"Is there much of a swinging scene in Bristol I'm finding it difficult to get involved!!? "
I'm curious... by getting involved, are you just posting threads asking people to meet you and nothing else?
Have you checked in the meets and requests forum to see if there are any socials going on in Bristol?
I'm fairly certain it's not just as simple as sticking an ad up and expecting a boat load of women to appear. You kinda need to put some effort in.  |
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over a year ago
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I've been checking meets and forums since I joined. I'm more than happy to put the effort in and to be patient, I certainly don't expect a boat load of women to get hold of me either although that sounds good. Is there any help you can give me with my profile and maybe the initial message I send!? X |
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"I've been checking meets and forums since I joined. I'm more than happy to put the effort in and to be patient, I certainly don't expect a boat load of women to get hold of me either although that sounds good. Is there any help you can give me with my profile and maybe the initial message I send!? X"
I'd put some thought into your photos, i.e. make sure your colleagues aren't randomly in the background. 
Write a bit about yourself in the blurb, what you're interested in, what you're looking for, etc.
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"I'd put some thought into your photos, i.e. make sure your colleagues aren't randomly in the background.
Write a bit about yourself in the blurb, what you're interested in, what you're looking for, etc.
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"What about the initial message _irtygirl what should that say!? X"
Well I think tweaking your profile is fine, you have to start somewhere, but for me it's not enough.
Have a look round some of the boys profiles... there are many successful single blokes kicking around. See how their profiles read. I don't want to name examples as their heads will swell but I'm sure some of them will volunteer themselves.
Think of your profile as your shop window... if you were looking on Amazon, would you buy a product that had six lines of generic info or would you buy the one that had an interesting description?
Where's your sense of humour? You hate filling in blurb? Well that's obvious and if you can't be arsed filling in your own profile, why would I let you fill me in?
Paragraphs are good, as is spelling and punctuation. Whilst we're not in an English exam, I'd much rather fuck an articulate soul than a donut.
And you've removed a photo but not added any more. Take some tasteful shots and upload some variety. Personally I don't need to see your cock, I'd much rather unwrap it like a gift at Christmas so keep that private for those who want to see the goods before meeting you.
Good luck. You can buy me a beer next time I'm in Bristol if you like.
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over a year ago
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OOOH arrr I live in the country side, just south of Bri stol. On a moonlight night I can bee seen chasing sheep across the mendips, completely naked, apart from me wearing me sheep shaging wellies  |
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
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There are lots of swingers in Bristol, however without a swingers club (we don't count the Office) the city lacks a focal point.
You'll find all the Bristol swingers partying at Swindon, Gems, Xtasia, Secrets, AbFabs, Route69 etc. |
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