi man or woman that i know outside of the lifestyle.
I can't be openly bi in real life....I couldn't admit to being bi in the vanilla world, I can only be myself on here... I'm sure a lot of men and women have a similiar experience...
I think its sad when people cant express their sexuality. My family, friends, colleagues and community would be fine with me expressing myself as bi, or gay (if I was), but i understand that that is not the case for everyone. I hope we get to a place soon where it is the same for everyone. Although the UK isnt perfect, i feel as though we are a lot more accepting of the LGBT community than some other countries."
UK is certainly more accepting overall but in some areas of the country, still VERY homophobic. Often unwise to reveal your true sexuality.
In answer to the OP, bisexual men and women are often looked down on by both the straight and gay communities. "Choose to be gay or straight, you can't be both." 
Another reason you won't know of many bisexual (or gay) people outside of the swinging world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just changed h's profile to straight this morning lol. Whilst she's played with girls and loved it and may well do in the future, her preference is guys and we don't want anyone being disappointed if girl on girl doesn't happen.
Coming back to the thread, I do think we're in the minority but hey ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just changed h's profile to straight this morning lol. Whilst she's played with girls and loved it and may well do in the future, her preference is guys and we don't want anyone being disappointed if girl on girl doesn't happen.
Coming back to the thread, I do think we're in the minority but hey ho "
It's wrong for people to assume. Just because someone is bi, doesn't mean they will play with everyone. There still has to be an attraction. They should still ask. Put whatever status (bi or straight) you feel comfortable with. x |
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