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Morals On the Site
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Hello all, its a nicely cold Monday today.
On this site, there are couples looking for Males/Females/Other couples. And these couples are comfortable with a 3rd party doing sexual things with their partner, which is errrm good for them obviously, some couples could do that, other couples cant... however..
What is also on this site is Females (Dont know about Males) whom are on this site who want a Discreet Encounter because they dont want their boyfriend to find out. Thats not swinging, thats cheating. They are seeking out cheating. And also guys who want to hook up with the girl, they know that by being with that girl, they are also responsible and accountable for the cheating too as they are fully aware that the person has a partner
Which, well, in the REAL World, as opposed to online world.. if a girl and guy met in a club or something, and they went back to his/her place and slept together, and then it was found out that one has a partner.. the question is always popped up of 'well he/she didnt say they had a parter'... followed by 'well did you ask'...... Almost as though if they had asked or KNOWN that the person had a partner, the cheating encounter wouldnt take place... however on here... they DO know and yet people are still willing...... |
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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago
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Interesting.....there are many females on here that automatically presume some guys are cheating, yet to some of the males it doesnt seem to matter if the female is the one cheating...basically...dont mattter if you are male or femaile....many cheat and always will be found on sites like this. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am going to hazard a guess here..
a big cock referenced either in the profile or verification
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a meet today or update asking for a meet..
I am doing research into the minds of forums postings and have correlations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to hazard a guess here..
a big cock referenced either in the profile or verification
and
a meet today or update asking for a meet..
I am doing research into the minds of forums postings and have correlations"
so far your doing very well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are all on here for the same reason, sex, whether our partners know about it or not, whether we are single or not! Everyone as a preference and what goes on behind closed doors is their business and no one elses!
So if they are cheating, who cares! I don't go with married men but that's my preference. So don't bleat on about it, it's happening get your head around it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all on here for the same reason, sex, whether our partners know about it or not, whether we are single or not! Everyone as a preference and what goes on behind closed doors is their business and no one elses!
So if they are cheating, who cares! I don't go with married men but that's my preference. So don't bleat on about it, it's happening get your head around it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to hazard a guess here..
a big cock referenced either in the profile or verification
and
a meet today or update asking for a meet..
I am doing research into the minds of forums postings and have correlations"
Cynical...but true..and do they still have that commune that grows giant veggies in your neck of the woods..??  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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It is my business if a man tells me he isnt married and I meet with him,have sex and then find out he is married. That is my business as he makes it my business the moment anything sexual happens in my book.
Its not nice to be called by the wife saying stop seeing my husband and being called a homebreaker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Humour me on this one as the topic has been exhausted on a few occasions.
The very fact that you are having SEX with a stranger rather thna your partner is that not "Cheating" whether the yare involved or not.
Morals, let me guess these are the things you were taught in school, sunday school etc on a Pro Christian upbringing. What if you are not a Christian and don't share the same idealisms on life.
Like I said entertain me, |
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That's the funny thing with this world, it's made up of loads of different people, cheating will take place regardless, don't let it worry you! We do our utmost not to meet cheats but you just don't know 100% all the time, especially in a club. Feel sorry for people who need to cheat personally but that's their lookout and I don't loose sleep over it! Z |
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"Humour me on this one as the topic has been exhausted on a few occasions.
The very fact that you are having SEX with a stranger rather thna your partner is that not "Cheating" whether the yare involved or not.
Morals, let me guess these are the things you were taught in school, sunday school etc on a Pro Christian upbringing. What if you are not a Christian and don't share the same idealisms on life.
Like I said entertain me,"
Having sex with some one else with the consent of your partner isn't cheating, you aren't hiding anything.
Morals haven't got much to do with your religion - you can be agnostic or aetheist  and still have a strong moral code. Z |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Cynical...but true..and do they still have that commune that grows giant veggies in your neck of the woods..?? "
aye the Findhorn Foundation.. very good produce indeed. |
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"Your still breaking your vows.
I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them"
What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your still breaking your vows.
I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them
What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z"
I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t go for all that religious crap, but deception is deception and will never have justification, its like me arguing that smoking isn’t bad for me just because I smoke, I know its wrong but choose to do it. |
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"Your still breaking your vows.
I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them
What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z
I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!! "
I know what he meant - I'm not married! Z |
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"I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!!
...which assumes that we all took that particular vow."
And we all know what assume does don't we? Although we're not married, I wouldn't consider - even for a second - lying or cheating in my relationship to Steve, we swing of course but there isn't any duplicity involved! Z |
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Agree cheating isn't to be condoned, but wonder if 'morals' is the right word? If a lot of people could see us 4soming at home or paying in a club they'd think that pretty immoral. We didn't promise to keep to one person in our wedding vows, which is just as well!
For various reasons most people have affairs or one-night stands without their partner knowing at some time in their married life. It's just that some people are using this site to do it; that's their business really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your still breaking your vows.
I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them
What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z
I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!! "
she means forsucking I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!!
...which assumes that we all took that particular vow.
And we all know what assume does don't we? Although we're not married, I wouldn't consider - even for a second - lying or cheating in my relationship to Steve, we swing of course but there isn't any duplicity involved! Z"
we talking DP here then? |
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