Because it makes them feel better about themselves if they can put you down on the way out the door.
You know if you can't rise above then push the others down type philosophy.
It's bollox and their own insecurities talking. Just simply block and move on.
We have lady friends that if they choose to reply 'no thanks' now automatically block after they have replied so they don't have to put up with that shit. Don't let it get you down. |
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over a year ago
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch? 
I should name and shame him"
No you shouldn't. You should learn to delete and ignore...or block...it saves much angst. |
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over a year ago
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
You dented his pride and he couldn't take it. |
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You mean the ones who said you were gorgeous 2 seconds before they have their poor feelings hurt by you not wanting to have sex with them. ...so have to insult you.
I've come across them too. On the plus side you know you made the right decision   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they do that, it just validates your decision not to meet them. It proves what an arse they are. Chin up, be a fog. Kick some sand over that shit and move on.  x |
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over a year ago
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it "
Yet before you said no thanks he was game |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game "
He started by saying he was free tomorrow to meet and let's make arrangements. |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game
He started by saying he was free tomorrow to meet and let's make arrangements. "
No fucking about there then.  |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game
He started by saying he was free tomorrow to meet and let's make arrangements.
No fucking about there then. "
Nope, none at all. Nothing like being upfront |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game
He started by saying he was free tomorrow to meet and let's make arrangements.
No fucking about there then.
Nope, none at all. Nothing like being upfront "
Im far to shy for any of that business  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
He believes in a eye for an eye  |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
My usual reply to that is
Oi that's mistress fat bitch to you |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game
He started by saying he was free tomorrow to meet and let's make arrangements.
No fucking about there then.
Nope, none at all. Nothing like being upfront
Im far to shy for any of that business "
Lol, I can see that from your profile  |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him
No you shouldn't. You should learn to delete and ignore...or block...it saves much angst."
Totally agreed! |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him
My usual reply to that is
Oi that's mistress fat bitch to you "
I like that |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
I just had my second ever negative response today. Most guys take a polite rejection graciously - but statistically there's bound to be a few dickheads out there. Don't let a dickhead get to you OP x |
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In seven years I've never received such a message. When visible I have on my profile I won't reply to anyone outwith what I'm looking for, and I dont, simply delete.
No angst on my part and I could give a shit if someone who couldn't be arsed to read my profile and eliminate themselves thought me "rude!" |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game "
Don't worry sweetie! We have all had those messages! He would have pissed his pants with excitement if you said yes! He wanted you before!! Just sour grapes darling! Just block him and don't give him another seconds thought! He didn't win the prize - you!!! |
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By *onlyshowWoman
over a year ago
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
These days I usual just respond with a thanks but I'm not actually your type, that tends to throw them out a bit, I get far less insulting responses now.. |
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"I just politely said
'no thanks your not my type'
Got in return, 'bet your not miss world, fat bitch'
I have broad shoulders, I can take it
Yet before you said no thanks he was game
Don't worry sweetie! We have all had those messages! He would have pissed his pants with excitement if you said yes! He wanted you before!! Just sour grapes darling! Just block him and don't give him another seconds thought! He didn't win the prize - you!!! "
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
Unfortunately your not allowed to name and shame however I've seen statutes doing it, no idea if they get into trouble but don't do it on the forums.
Just block the rude ppl |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him
Unfortunately your not allowed to name and shame however I've seen statutes doing it, no idea if they get into trouble but don't do it on the forums.
Just block the rude ppl"
Thanks for the advice x |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him
Unfortunately your not allowed to name and shame however I've seen statutes doing it, no idea if they get into trouble but don't do it on the forums.
Just block the rude ppl"
you get threatened to have your account deleted if you name and shame again. |
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Or the ones that send you multiple messages, you give them a bit of chat, but then if you don't give them ENOUGH chat you're stuck up and their true colours shine through! I should trust my instincts... |
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"Or the ones that send you multiple messages, you give them a bit of chat, but then if you don't give them ENOUGH chat you're stuck up and their true colours shine through! I should trust my instincts..."
multiple messages often = pushy, or some kind of difficulty in understand how to socialise with people. |
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"I like to reply with 'It must really knock your confidence that even a fat bitch/slag/ugly whore (delete as appropriate) won't meet you....' "
Ouch that's a good one
Someone here called me "wired" yesterday when I said I didn't want to meet, but I think they meant weird |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
I'm sooooo tempted to do the same for a guy I refused to meet and he's turned nasty as a result |
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"Why, when you reply nicely, no thanks your not my type do men feel they are able to throw an insult and call me a fat bitch?
I should name and shame him"
I don't get guys who do that sort of thing. He obviously fancied you and wanted to meet you. Before you turned him down he didn't see you as a "fat bitch". Did he think after calling you a fat bitch you were suddenly going to say "Oh I made mistake I really want to meet you"? |
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