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Baby faced/young looking men.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I look younger than I am, and in the past I've had some pretty good responses to it but I feel like I'm on to a loser with it on Fab. Has anyone else had this experience? I feel like I'd have more success if I looked 30  maybe I'll have to come back when I'm 40 but look 30  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I have got older I prefer guys nearer to my age, say 38 to 52. Its just an attraction thing. I think if i was at a swingers party though it could be different as you see more than just a two dimensional photo. The youngest guy I have been with most recently has been 33. Never say never. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As I have got older I prefer guys nearer to my age, say 38 to 52. Its just an attraction thing. I think if i was at a swingers party though it could be different as you see more than just a two dimensional photo. The youngest guy I have been with most recently has been 33. Never say never. "
Interesting view on it, thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here. "
Yeah I get the same thing but I definitely don't mind being called cute!  hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here. "
How come we have same username |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.
How come we have same username"
Hahaha great minds, huh?! .
I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer younger guys....or ones that at least look younger than me...I don't really find guys that look much older than I feel (which is my twenties not my 40s as my actual age is), that attractive for some reason....although that is not set in stone, but it is not far off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.
How come we have same username
Hahaha great minds, huh?! .
I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you? "
As you're cute I let get away this time I'll let you borrow it longer if you can prove you're over 18 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.
How come we have same username
Hahaha great minds, huh?! .
I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you?
As you're cute I let get away this time I'll let you borrow it longer if you can prove you're over 18 "
Haha, and how do you suggest I prove that?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.
How come we have same username
Hahaha great minds, huh?! .
I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you?
As you're cute I let get away this time I'll let you borrow it longer if you can prove you're over 18
Haha, and how do you suggest I prove that?
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Copy certified of your ID . You can inbox it to me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women on here always say I look young ...... oh and cute ...... which is a term for not good looking .... haha"
Its really not when I say it. I always mean it as hot!!  |
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"Women on here always say I look young ...... oh and cute ...... which is a term for not good looking .... haha
Its really not when I say it. I always mean it as hot!! "
I might have got this wrong then  ...... damnnnnn |
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When I met my other half off here he was surprised I was really 53 and said I could knock at least 10 years off (he'd knocked five years off his). My sisters and I don't look our age, we call each other Dorian Grey.
The guy in the phone shop said "no way!" when I gave my date of birth and the doctor at the hospital rechecked my date of birth as he didn't believe my age.
My daughters all look about 12 but are married with families of their own. My youngest is a doctor but gets asked for id all the time.
Personally I could care less if at 56 I look 40...I'd rather be 40 looking 56, because "younger looking" and "young" are different things and I'd rather be young.
As for young looking men: absolute turn off for me. I prefer the aesthetics of an older man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 42 but still look like im in my late twenties.
My Fab swinger problem is that even though a woman or a couple are looking for a young looking man.. Many set the age limit to 40.
Ive seen kids with full beards and 6'5 tall that look older than me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do quite like a baby faced guy of any age but I don't stick to that .........
I still get that I'm cute etc and being the age I am now I'm more than happy that I look 10 years younger........
there's pros and cons to everything ......... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got called cute yesterday! At 43 it still has me thinking is that a good thing or not "
Happened twice to me today so far ha! I definitely don't think it's a bad thing if it's meant as a compliment |
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I hate at times that I look younger too- doesn't help in work when everybody thinks you are younger and Less experienced than you are. I think it does become more of a plus the older you get though- lots start getting jealous then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get this a lot. It can be a bit of a curse as well as a blessing.
I'm over 30 but people tend to think late twenties which can sometimes rule me out of playtime.
The best comment was one couple felt I was looked too close in age to their son. Awkward
Each to their own. Age is only a number and if attraction is there it shouldn't matter ( within reasonable and legal sense might I add)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I apparently look quite a bit younger than 30, I still get asked for ID quite often and most people we meet can't believe I'm 30 and a mother of 4, yes it's a compliment I guess but I do find it frustrating when I'm trying to buy alcohol with my weekly shop and a child hanging of each limb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my 38th birthday I got asked for identification I told the bouncer it was my birthday and I'd been coming to that establishment since when he was on his mother's tit and just walked in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"wouldn't mind seeing this baby face...
You have mail
Hope you've got somewhere? "
Not with this particular lovely lady, but I did get another message off someone lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get told I look quite young. I hated it when I was actually young but the older I get the more I like it. "
Yeah I think once I hit 30 I'll be loving it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - Being young is an asset.
I'm of the age where I see adverts only looking for people older than me - and there's not a jot that I can do.
I also know there's a lot of adverts out there from people only looking for people older than me.
Being young can have lots of disadvantages, but I wish I was 25 again!
That also goes for looks, would you rather look older or younger than your years? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look younger than I am, and in the past I've had some pretty good responses to it but I feel like I'm on to a loser with it on Fab. Has anyone else had this experience? I feel like I'd have more success if I looked 30 maybe I'll have to come back when I'm 40 but look 30 "
Don't worry about it. Could be the opposite |
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Consider improving your profile and photos as much as you can - and then targeting people who are looking for guys with fresh, young looks. Your photos don't really give much away about how you look and I think they're a major let down for you atm. I'm assuming that your body could have photos taken of it that would potentially look good? The current range is going to be limited in their appeal to many people. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I look younger than I am, and in the past I've had some pretty good responses to it but I feel like I'm on to a loser with it on Fab. Has anyone else had this experience? I feel like I'd have more success if I looked 30 maybe I'll have to come back when I'm 40 but look 30 "
I'm 40. I don't think I look it. But I'll be sure to let you know if it helps when I decide to start meeting new people again (my fab age being accurate may stymie the experiment though). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I, Mr, have been told that I'm kind of young and boyish looking. It seems that a lot of women on the scene prefer a rugged man, but you just play to the niche lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm 40. I don't think I look it. But I'll be sure to let you know if it helps when I decide to start meeting new people again (my fab age being accurate may stymie the experiment though)."
Aw, I'm damn sure your age won't be a hindrance! Best of luck and let us know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I'm assuming that your body could have photos taken of it that would potentially look good? "
Hahaha ouch!
But yes, it can. I do keep meaning to take more. |
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