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over a year ago
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Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?
We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol
I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl
Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...    |
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Some guys simply have no idea! I think they watch too much porn and think it's real. One idiot a few years ago actually made me bleed by biting mine, never again! I just ask them to stop if they're too rough down there, Z |
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"Some guys simply have no idea! I think they watch too much porn and think it's real. One idiot a few years ago actually made me bleed by biting mine, never again! I just ask them to stop if they're too rough down there, Z"
Omg that is bad... yeh same here - I also ask hubby to "have a go" he then knows that they are getting to excited with my bean... lol |
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I know exactly what you mean and have experienced this, i always instinctively move away and clasp my legs tighter and Chris knows the signs and tells them to go gently. I cannot stand rough sex |
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I have never personally had this.. but do like it played with in a variety of manners..
Actually not many men seem to go for their, unless with oral.
Katie.x |
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"Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation "
Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them... |
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"Another word for the clitoris
wtf is a clitoris
Hmmm wonder if your a prime candidate for bean crushing... pmsl "
nah.i have the touch of a pianist....
i said pianist |
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"Another word for the clitoris
wtf is a clitoris
Hmmm wonder if your a prime candidate for bean crushing... pmsl
nah.i have the touch of a pianist....
i said pianist"
lol mmm |
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"Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation
Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them... "
And keep your fingers crossed that they ain't mortuary technicians pmsfl |
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Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them...
I'm a bean taster a skill that involves the tip of the tongue."
lol mmm a love oral and never have a prob it is when they go hell for leather on it with their hand/fingers hurts like hell... |
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"Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation
Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them...
And keep your fingers crossed that they ain't mortuary technicians pmsfl "
Omg don't even go there... pmsl |
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"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?
We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol
I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl
Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them... "
This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!! |
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"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?
We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol
I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl
Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...
This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!"
Lmao sounds like u no exactly what am talking about - just read ur profile... hmmm does it work??? |
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I have told peeps to stop what they were doing if they were hurting me.
Don't care if they did not like it. If I was not enjoying myself, why should they?!  |
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"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?
We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol
I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl
Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...
This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!
Lmao sounds like u no exactly what am talking about - just read ur profile... hmmm does it work??? "
Yes,it does work.....just need to let each other what you like and what you dont....always open to new things and experiment..but gentle,slow,erotic!
Noticed on ur profile that you do say "love it rough" ....maybe it gives the wrong idea when you also say "submissive" in that you may mean ou prefer the guy to take the lead and be firm but not rough? |
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"Very true pearl, we had a play on monday daytime and kaz's nipples have only just stopped hurting, why do guys feel the need to try and suck her tits off."
We think its becuse they think more is better..when in fact its down to understanding ,listening to the lady and technique  |
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"Very true pearl, we had a play on monday daytime and kaz's nipples have only just stopped hurting, why do guys feel the need to try and suck her tits off."
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Mine are very sensitive, and peeps do not believe me when I tell them how sensitive they can be.
They would soon find out as I have been known to push peeps away if they are too rough with them!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?
We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol
I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl
Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...
This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!
Lmao sounds like u no exactly what am talking about - just read ur profile... hmmm does it work???
Yes,it does work.....just need to let each other what you like and what you dont....always open to new things and experiment..but gentle,slow,erotic!
Noticed on ur profile that you do say "love it rough" ....maybe it gives the wrong idea when you also say "submissive" in that you may mean ou prefer the guy to take the lead and be firm but not rough?"
Yeh think u might be right... will think about how to re-phrase it... I did mean love rough sex but not rough bean play... lol thanks for the suggestion!!! |
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