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can the written word really edge out good looks
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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there seems a lot of posts about profile checking and wording etc,but does a well presented p e really make a difference.lets say,a well toned hot male with barely a word on profile but hot pics is still going to meet more than a not so good looking chap whose profile text is exellent.
this also works for women and cpls.its the nature o the beast at the end of the day.i guess the conclusion is that each has use the assets they were given.
be it shallow, but we still look at the pics before reading the profiles.lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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that depends.... some people are turned on by brains and personality as much as they are looks.... lol
for example... would you play with mr universe/ms world if you couldn't stand the personality... |
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"there seems a lot of posts about profile checking and wording etc,but does a well presented pe really make a difference.lets say,a well toned hot male with barely a word on profile but hot pics is still going to meet more than a not so good looking chap whose profile text is exellent.
this also works for women and cpls.its the nature o the beast at the end of the day.i guess the conclusion is that each has use the assets they were given.
be it shallow, but we still look at the pics before reading the profiles.lol"
Sadly, I fear, I concur! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"that depends.... some people are turned on by brains and personality as much as they are looks.... lol
for example... would you play with mr universe/ms world if you couldn't stand the personality..."
good god no way..thats a different issue lol..we find the really hot people would be intimidating and we couldnt relax at all..
our ideal meet would be looks that appeal and a level of conversation that matches our own..the op was a generalisation only...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends what turns you on. I remember a poster once showing a stunning looking woman with the heading: "someone, somewhere is sick of her shit."
When it comes to playmates it's fantasy so looks will always win out for some. To sustain a relationship however good looks alone would never work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"that depends.... some people are turned on by brains and personality as much as they are looks.... lol
for example... would you play with mr universe/ms world if you couldn't stand the personality...
good god no way..thats a different issue lol..we find the really hot people would be intimidating and we couldnt relax at all..
our ideal meet would be looks that appeal and a level of conversation that matches our own..the op was a generalisation only... "
I think ur hot lol...afraid to contact tho....pretty intimidating lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It depends what turns you on. I remember a poster once showing a stunning looking woman with the heading: "someone, somewhere is sick of her shit."
When it comes to playmates it's fantasy so looks will always win out for some. To sustain a relationship however good looks alone would never work for me."
totally agree,and our relationship has been good for over 30 years but here is fun and fantasy land lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"that depends.... some people are turned on by brains and personality as much as they are looks.... lol
for example... would you play with mr universe/ms world if you couldn't stand the personality...
good god no way..thats a different issue lol..we find the really hot people would be intimidating and we couldnt relax at all..
our ideal meet would be looks that appeal and a level of conversation that matches our own..the op was a generalisation only...
I think ur hot lol...afraid to contact tho....pretty intimidating lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a little info, at least what they are looking for and into. I always check the veri's and photo verified.
I dislike all cock pics, and like to see a little more bod if not face pics too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a little info, at least what they are looking for and into. I always check the veri's and photo verified.
I dislike all cock pics, and like to see a little more bod if not face pics too. "
deletes my cock pics and shagging pics....wanna meet?? hehhehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hot pics and a decent profile may attract more hits,but I have found that if the personality is like a wet blanket whilst chatting and trying to get to know them,a meet won't happen,the intial attraction needs to be sustained to hold my interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hot pics and a decent profile may attract more hits,but I have found that if the personality is like a wet blanket whilst chatting and trying to get to know them,a meet won't happen,the intial attraction needs to be sustained to hold my interest"
blankets only wet cos i was fiddling with u on it! hehehe xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love is that which comes after ecstasy.  really do you think so ? i was thinking that was passion and lust , lol  "
passion and lust, Game i luv yer Bust!-lick it I must! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always look at photo's first.. but a good photo and bad profile or message, means a thanks but no thanks..
I never play with someone that I'm not attracted too.
Katie X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely yes!
I personally, hate to read a profile, that's all over the place & that doesn't really make any sense, because of bad grammar etc. Regardless of how the person or persons in question look, I won't be going there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my point for those that message me no, from reading others oh hell yes; if its a one liner, I wouldn't bother with them  but if it ticks all my boxes, I will reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there seems a lot of posts about profile checking and wording etc,but does a well presented pe really make a difference.lets say,a well toned hot male with barely a word on profile but hot pics is still going to meet more than a not so good looking chap whose profile text is exellent.
this also works for women and cpls.its the nature o the beast at the end of the day.i guess the conclusion is that each has use the assets they were given.
I can remember a woman that wouldnt meet me because she said I was too formal - so I wrote a letter of complaint to the Times editorial...that showed her!!!
be it shallow, but we still look at the pics before reading the profiles.lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would go for an average looking guy with a great profile who i can connect with than a gorgeous guy with nothing on his profile.
But then their are some gorgeous guys with well written profiles "
I am available to write panty melting profiles for good looking thick bastards when required - payment in jaffa cakes please to the usual address!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not interested in pics. The old adage, "If it looks too good to be true it probably is" applies. You can fake a pic but you can't fake intelligence or effort. If somebody writes an intro message of a few paragraphs which spark conversation and has a profile of more than 20 words they immediately have my attention. A guy writing, "u r hot lets chat" is not a meaty hunk, he's just a meathead to be iggied.
Speaking of which, does anybody ever believe they're really firefighters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've amended my profile, as I'm fed up of answering the same questions all of the time.
I doubt it'll make much difference, though, as most peeps will just zoom down to the pics."
Hey, TT. I had a guy send me a one liner last night, then another one liner to apologise for the first one because he hadn't read my profile. And he still thought he had a chance. |
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