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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Curious to know this...
As there is quite commonly known, many guys prefer larger women. Is this reversed? Do some women just prefer larger guys?
Curious to find out you thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've had numerous women say the same as cleo but when it actually gets down to it (pardon the pun), the larger guy gets left to the wayside. I know quite a few slim lads who wouldn't touch a slim girl with a barge pole, and they are with ladies 16/18 +. Just wondered if any ladies out there thought the same or is it a gender thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
So wish you were closer  "
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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx"
I'm growing a beard now and gonna take my bike test  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx"
I'm off to buy 20 packets of Jaffa cakes to put some weight on. WOW!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one of the broader guys on this site. I have a bit of a keg as opposed to a six pack. I do go to the gym but only mainly to see friends, have a social craic and do a class or two a week
Form an orderly queue ladies, there's enough for everyone lmfao |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
So wish you were closer "
Good grief man, book a taxi or something! She's intelligent, good looking, and likes a love handle....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly aka fat idle bastard from smut comic. My weight has put women off meeting us even though I dont actually play. One women actually said I was to unattractive for her to have sex with me in the room! So Im guessing women who like big men are very rare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx"
Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing at all up with the larger man I've been seeing one off this site for last few weeks.. as a mater of fact I think the majority of my meets have been the larger body type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious to know this...
As there is quite commonly known, many guys prefer larger women. Is this reversed? Do some women just prefer larger guys?
Curious to find out you thoughts "
Not for me sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed."
Your kind words humble me.
Cleo is, in fact, a horrible person.
She just has a big flesh fetish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese? "
We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.
An extra chin never goes amiss, either.
Xxxx |
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"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?
We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.
An extra chin never goes amiss, either.
Xxxx"
I think I love you xxxxxx |
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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago
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"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?
We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.
An extra chin never goes amiss, either.
Xxxx"
My love handles need some TLC 
Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?
We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.
An extra chin never goes amiss, either.
Xxxx
My love handles need some TLC
Xxx "
Your love handles need some love handles, matey! |
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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago
Walton on the Hill |
"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?
We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.
An extra chin never goes amiss, either.
Xxxx
My love handles need some TLC
Xxx
Your love handles need some love handles, matey!"
Are you offering! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's
I am bald
I was bearded before it was trendy
I am a short arse
I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6
I wear specs all the time
I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below
I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions
I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'
I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'
Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.
I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.
If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.
Not everyone will though.
There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.
I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.
Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.
End of (minor) rant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's
I am bald
I was bearded before it was trendy
I am a short arse
I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6
I wear specs all the time
I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below
I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions
I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'
I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'
Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.
I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.
If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.
Not everyone will though.
There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.
I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.
Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.
End of (minor) rant "
. Probably the best response I've read on here, well said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's
I am bald
I was bearded before it was trendy
I am a short arse
I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6
I wear specs all the time
I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below
I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions
I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'
I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'
Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.
I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.
If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.
Not everyone will though.
There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.
I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.
Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.
End of (minor) rant . Probably the best response I've read on here, well said "
You have completely misunderstood the question. There has been no inclination that fat people are not attractive....the original question was.... is favouring a larger frame a gender trait or do both genders find larger people attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's
I am bald
I was bearded before it was trendy
I am a short arse
I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6
I wear specs all the time
I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below
I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions
I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'
I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'
Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.
I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.
If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.
Not everyone will though.
There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.
I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.
Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.
End of (minor) rant . Probably the best response I've read on here, well said
You have completely misunderstood the question. There has been no inclination that fat people are not attractive....the original question was.... is favouring a larger frame a gender trait or do both genders find larger people attractive"
In that case, like many things on this site, fortune will always favour the female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 6'2", I have a beard, I ride a cruiser motorbike and I play rugby. I'm only 16 stone though and I don't have a beer belly-I feel very inadequate now!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"
I don't know if you can rest a pint glass on my belly but I'm sure you could fit 2 cups on it. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
I don't know if you can rest a pint glass on my belly but I'm sure you could fit 2 cups on it. "
What size cups....?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"
I reckon I could rest the keg... Fancy a chat |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
I don't know if you can rest a pint glass on my belly but I'm sure you could fit 2 cups on it.
What size cups....?
[/feed line]"
DD at least...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been both, was 24.5 stone now 13st12 and can in all honesty say that at 24.5st not one woman looked twice....hardly any looked once"
Well done on that massive achievement.
I was over 21st a few years ago. Dropped to 15st and now sitting around 16st. (See profile picture that's me now)
Working the doors you'll be surprised by how many women tell me they love my size and frame. A manly man I'm called often so their is women out there that like big guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"
Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?
We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.
An extra chin never goes amiss, either.
we have all those x
Xxxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!"
Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.
I've never refused a man because he was too fat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!
Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.
