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Nasty mail.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have to say over years here not had mail like this . Just you get some who keep mailing just one or two words in there post like I am local LETS SHAG.I mail back saying i like to know people to feel safe in a 121. Then i get mail back saying your a time waster then next mail i have then calling me all sorts when i say i get loads of mail here and can be picky thay hate it. Do you get this? jo xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jo, yes, I'm afraid it happens

"Let's shag, I'm local" is the most common opening line I see. It just means that they think we're desperate (which we're not!) so I ignore/delete them. I don't even reply. If they think I'm rude - well tough!

Chin up. As you say, there are lots of NICE guys on here xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

just this week had nasty mail , lol x

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

why worry, people who 'grunt' 2 word messages in text need a kind thought.

they are able to type whilst tugging on the vinegar stroke.

genius x

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yes I get plenty from men who obviously don't like being turned down. At least we can filter them out using this site. Imagine what they'd be like if we turned them down in person at a pub or club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Jo, yes, I'm afraid it happens

Chin up. As you say, there are lots of NICE guys on here xxxxx"
well not been one to Block but now see at times you have to .. x

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By *edhotminxWoman over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Hit the report button - no one has the right to be abusive.

So, report the user, block them so no more messages received, delete those he's sent and then move on. Plenty of lovely people on the site, just a few feckers that can't handle rejection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Jo,

Occassionally. I just delete. I have no idea why anyone would answer.

Given the approach I'd say they are either underage or older and seriously inept.

Some people are just plain emotionally thick and others would get a thrill from it and I'd stake my life that not all of them want to meet anyway.

Saying Giz a Shag over the net is the nearest any of them will come to speaking to another human being about sex.

Don't worry about it. Just delete.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never enter into any form of communication with someone I have no interest in meeting. That must be why I never get abusive mail!

If you respond to a crass opening message like "I'm local wanna shag" let's face it, you're not going to get a flowery response if you say "gee, that's a rather sweet offer, but no ta"!

Be a bit more circumspect people and save yourself bother!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

Block and delete is the answer, anyone who gets abusive just report them then block. And worry not.

(there should be a name and shame section for such in our opinion but that another subject)

Anyone deficient of basic respect and manners is hardly going to be good company!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have had a few guys mail "would love to take worlass from behind" hubby just says i bet they would and we laugh. we block and move on had some really nice guys on here.