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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What attracts perspective swingers to each other. Is it mostly looks or does personality count too. Basically would you play with an unattractive couple if they were really funny and nice ????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now this is similar to a thread I posted this morning.
Personality always comes first with me, but I do also have to find the person physically attractive. It's a mixture of everything that makes me decide whether or not I want to meet someone. It's never based on just one aspect of a person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now this is similar to a thread I posted this morning.
Personality always comes first with me, but I do also have to find the person physically attractive. It's a mixture of everything that makes me decide whether or not I want to meet someone. It's never based on just one aspect of a person. "
let's be honest. Bout this it's the superficial approach.....not me though ...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now this is similar to a thread I posted this morning.
Personality always comes first with me, but I do also have to find the person physically attractive. It's a mixture of everything that makes me decide whether or not I want to meet someone. It's never based on just one aspect of a person. "
Not any port in a storm then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now this is similar to a thread I posted this morning.
Personality always comes first with me, but I do also have to find the person physically attractive. It's a mixture of everything that makes me decide whether or not I want to meet someone. It's never based on just one aspect of a person.
Not any port in a storm then?"
Afraid not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks initially and then personality. I'm not going to sleep with anyone I don't find physically attractive but good looking people can very easily become unattractive without a good personality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looks initially and then personality. I'm not going to sleep with anyone I don't find physically attractive but good looking people can very easily become unattractive without a good personality."
Truer words were never said. Spot on. It happens a lot.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The twinkle in a person's eyes always indicates whether or not they are a nice person who knows how to enjoy themselves. The rest of the person is merely window dressing.
I've enjoyed truly great times with less than perfect looking people, and had awful experiences with beautiful people, (and vice versa). I always view people as a whole, however there are plenty of people who don't.
Sexiness comes from within.... |
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"Has to be looks 60% personality 40%"
I'd agree to an extent. It's a balancing act essentially! If I'm 50/50 as to whether I fancy them or not then personality (or lack of it) will sway me either way! Don't get me wrong - even drop dead gorgeous guys have to have SOME brains/personality - but guys I'm not sure about would need to work harder at laughing me into bed!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks makes me want to message, then the personality would be wether I'd want to meet them or not. In a nutshell anyway "
Pretty much a spot on summary; though it can take a while, sometimes months, for a person's true nature and personality to show through. |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
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This is where I like the forums as I've met some people who I thought would never have looked at me if I had sent a private messagebut the forums help people to know more about one another's personality that's not as easy to get across on a few lines...
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"Now this is similar to a thread I posted this morning.
Personality always comes first with me, but I do also have to find the person physically attractive. It's a mixture of everything that makes me decide whether or not I want to meet someone. It's never based on just one aspect of a person. "
Yeah same for us. We have to get on with people and also fancy them. Jack. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Looks initially and then personality. I'm not going to sleep with anyone I don't find physically attractive but good looking people can very easily become unattractive without a good personality."
Same approach I take. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"What attracts perspective swingers to each other. Is it mostly looks or does personality count too. Basically would you play with an unattractive couple if they were really funny and nice ?????"
Our friends in real life have personality. While swinging it is attractiveness that draws us to have nsa sex. If the men, couples or single women have great personalities too it is a bonus (and often leads to replays).
PS. You have some great pics, OP! |
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"What attracts perspective swingers to each other. Is it mostly looks or does personality count too. Basically would you play with an unattractive couple if they were really funny and nice ?????"
There is a line of course,but personality trumps looks,every single time for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the look in someone's eye. I'm drawn more to personality and intelligence, then looks that's for another day the eyes lol"
so why is it people have preferences then ???
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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I look for the ugliest, creepiest shorty around. Since he doesn't have anything else, he must atleast be blessed with personality; which is what one seeks for when looking for sex with strangers  |
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"I look for the ugliest, creepiest shorty around. Since he doesn't have anything else, he must atleast be blessed with personality; which is what one seeks for when looking for sex with strangers "
Marry me lol |
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