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Spur of the moment OR plan ahead
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you like to plan meets/club visits in advance or are you more a spur of the moment decide on the the day to play ?
We've planned for a couple of weeks to either visit a club or invite someone round to our home one night this weekend but now it's getting closer neither of us feel too motivated to do anything. Sometimes I think getting home on a Friday and thinking lets go to a club seems more fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we very rarely plan most meets are random spur of the moment this is because of the very little free time we get (onne a week if lucky) but random meets we get hardly any let downs the ones we plan well its 50/50 as to if they turn up or not   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So wish we could just do spur of the moment , but with having to arrange sitters etc...., it's not possible .
Of late we have had some great pre arranged meets , so both are good for us  |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
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For me spur of the moment is better. Have done planned meets too but many have been cancelled for several reasons. I have had some very good spur of the moment meets. On 2 occasions I have logged onto fab and got chatting to guys who were staying in my area for work. Within less than 2 hours of saying hello I was in there hotel room getting what I craved-somehow I find this sort of meet even more exciting -must be my inner slut lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like planned meetings. People asking for spur of the moment things irritate me because often I want to meet them, but can't do so within their timescale which leaves me in a bad mood.
Each to their own though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of both, depends on the mood and time space arrangements. Off the cusp is always exciting but alot of the time rushed and a bit haphazard. Planned is a little more predictable but you tend to get to know what a person likes and have a little more of a social interaction which again can make a night much more enjoyable for all |
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"Plan ahead, I like the tease and that's when the foreplay starts. I also stop wanking so they get the benefit of their teasing
This  "
I would Have had two weeks saved...he better bring his wetsuit |
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"Plan ahead, I like the tease and that's when the foreplay starts. I also stop wanking so they get the benefit of their teasing
This
I would Have had two weeks saved...he better bring his wetsuit "
And snorkel |
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"Spur of the moment.
Tried to plan a meet once and the guy turned into a right fuckin pest so never again "
Planned social meet for us...... as same as quote, pestered for months as we stupidly gave out mobile number......only meeting at a club do you see what people are really like and then you can decide if they are for you. |
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Plan to go to a club - but nothing pre-arranged when we get there. Never let down on this basis.
Most weekends busy doing other stuff - so only ever a few times a year for us.
I often plan for her to be fucked - and this quite often doesn't happen (for any reason) - anticipation and planning makes this fun anyway. |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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Personally Due to my times of meet and my shifts at work i'm usually in impulsive and want to meet then type of guy I know it's not everybody's cup of tea but it's usually the best I can do  How very very rarely met people on and arrange basis  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our play diary is planned with military precision. We typically know what we are doing about a month ahead. That's because we have to arrange babysitting in advance whenever we want to go out or entertain.
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