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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a guy sent us a video of him fucking a girl and she squirted loads, so much so that liv couldn't believe it was squirt (she never knew it could happen so explosively!)
She's now determined to squirt, any tips anyone? I do my best down there but it's tiring work
Liv has done it a little bit before so I think it is possible for her  |
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over a year ago
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She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it! "
So for you it happens during sex?  |
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For me it can happen during sex in the right position or by just being fingered.
took us both a little while to figure it out
me to let go and him to figure out the technique
no stopping us now though lol |
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"She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it!
So for you it happens during sex? "
Yes but also using toys or fingers. Quite often with oral and fingers too. Just hang in there. I'd recommend a waterproof sheet (or shower curtain), that might help to relax too, knowing she won't make a mess. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drink LOADS of water.
Don't go for a wee.
Wait...
and wait..."
I'd actually recommend having a really good wee beforehand, I'm more at ease knowing I'm empty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only started squirting about 3 years ago. You need to be open minded, relaxed and have the right partner. Some guys can't make me squirt others make me squirt up the walls and flood hotel rooms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The key is to relax and have fun, just make sure your Mrs has an empty bladder too lol. Lou can squirt whilst fucking, fingering, licking or if I'm being really devilish the wand. She does love the wand |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Drink LOADS of water.
Don't go for a wee.
Wait...
and wait...
I'd actually recommend having a really good wee beforehand, I'm more at ease knowing I'm empty."
But you need the wee
It makes up the majority of the squirt. |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it! "
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Me too, I find best position is sitting a chair being fingerered fast and hard, lots of lube needed. saying that hubby made me squirt last night in bed when I was kneeling above him, it just poured out all over his chest and cock. And it's not piss, just before anyone says it must be, it's sweet tasting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it!
(Mrs)
Me too, I find best position is sitting a chair being fingerered fast and hard, lots of lube needed. saying that hubby made me squirt last night in bed when I was kneeling above him, it just poured out all over his chest and cock. And it's not piss, just before anyone says it must be, it's sweet tasting "
That'll be from the selection boxes |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it!
(Mrs)
Me too, I find best position is sitting a chair being fingerered fast and hard, lots of lube needed. saying that hubby made me squirt last night in bed when I was kneeling above him, it just poured out all over his chest and cock. And it's not piss, just before anyone says it must be, it's sweet tasting
That'll be from the selection boxes"
I'm a no sugar kinda gal, so I must just be sweet tasting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
"I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces "
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces "
This and all the other research stating it IS wee are all over the other threads.
They also have the usual denials. It don't taste like wee, it's not yellow etc. despite that most wee is also not yellow and (apparently) varies in taste.
Then some will claim to know where it comes from (despite no scientific test ever being able to determine such).
I'll just stick with common sense that if it looks like wee, comes from the same place, requires relaxation... it's most likely wee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces
This and all the other research stating it IS wee are all over the other threads.
They also have the usual denials. It don't taste like wee, it's not yellow etc. despite that most wee is also not yellow and (apparently) varies in taste.
Then some will claim to know where it comes from (despite no scientific test ever being able to determine such).
I'll just stick with common sense that if it looks like wee, comes from the same place, requires relaxation... it's most likely wee."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don't really care if it's wee or not ... mine is clear, doesn't smell like wee and I have a good wee before playing BUT even if it is, it feels amazing and turns us on so I will keep on soaking us both and washing the towels . Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" don't really care if it's wee or not ... mine is clear, doesn't smell like wee and I have a good wee before playing BUT even if it is, it feels amazing and turns us on so I will keep on soaking us both and washing the towels . Good luck OP"
can't argue with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a guy sent us a video of him fucking a girl and she squirted loads, so much so that liv couldn't believe it was squirt (she never knew it could happen so explosively!)
