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"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?
Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. "
Hey guys, don't help the OP to improve his profile, his makes mine look great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Need photos first mate, facepics more so than cock pics keep cock pics private ect, try and make photos artistic and sensual/teasing, and always read profiles before you message, mention somthing about thier profile so they know u have read it, attach facepics if they have asked for it... all them things x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send a "how has your day been" that always gets our attention and make sure you are not what there looking for as well. Or just send a friend request with no message and wait for them to reply to you.
Hope this helps...,.,.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?
Oh do tell  
But then it wouldn't be a secret! 
Damn it i knew there would be a catch haha"
The secret password is always 'cunnilingus'. The ladies are always swooning if a man can spell that correctly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "
If a message is of interest then most ladies will read the profile before deciding whether to reply. What do you think of your profile, OP? Is it interesting? Is it likely to tempt? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?
Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. "
so you think it my profile I need to look at  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?
Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at "
You have a profile?
Who knew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?
Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at
You have a profile?
Who knew "
You beat me to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?
Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at "
Understatement. Full profile+good pics+not being a cockwomble+patience needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "
Best to go with something like "I've kidnapped your kids and will only give proof of life if you agree to add me on Kik"
She will be more than willing, as it's clear that the situation can only improve from there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?
Oh do tell
But then it wouldn't be a secret!
Damn it i knew there would be a catch haha
The secret password is always 'cunnilingus'. The ladies are always swooning if a man can spell that correctly! "
Or if they can get their tongue around saying it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Messages no matter how much it stood out wouldn't be opened, like a few people I look at profiles first nothing on there delete."
get your point ssbbw
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" profile been updated what do you think? "
It is so revealing.
By the way, did you come up with the "I don't bite" line all by yourself? I have never seen that before. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I didn't see your original profile OP but if what you have now is supposed to be an improvement, I in all honesty, dread to think what the original was like.
You've not really given any detail about who you are, what you're looking for, what you think you can offer etc. There's no pics of any kind, which I guess is better than just cock pics, but nothing to give anyone any idea what you're like.
Take a look around at other guys profiles for ideas of how you can improve yours and think about what you're hoping to get from the site and try to convey that in words is my advice.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messages no matter how much it stood out wouldn't be opened, like a few people I look at profiles first nothing on there delete. get your point ssbbw "
Updated profile generic "genuine professional" "I don't bite" it would be a roll of the eyes and on the to next profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually take time to read their profile rather than just messaging a generic message, it seems to work for me....and the hard work is definitely worth it  |
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" profile been updated what do you think?
You need some pics 
And some punctuation "
And syntax, a narrative, a beginning, middle, end, a hero, a conceit, a plot, a heroine, some passionate lovemaking on the wings of a biplane....
Simple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a partner who on here to that how lol
Then create a couple's profile."
...and you'll probably find more people might be responsive to your messages.
Just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples profile just as bland as the single one...
Funny how it ENDS with a little about me...
Well WHAT ABOUT YOU THEN?
Good luck.... I think your gonna need it |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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" profile been updated what do you think? "
You are just talking about your couples profile in it. What do you have to offer anyone and what would you like in return. We don't even open messages, that have no public pics, but good luck. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I mean me and my partner have a couple profile on here to
Get verified as a couple and say you meet as a single too. Looks better. What is the couples profile?"
Yes this. You have verifications on your couples profile, so you are obviously meeting,with your partner. As suggested, put on your profile that you meet as a single, along with your user name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave |
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"Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave"
You're allowed to say anything you want but if it's not working, try something g else. |
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"Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave
You're allowed to say anything you want but if it's not working, try something g else."
haha, well naturally I leave most of my readers feeling like they are corresponding with Oscar Wilde but it is nice to be polite! |
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"Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave"
I think you've answered your own question there - 'I know that it would be dull'
There is absolutely nothing wrong with common courtesy, but the OP is asking about how to make his message stand out. 'How are you?' is fine as a opening to a message, but is unlikely to evoke a response if it is the sole content of the message |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave"
When some of theses ladies get many 'how are you' type messages in a day and nothing else, you can see why they are not replied to and/or deleted. Especially where there are no pics, whatsoever on the sender's profile. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave
When some of theses ladies get many 'how are you' type messages in a day and nothing else, you can see why they are not replied to and/or deleted. Especially where there are no pics, whatsoever on the sender's profile. "
Thanks for the message OP. You are either not reading the posts or are trying to be humorous....not working!.... |
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