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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've been to a few swinging clubs in the UK and abroad over the years and have come to know what we like and don't like. We prefer dry clubs (as opposed to the 'wet' pool/hot tub types) with an atmosphere like a small nightclub: good music (not too loud!), dancing and, of course, a good crowd.
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By *ppleby11Couple
over a year ago
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Whilst in no way claiming the level of experience that others have acheived, for us it is the appropriate level of variety.
It needs a social area that is designed to almost force people to engage in conversations, have a dance and a drink. Nothing more uncomfortable than everyone sat around the outside of a lounge in silence.
And then in contrast to a buzzing social area, sufficient rooms to be intimate if people have clicked.
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Exert paragraph from said book:
'Just like the people you meet on the swinging scene Clubs come in many different shapes, types and sizes and can offer a different experience from one to the next. The clubs that are most successful are those that can offer a wide range of themes and facilities as possible on the premises to appeal to the broadest membership that they can. Such venues will show a continuous level of customer care towards their members, new and old alike and are prepared to keep evolving and improving what they offer their clientele. Some clubs will gear their environment more towards one type of clientele or another and it is a matter of finding the club that suits your needs best. Smaller venues are often limited in what they can offer so they will target a certain type of customer. Smaller clubs are by no means always inferior to a larger venue and in fact many of the better clubs in the UK are some of the smaller venues, one of them even made it in to our UK top five list. Many clubs will offer different events on different nights and most will host a couples only night at least once a week, some clubs on mainland Europe are exclusively for couples at all times. With the advent of swinging becoming more popular in mainstream society a huge number of new swinging clubs have opened recently, especially in the last few years. Getting a new swinging club just right is a tricky proposition for even the most ingenious of entrepreneurs and in our experience the clubs who have been set up by people who come from The Scene itself are often more successful than those who see them as purely a business opportunity. To understand what swingers on the adult clubbing scene want it is very important so it is of considerable benefit if some of the management team running a venue have been active on The Scene themselves. In order for a club to be both a successful business and an enjoyable experience for those who come through its doors it must attract the right sort of people and ensure the environment is clean, safe, exciting and enjoyable. After all, a club with even the best facilities will not be much fun if no one turns up to go through its doors.
As with the rest of The Scene, different people want different things from their experience when they go out and normally no two clubs are alike and they can vary from the extremely sleazy to the exceedingly classy. Some visitors will want lots of attention from single guys or like being watched while many others do not find such an experience an attractive prospect. Others simply want to just be able to view what is happening between other couples while others wish to participate more actively. Others will like a good range of facilities such as a Jacuzzi, a sauna, a steam room, where as others prefer good music and a good dance floor to shake their bodies on to get them in the mood. A safe and clean space to play in and indulge their fantasies will be top of the list on many people’s minds; to this end some clubs indulge in themed playrooms enabling one to fulfil their ultimate dreams. Many clubs will have lockable rooms where you can have fun in privacy with people you might meet on the night; others have a policy for safety where all the doors for all their playrooms rooms remain open or have no doors at all. As we said different clubs will offer a different experience depending on where you go.'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been to a few clubs (Nick) over the years at the moment i would say chams, weve just cum back from tenerife, we visited a club there Mystquies, which i thought was very good, anyone going on holiday to tenerife give it ago |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd like to see clubs doing a bit more to "break the ice" a few sexy games peeps could join with."
Know what you mean. One of the reasons we like a club with a busy dance floor is that dancing seems to make people relax and get into the 'swing' of things  |
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"Jez, its 200 pages, covers every single club in the UK, and we classified them all, so you know exactly what your getting."
I think what she meant is that it's really hard to read in the form you've posted. I could be wrong of course but I didn't manage to read the first paragraph. I hope your editor is on it!  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Tease2 Hotel for us, great atmosphere, great regulars and fab owners. Always make you feel totally at home, great music i love to dance too, very very clean. Its the only place i feel safe to go alone just to socialise, i can be totally myself there without a care in the world and feel well looked after by all there. Ok some of the other bigger clubs can be posher, but for us its the people and the atmosphere that count x |
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