She's now determined to squirt, any tips anyone? I do my best down there but it's tiring work
Liv has done it a little bit before so I think it is possible for her "
Anyway luvver, whatever it is it's a great feeling. I hadn't even heard of it til a few years ago. I met a guy who put me at my ease, had the right technique and made it an amazing experience. I now find I tend to gush in some positions, sometimes on top. I've also met several fellas who have that same technique, including a long term friend who has taught himself to do it recently. What a lovely surprise that was!
PS. I always visit the loo before meeting and have a tidy up to ensure there's no tissue residue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To wee before or not to wee, tis the question
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Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer. The pissing and slashes of outrageous fortune, Or,to take arms against a wee of troubles |
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces
This and all the other research stating it IS wee are all over the other threads.
They also have the usual denials. It don't taste like wee, it's not yellow etc. despite that most wee is also not yellow and (apparently) varies in taste.
Then some will claim to know where it comes from (despite no scientific test ever being able to determine such).
I'll just stick with common sense that if it looks like wee, comes from the same place, requires relaxation... it's most likely wee."
It doesn't come from the same place. It comes from inside vagina. No outlet for wee there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces
This and all the other research stating it IS wee are all over the other threads.
They also have the usual denials. It don't taste like wee, it's not yellow etc. despite that most wee is also not yellow and (apparently) varies in taste.
Then some will claim to know where it comes from (despite no scientific test ever being able to determine such).
I'll just stick with common sense that if it looks like wee, comes from the same place, requires relaxation... it's most likely wee.
It doesn't come from the same place. It comes from inside vagina. No outlet for wee there"
and you determined this how? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only woman who doesn't think squirting is sexy? I just feel like I've wet myself and feel embarrassed, not a sexy feeling at all."
Each to their own. I think the sexy feeling comes from seeing how turned on your partner is by it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only woman who doesn't think squirting is sexy? I just feel like I've wet myself and feel embarrassed, not a sexy feeling at all.
Each to their own. I think the sexy feeling comes from seeing how turned on your partner is by it. "
That still doesn't do it for me. I know I have them majorly turned on in other ways, without me having to feel embarrassed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only woman who doesn't think squirting is sexy? I just feel like I've wet myself and feel embarrassed, not a sexy feeling at all.
Each to their own. I think the sexy feeling comes from seeing how turned on your partner is by it.
That still doesn't do it for me. I know I have them majorly turned on in other ways, without me having to feel embarrassed. "
Like I said, each to their own. OP was just asking for hints and tips to make it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I the only woman who doesn't think squirting is sexy? I just feel like I've wet myself and feel embarrassed, not a sexy feeling at all.
Each to their own. I think the sexy feeling comes from seeing how turned on your partner is by it.
That still doesn't do it for me. I know I have them majorly turned on in other ways, without me having to feel embarrassed.
Like I said, each to their own. OP was just asking for hints and tips to make it happen. "
I know....there's no issue  |
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces
This and all the other research stating it IS wee are all over the other threads.
They also have the usual denials. It don't taste like wee, it's not yellow etc. despite that most wee is also not yellow and (apparently) varies in taste.
Then some will claim to know where it comes from (despite no scientific test ever being able to determine such).
I'll just stick with common sense that if it looks like wee, comes from the same place, requires relaxation... it's most likely wee.
It doesn't come from the same place. It comes from inside vagina. No outlet for wee there
and you determined this how?"
Because I gush for Britain and A) I am aware of my own body to feel it, and B) if I have a large vibrator in me and gush it is dammed up inside behind the vibrator and gushes out without any stimulation when the vibrator is removed. So no question about where it comes from |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She needs to be completely relaxed first and foremost. If she feels under pressure to squirt it's unlikely to happen. Try a few positions. For me I like my nipples played with and/or my clit played with or slapped a little whilst being fucked along with some dirty talking. It took me a long time to learn to 'let go' and get over the fear of weeing. However, now I'd have trouble stopping myself from doing it!