I've never refused a man because he was too fat."
You are by far my favourite swinger I think I might fall in love with you if we met ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!
Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.
I've never refused a man because he was too fat."
Fat! How dare you! Out of political correctness, my people prefer the term 'butter stallion'! Hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's safe to say there's plenty of guys that like larger men. BBW may have been a porn, media marketing angle, but there is a lot of truth in it.
I for one love women with curves, hips, nice juicy ass, even a little belly. I'll stop now, turning myself on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed.
Your kind words humble me.
Cleo is, in fact, a horrible person.
She just has a big flesh fetish!"
I'm more than happy to supply the flesh for you cleo, anytime!  |
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!
Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.
I've never refused a man because he was too fat."
I think you will find that she is taking the piss out of us fat guys |
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There's "Larger" guys...
And then there are guys that haven't seen their penis in many years without a mirror or an upside down periscope...
So... It depends on your definition I guess.
Cheers
Flames |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx"
If I ever needed a reason to eat more bacon and egg baguettes, I need look no further!! I wonder how long it will take me to bulk out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx"
Cleo,
If only you were still meeting guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disgusting.
Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......
Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!
Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.
I've never refused a man because he was too fat.
I think you will find that she is taking the piss out of us fat guys"
I don't know where you're getting that from. I'm being perfectly sincere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
can bike it over to Colchester"
Not too fast! Burns too many calories..... |
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Sounds cheesy but for me, Mr dirty really has the phwoar factor with his lovely big strong thighs, gorgeous bum, broad chest and shoulders and bit of a belly. He carries himself well with confidence and is a flirt. Love seeing him flirt with the ladies then taking him home and shagging his brains out. Best go and calm down, he's away for 10 days. He's going to get a damn good seeing to when he gets back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Sounds cheesy but for me, Mr dirty really has the phwoar factor with his lovely big strong thighs, gorgeous bum, broad chest and shoulders and bit of a belly. He carries himself well with confidence and is a flirt. Love seeing him flirt with the ladies then taking him home and shagging his brains out. Best go and calm down, he's away for 10 days. He's going to get a damn good seeing to when he gets back. "
i think I love him myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres a few women out there who prefer large framed men, I was 23st when I met my lass who was 8st back then, she is still 8st and via a lot of regular sex I'm now a modest 16-17st Lmao |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene. |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
North West |
"Curious to know this...
As there is quite commonly known, many guys prefer larger women. Is this reversed? Do some women just prefer larger guys?
Curious to find out you thoughts "
Possibly couples swapping "like for like" might work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene."
So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?
Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene."
I can shag for a lot longer than I can run...even if there's a cream bun at the finish line.
There's more than one type of stamina.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene."
This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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there are two different things i want to say....
1st, you are never going to appeal to everyone... i think there is sometimes a fixation of trying to appeal to those people who are never going to like you... as opposed to concentrating on those who will...
and if you did appeal to everyone you'd likely be the blandest person on the planet
2nd, sometimes at clubs you get to see the person behind the front so to speak, and that may be as attractive or even more so than anything else.....
I'm a big unit... I aim to try and be the best "me" I can be.... so like me, cool!! If you hate me, i don't care and i aint changing.... sorry!!!!!!
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
North West |
"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about. "
How so?
You over eat and dont exercise, you get fat. The more fat you carry, the less mobile and healthy you are. It is fairly simple to understand unless your purpose is to be an apologist for those who have medical issues that make them eat pies instead of salads. |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?
Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?"
The thread is about men, not women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?
Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?"
I'm 16st large but don't look obese. Stocky frame bit of pudding and I can outperform manh men who people here would call athletic.
Because someone is big it defo don't mean they are crap in bed or other areas. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about.
How so?
You over eat and dont exercise, you get fat. The more fat you carry, the less mobile and healthy you are. It is fairly simple to understand unless your purpose is to be an apologist for those who have medical issues that make them eat pies instead of salads."
So using your thought process as a benchmark, the fact that your him is old he is decrepit and should be put out to pasture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed."
strange thing - they were on saturday kitchen this morning and my 21 yr old daughter said - the grey haired bearded one was kinda fanciable - i said he has a kind face |
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?
Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?
The thread is about men, not women."
You could have still answered the question(s) |
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"I've always liked the phrase; "If you have a big nail, you need a big hammer"."
I have nothing to add to this but just wish to applaud you on your profile name. It has proper tickled me |
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"I've always liked the phrase; "If you have a big nail, you need a big hammer".
I have nothing to add to this but just wish to applaud you on your profile name. It has proper tickled me "
Thanks, I come from a long line of fiddleflaps. |
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about.
How so?
You over eat and dont exercise, you get fat. The more fat you carry, the less mobile and healthy you are. It is fairly simple to understand unless your purpose is to be an apologist for those who have medical issues that make them eat pies instead of salads."
