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Gf wont let me touch her ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? "
Er you are on here as a single guy and you want us to tell you how to get your gf to comply with your sexual demands?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ?
Er you are on here as a single guy and you want us to tell you how to get your gf to comply with your sexual demands??"
He's still allowed to ask a question  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't force her !!!!"
Yeah thats not quite what I said. I said, you can't force someone to like what you like. She either doesn't like you playing with her nipples and oral sex or, you don't do it how she likes.
The only one who can answer you is her though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? "
Ask her why
Did she let you before
Does she still let you fuck her
Does she no you are on here?.
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By *lubitMan
over a year ago
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Or possibly she gets a thrill out of telling you what you can and can't do to her.
There's only one way to get answers.
Waterboarding...no sorry. Talk to her directly about it while not in bed...that's it right? Waterboarding is bad...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? "
Ask her if it's ok if she watches you wank that's reasonable enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "
You've been given advice, really good advice, and pretty much the only advice that can be offered. Talk to your gf. None of us are going to know why she's limiting what you can do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "
I've tried to help but it's hard when no one but your GF knows why she doesn't want foreplay.
Does she enjoy the sex that you have, does she give you oral? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "
You have been given good advise - talk to your girlfriend. Nobody else knows the answer. |
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OP no matter whether it is a long term relationship, FWB or just a meet communication is key.
We really can't offer any advice on this. Only your GF knows the reasons why and you need to talk. Just trying to persuade her will probably make things worse.
Good luck, i hope you can straighten things out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do you think she's enjoying what she's doing now, or is putting up with what little she is giving to you?
you don't need to answer this coz you do need to talk to her like what has already been said, but do just think about the above. she might not even want sex but is letting you get it over and done with coz she is tired or something. that's better than most other options if she still wants some intimacy and not too much to worry about intially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How old is she? Could it be hormonal, such as the menopause? Some women enjoy things a bit differently at different times of their monthly cycle so maybe that has some relevance, if she usually enjoys it.
It could be that she's never really enjoyed it and has just tolerated it to please you but is now brave enough to ask you to stop. But as others say, only she can really tell you why. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Something to ponder too, you say she is on here, Is that because SHE wants to be or because you do?
If you met on here she wouldn't be the first or last to hope to have found something more, if she thinks you are it she'll now wonder why you need to still be on Fab?
You need to ask her..
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