(Mrs)
Me too, I find best position is sitting a chair being fingerered fast and hard, lots of lube needed. saying that hubby made me squirt last night in bed when I was kneeling above him, it just poured out all over his chest and cock. And it's not piss, just before anyone says it must be, it's sweet tasting "
Here we go again! Let the arguments commence....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces "
Actually if anyone bothers to read the book they describe female ejaculate of between 1 and 5 ml (teaspoon). This IS 'lady cum'.
The copious amounts produced by gushing/squirting can be clearly seen to emanate from the eurethra to anyone whose face is close enough and doesn't need a white stick! This is also covered in the book....(its wee) but hey! Selective quotations can work wonders.
At the end of the day....if you enjoy it....enjoy it. Who cares about the origin? Its sterile unless you have a bladder infection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So a guy sent us a video of him fucking a girl and she squirted loads, so much so that liv couldn't believe it was squirt (she never knew it could happen so explosively!)
She's now determined to squirt, any tips anyone? I do my best down there but it's tiring work
Liv has done it a little bit before so I think it is possible for her "
Get some tips from Dr James R
Makes me gush every single time and he's very happy to teach. Lovely polite gentleman x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of interest do those who gush and those who enjoy gushing, add watersports to there list of interests on there profile "
This thought has crossed my mind too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of interest do those who gush and those who enjoy gushing, add watersports to there list of interests on there profile "
No. I've tried water sports and it does nothing for me. But then I don't list any interests anyway, it neatly sidesteps any labelling issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces
This and all the other research stating it IS wee are all over the other threads.
They also have the usual denials. It don't taste like wee, it's not yellow etc. despite that most wee is also not yellow and (apparently) varies in taste.
Then some will claim to know where it comes from (despite no scientific test ever being able to determine such).
I'll just stick with common sense that if it looks like wee, comes from the same place, requires relaxation... it's most likely wee.
It doesn't come from the same place. It comes from inside vagina. No outlet for wee there
and you determined this how?
Because I gush for Britain and A) I am aware of my own body to feel it, and B) if I have a large vibrator in me and gush it is dammed up inside behind the vibrator and gushes out without any stimulation when the vibrator is removed. So no question about where it comes from"
If there was no question there would be no argument.
There are questions and the most credible of any of the researches thrown up for these debates found that it was almost all piss.
The dildo damn is an interesting hypothesis though - might be worth taking that over to the team at Sydney University. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of interest do those who gush and those who enjoy gushing, add watersports to there list of interests on there profile
This thought has crossed my mind too."
You're in... or urine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2295/female-ejaculation/
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
Like I said..........
I was always under the impression it had nothing to do with wee!
In the same way that poo isn't faeces
Actually if anyone bothers to read the book they describe female ejaculate of between 1 and 5 ml (teaspoon). This IS 'lady cum'.
The copious amounts produced by gushing/squirting can be clearly seen to emanate from the eurethra to anyone whose face is close enough and doesn't need a white stick! This is also covered in the book....(its wee) but hey! Selective quotations can work wonders.
At the end of the day....if you enjoy it....enjoy it. Who cares about the origin? Its sterile unless you have a bladder infection."
and tastes sweet if you're up on your glucose, and looks clear if you're hydrated  |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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More recent research on thesexmd.com
Advises how to squirt and what it is.
But there is significant scientific proof that the origin of the fluid is actually the bladder and that the chemical composition is that of urine. Basically, it’s pee. Women who experience squirting are simply learning to release one set of muscles while contracting the bladder so they can release urine during orgasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It does contain some urine, but not full on piss like she is taking a wee.
On the how, fingering usually does the trick. Inside and top of the vaginal wall is a spone like, er thing. It gathers the fluid during sexual arousal, so stroke it, play with it till it explodes. For some woman it takes longer than others, but it all depends on the mood, the mans efforts etc..but put the work in and it pretty much works every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The physical technique is simple enough, two fingers massaging the g spot while a tongue on the clit usually does it. However, like other fabbers have previously mentioned relaxation is key..... so lots of fore play, teasing and intense fuckery will make it happen. Good luck and if all else fails.... call me  |
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