Bit narrow minded your size has nothing to do with fitness levels. |
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx
Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed.
strange thing - they were on saturday kitchen this morning and my 21 yr old daughter said - the grey haired bearded one was kinda fanciable - i said he has a kind face "
I know, right? They ARE hot!
Hairy Bikers are sex on legs. Well, wheels. |
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.
This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about. "
it's just a comment ,an opinion ,a thoughtless one ,a harsh one but an opinion nevertheless ,we all have one and the point of a forum I think is to see what people think ,she told you how she feels large people/guys don't appeal to her  |
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"I have a major fetish for large men.
Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.
My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.
xxxx"
My new, favourite topic comment
Gx |
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"Surely this is all performance related?
People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.
What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.
Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene."
Speaking as someone who carries a significant bit of extra weight I would say that this comment is both pathetic** and uniformed.
Being overweight DOES NOT correlate with being unfit. I'd quite happily put my fitness level and stamina up against any "regular sized" person any say.
In fact, according to my doctors, it was my general fitness levels and stamina that saved my life recently after having a defect* related heart issue that resulted in my pacemaker being fitted!!!
*a defect discovered when I was 19 years old and considerably slimmer!
**yes, you hit a nerve with your post |
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Basically someone's opinion is fat guys have no stamina then explain to me how I can fuck non stop for over 3hrs. I'm 17st have bigger tits than my lass and if needed can be ready to go again in around 20mins please someone explain to me how I a 'unfit' fat bloke can possible.have more stamina than the average Joe lol |
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"Basically someone's opinion is fat guys have no stamina then explain to me how I can fuck non stop for over 3hrs. I'm 17st have bigger tits than my lass and if needed can be ready to go again in around 20mins please someone explain to me how I a 'unfit' fat bloke can possible.have more stamina than the average Joe lol "
Indeed, we only meet single ladies for 3somes, i have no problem with an night long session with angel and another woman.....probably couldn't run for toffee though.....not that i would, i'd have them bring me my toffee |
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I have been fairly heavy and i have been alot thinner. When my weight is down i get hit on and flirted with by women. When i had a bigger belly going on women looked away without interest. I am somewhere in between right now. I find most bbw to be very sexy but not all. I feel men are more excepting of larger size then women are. |
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"I have been fairly heavy and i have been alot thinner. When my weight is down i get hit on and flirted with by women. When i had a bigger belly going on women looked away without interest. I am somewhere in between right now. I find most bbw to be very sexy but not all. I feel men are more excepting of larger size then women are. "
Does that mean that women are more shallow than men ? |
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"I have been fairly heavy and i have been alot thinner. When my weight is down i get hit on and flirted with by women. When i had a bigger belly going on women looked away without interest. I am somewhere in between right now. I find most bbw to be very sexy but not all. I feel men are more excepting of larger size then women are.
Does that mean that women are more shallow than men ?"
I have to agree with the poster so Id say yes when it comes to weight women are more shallow! |
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Everything is about taste most people use their eyes to make an initial judgement of a person and then their ears ,narrowminded people won't allow themselves to approach if the eyes put them off ,we are all guilty of it at some point |
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"I have been fairly heavy and i have been alot thinner. When my weight is down i get hit on and flirted with by women. When i had a bigger belly going on women looked away without interest. I am somewhere in between right now. I find most bbw to be very sexy but not all. I feel men are more excepting of larger size then women are.
Does that mean that women are more shallow than men ?"
Right how can I put this tactfully. I don't think we are more shallow I do think on the whole that women are more choosy. Let's be honest there's a huge amount of men who'll fuck anything with a vagina. Whereas on the whole women need intense attraction. (Don't shot me ) |
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"Depends on the man, if the have an attractive face and can make me laugh maybe. All depends how big you call big and the person x"
I would say slim guys aren't for me though x |
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These threads tickle me i play rugby size do not matter when it comes to stamina trust me the bigger guys in my team have just as much energy and desire to get about the rugby field as the not so bigger guys so i can imagine a bit of a fummble in the bedroom aint going to make them tired is it  |
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"I've had numerous women say the same as cleo but when it actually gets down to it (pardon the pun), the larger guy gets left to the wayside. I know quite a few slim lads who wouldn't touch a slim girl with a barge pole, and they are with ladies 16/18 +. Just wondered if any ladies out there thought the same or is it a gender thing?"
Not completely true, some guys will have sex with anything that pays attention to them. xx |
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"I've been both, was 24.5 stone now 13st12 and can in all honesty say that at 24.5st not one woman looked twice....hardly any looked once"
Well done mate, I was 16.5, now I'm 11.5 but the women are right in this case, when I was 16.5 I had the self esteem of a invertebrate, even if a nice lassy had looked at me my inner voice just screamed she think's you're gross! |
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