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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When it comes to being a single man on a swinging site, do women feel that men like me are only here for sex?
I have started to get to know a couple of regulars here and enjoy getting to know people, but feel that when I start to chat with the female members they may feel that I’m only out for one thing. I’m not saying that I don’t want meets, of course I do, but I do want to make new friends as well.Do any others feel the same? |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
What else are they meant to be here for?
Diamonds baking?
Siren's knitting abilities?
Midscpls philosophys?
My narcissistic tendancies?
Its a bloody swinging site....... everyone is here for some kind of sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG this is a swsinging site - I am so shocked I may have to report it to the new bishop, but which one mmmm ... the one who thinks that the floods in New Orleans were a plague by God on those who are sexually tolerant or the one who says the holocaust never happened? Lol would anyone chat to _adchick if it was just about the sex lol
takes cover under several sandbags and a bullet proof sandbag
only yanking your chain but are these single male rants for real?
This smacks of not having any luck lets show me sensitive side and see if I get any lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think Ceeman has made a very clever posting, It is well written and he comes across as unassuming and not a threat...I'd meet him on the basis of that post.
It makes a refreshing change to chat to a man that (appears) not to be interested in your bra size or if you "lik it up the arse".
I believe there are many forms of intelligence and many ways of measuring it, however the internet seems to be a magnet for men who can not even factor on the lowest scale of any chart.
Well done Ceeman for trying to for some basis for communication with potential meets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its my birthday, I'm being nice, like when the queen used to pardon people on her birthday....besides, i like his jaw line (if that is his picture) even the stubble, which is unusual for me.
taking all that into account....I guess i just need a shag, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel as this is a swinging site and swinging tends to be associated with recreational sex then it is a fairly reasonable expectation.
If I went on a football chat forum I'd expect the folks on there to be into football.
If the fems on here came back with "Yes we feel you are only here for one thing" what would you do? Leave the site?
And another thing I've noticed (being one of the dreaded singles) is the clever tactic of making out that you arent up for sex. Oh but if any happens to be going spare then I'll help out.
I'm not like the rest of them honest.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think at the end of the day we are all only here for sex in some form or another, be it only cam sex for those who don't do meets, difference is some like to make friends with those they have sex with, some don't, i like the social side of swinging but if i did'nt get sex from the scene at some point i would'nt bother with sites like this, so i guess im a woman whos only after sex lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously,
No not all people think single guys are here just for sex, I had around 30 verifications as a single guy, out of which I had only ever played with a small few, the others were people I had met socially, a couple in Wales I met with another couple have invited me back for a drink even though they don't play with single guys, I met them whilst on holiday with the other couple, who also don't play with single guys but are great friends, last month (whilst still single) I went over to spend a really pleasant evening with some swinging friends who often visit me or me them even though like the others they don't play with single guys.
I have made a lot of friends on this site and at clubs with whom I get together socially, even though we are all swingers and we met in swingers environments we have become great friends who do not play together.
On Xmas eve I was alone, 3 couples from the site came to visit me and spend the evening with me, none of them played with me, it was a social event which I thoroughly enjoyed.
All those I have mentioned are on this site and know who they are.
Those who think swinging is just about sex are missing out on a lot lot more when it comes to friendships with like minded people.
Jed |
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