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Verification Troubles
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know it can be hard on here as a single guy, trying to get anyone to take you seriously as the other 90% tend to be creepy weirdo's.
However surely there must be a few shortcuts to getting that elusive first meet in the bag.
I assume once verified people tend to take you a little more seriously.
Any verification tips appreciated
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"Pics and profile are what will get you your first meet as well as a decent first message sent."
Not entirely true..I had neither a good profile and my first message was exactly how I'd approach someone in real life. Hey how are you?..lol |
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What you must remember mate is each to their own..you will definitely not please everyone with your profile,pictures or first message as everyone has their own opinion on what makes a good first impression. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You actually have to ask? Picturewise, all we know about you is what your cock looks like! I hope you didn't think that's how women generally choose sex partners  Besides there are hundreds of practically identical pictures on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Suppose I will have to put a bit more effort into my profile then, and in terms of my messaging, id like to think that I'm fairly quirky and not just the usual 'fancy a fuck type of guy'.
And yeah I can tell I need to get myself to some of these clubs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The reason I don't post face pictures is purely work related, which I think is understandable. Plus there are plenty of folks with verifications without face pics in their profile.
I do have face pics, however they're set to private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still waiting 
Well one of your profile pics would suggest otherwise"
lol that could be off pof haha!! But was off my old profile I've started a fresh after a break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I don't post face pictures is purely work related, which I think is understandable. Plus there are plenty of folks with verifications without face pics in their profile.
I do have face pics, however they're set to private "
Yep that's fairly standard not to show full face pics on the public gallery. Nobody will expect that of you, as long as you send with first message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clubs, socials, parties. All places where real life people are there to natter with. Step away from the keyboard and talk to people. "
Yeah think this sounds about right, perhaps I'm just a little shy.
Just checked your profile out btw and Jesus your fucking stunning x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take out the part about waiting for a first meet,get a body picture,an arse picture and not just a picture of your cock. C'mon you're killing us here  "
Or if you are not as lucky in the body department as the gentleman suggesting this, you could try a clothed pic. A man in suit always looks hot. Crop out part or all your face, depending how comfortable you feel |
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"Take out the part about waiting for a first meet,get a body picture,an arse picture and not just a picture of your cock. C'mon you're killing us here
Or if you are not as lucky in the body department as the gentleman suggesting this, you could try a clothed pic. A man in suit always looks hot. Crop out part or all your face, depending how comfortable you feel"
Aww thank you..yep suited and booted will also work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you must remember mate is each to their own..you will definitely not please everyone with your profile,pictures or first message as everyone has their own opinion on what makes a good first impression. "
That is very true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Take out the part about waiting for a first meet,get a body picture,an arse picture and not just a picture of your cock. C'mon you're killing us here
Or if you are not as lucky in the body department as the gentleman suggesting this, you could try a clothed pic. A man in suit always looks hot. Crop out part or all your face, depending how comfortable you feel
Aww thank you..yep suited and booted will also work "
Aha this has just answered exactly what I was about to say, I can do the whole smart suit thing, just need to get on photoshop (more likely be paint haha) |
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"Take out the part about waiting for a first meet,get a body picture,an arse picture and not just a picture of your cock. C'mon you're killing us here
Or if you are not as lucky in the body department as the gentleman suggesting this, you could try a clothed pic. A man in suit always looks hot. Crop out part or all your face, depending how comfortable you feel
Aww thank you..yep suited and booted will also work
Aha this has just answered exactly what I was about to say, I can do the whole smart suit thing, just need to get on photoshop (more likely be paint haha)"
We all have our strengths and weaknesses lol |
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"I wouldn't even read your profile or message with a cock as a profile pic
At least your honest "
But some will message you..what I tend to do is tailer my pictures to who I'm looking for at that particular time..widen your net so to speak |
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33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you? |
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"What you must remember mate is each to their own..you will definitely not please everyone with your profile,pictures or first message as everyone has their own opinion on what makes a good first impression.
That is very true."
