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Taking someone to a club while the cat is away?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How would you feel about taking someone to a swingers club while his/her partner is away, who was single when you first knew him/her, who is now in a vanilla relationship, and his/her partner does not appear to know about his/her sexual past?
I would feel uneasy about it, as I would be knowingly encouraging that person to cheat behind his/her partner's back.
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I have been put in a similar position by a girl at work who knows what we do and is very intrigued and very bi-curious.
She was single and had asked if I would take her to a club just so she could have a look around and see what happens (a girly night out kind of thing). We never got around to going.
She is now in a vanilla relationship and still wants me to take her. I asked her what her partner would say and she is under the impression that what he doesnt know wont hurt him. I have refused to take her, making the excuse of how weird it would be to play in front of her. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I would also see it as pretty wrong.
Actually assisting someone to cheat makes a pretty wrong thing.
A female friend of mine is still dating and knows of my attendance of clubs and wants to come but she knows i would only ever take her if she is single. Not before. |
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wierd it seems as if its just a general question, but a dit too much if this if that to be general, even down to knowing a specific club in question, is this the op asking for guidance as to making a decision? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have made my decision a few days before starting the thread, and the answer is no, as I do not want to encourage someone to cheat behind his/her partner's back.
The original thought behind starting the thread is to gauge others' point of view.
I am capable of making my own mind without much help.  |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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If it was a woman, I'd say take her. If it were a man, I'd refuse. That's because a woman is far more likely to be able to go, observe, and make her mind up about whether she enjoys the club whereas a man will be straining at the leash to get stuck in. It's an invite for a bloke to cheat, but women can be more reserved and not let her genitals control her brain.
Let's face it, not many men want to go to a club but them have to be persuaded or cajoled into having a play, they are already in the zone when they express an interest in going.
Usual disclaimers and exceptions apply obviously, I know more than one woman whose minge is fizzing and chewing the top of her leg.(Thankfully, he he) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i met a couple at a club, (they are not on here). He is average looking etc, she is an absolute goddess, very good looking, amazing body, great personality and sense of humour, a wild fuck, and devoted to him. A lucky, lucky man.
A few weeks later I bumped into him at the club while she was away, I was asked to keep shtumm about seeing him! |
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