Thanks..I occasionally speak sense ha |
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you? "
It's up to him when he makes the changes. Wth  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you? "
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol |
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you? "
Yes but it's always a tough decision for a man who's been told that a cock avatar will substantially reduce the size of his fishpond. It's like telling a peacock not to show off its tail |
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol "
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol
I'm on it, what do you mean by the trouser unbuttoning? I already have a dick pic lol
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop "
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop "
Wow!!..are you planning on meeting him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop
Wow!!..are you planning on meeting him?"
Maybe if he jumps through enough hoops, messages with the magic phrase, adds photos to our liking, re words his profile, books and pays for the hotel, champagne on ice, £50 voucher for food!! 
Kidding of course....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suppose I will have to put a bit more effort into my profile then, and in terms of my messaging, id like to think that I'm fairly quirky and not just the usual 'fancy a fuck type of guy'.
And yeah I can tell I need to get myself to some of these clubs "
S'pose you will!
get to it....go on.
*tough love* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a historic moment on Fab. A chap asks for guidance and actually acts on it whilst also taking banter in his stride. Humongous high fives in the OP's general direction |
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"This is a historic moment on Fab. A chap asks for guidance and actually acts on it whilst also taking banter in his stride. Humongous high fives in the OP's general direction "
That's is true..what is going on here?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop
Wow!!..are you planning on meeting him?"
Mmmmmm if only  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is a historic moment on Fab. A chap asks for guidance and actually acts on it whilst also taking banter in his stride. Humongous high fives in the OP's general direction "
This must be a similar feeling to winning 5 Olympic gold medals.
Just need someone to pop my cherry now and I'll be able to class this as a good day! x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop
Wow!!..are you planning on meeting him?
Maybe if he jumps through enough hoops, messages with the magic phrase, adds photos to our liking, re words his profile, books and pays for the hotel, champagne on ice, £50 voucher for food!!
Kidding of course......."
You forgot to add that I will also be providing transport, this could be the deal breaker x |
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"33 mins into the thread and still the only photo is a cock pic... I'd rather see no photo on a profile than a cock pic.. So OP.. Are you going to take any advice given to you by people taking time out to try and help you?
What would be your suggestion for a profile pick them Brinksey? I am willing to change my ways, it's just difficult when at work lol
It only takes one second to remove the photo.. And a few minutes to upload a new one.. Are you wearing a shirt? Just unbutton a few buttons and take a photo of the top half of your shirt with a loosely tied tie... If not just unbutton your trousers and take a photo... It's easy .. Get to it .. Chop chop
Wow!!..are you planning on meeting him?
Maybe if he jumps through enough hoops, messages with the magic phrase, adds photos to our liking, re words his profile, books and pays for the hotel, champagne on ice, £50 voucher for food!!
Kidding of course......."
One step at a time.. Congrats OP.. I'll hand the next task over to someone else .. Yes I'm passing the baton |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See if there are any organised socials you could attend. Perhaps the Alton towers one in sep. I organise 3 socials a year especially for finding peeps I may want to have fun with but also to veri anyone who needs one. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"See if there are any organised socials you could attend. Perhaps the Alton towers one in sep. I organise 3 socials a year especially for finding peeps I may want to have fun with but also to veri anyone who needs one. Xxx"
I'll bear it in mind, thanks for the invite x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't even read your profile or message with a cock as a profile pic "
Me neither..and I clearly state that in my profile... I'm sure there's plenty of women who like cock pics... But I'm one of the few like you who rather wait before seeing that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't even read your profile or message with a cock as a profile pic
Me neither..and I clearly state that in my profile... I'm sure there's plenty of women who like cock pics... But I'm one of the few like you who rather wait before seeing that.
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The pic was changed earlier on with advice from the masses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't even read your profile or message with a cock as a profile pic
Me neither..and I clearly state that in my profile... I'm sure there's plenty of women who like cock pics... But I'm one of the few like you who rather wait before seeing that.
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Gosh what a dream. To unwrap my present without having had a pre_iew. I miss those days |
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