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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I am relatively new to this site but it's obvious that verification is massively important.
Does camera chat/play install the same level of confidence as a meet? After several weeks it just seems hard to get started.
Any tips about getting that first verification would be greatly appreciated please. |
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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
be patient ,thoughtful in your approach,dont show cock pics on your profile or in a message ,ask them if by all means they wish to see naughtier pictures but dont presume all women want to.Arrange a social first usually helps.Ive done ok over the years with this approach. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say a meet verification is better but any verification is better than none "
Thanks, but what draws you to a guys profile in order to engage in conversation about meeting? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"be patient ,thoughtful in your approach,dont show cock pics on your profile or in a message ,ask them if by all means they wish to see naughtier pictures but dont presume all women want to.Arrange a social first usually helps.Ive done ok over the years with this approach."
Cheers, I ditched the full frontal approach as fab is full of cock lol
It's even getting that conversation going, I'm struggling somewhere! ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say a meet verification is better but any verification is better than none
Thanks, but what draws you to a guys profile in order to engage in conversation about meeting? "
Nothing to be honest, but your asked by the wrong couple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I started with a cam veri and I think it helped.
However nothing like a meet one!"
Yeah I haven't used the cameras but have had no joy initiating messages and feel it's my lack of veri's holding me back.
Maybe I should dust off the laptop! |
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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
you are competing with hundreds of blokes on here ,I would say just try to make your profile interesting maybe ask a lady friend if she would be interested going off what your profile might say.Take arty photos if possible ,no laundry in the background etc.Maybe raise the age of a woman that you are prepared to meet or a couple. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"be patient ,thoughtful in your approach,dont show cock pics on your profile or in a message ,ask them if by all means they wish to see naughtier pictures but dont presume all women want to.Arrange a social first usually helps.Ive done ok over the years with this approach.
Cheers, I ditched the full frontal approach as fab is full of cock lol
It's even getting that conversation going, I'm struggling somewhere! ?"
Get to a club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I am relatively new to this site but it's obvious that verification is massively important.
Does camera chat/play install the same level of confidence as a meet? After several weeks it just seems hard to get started.
Any tips about getting that first verification would be greatly appreciated please. "
For me I'm only interested in in person meets. There's no proof the guy on cam is the guy that will turn up to meet me...stranger things have happened! Nothing beats in person meet up. Even if it's just an hour over a drink. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all, I am relatively new to this site but it's obvious that verification is massively important.
Does camera chat/play install the same level of confidence as a meet? After several weeks it just seems hard to get started.
Any tips about getting that first verification would be greatly appreciated please.
For me I'm only interested in in person meets. There's no proof the guy on cam is the guy that will turn up to meet me...stranger things have happened! Nothing beats in person meet up. Even if it's just an hour over a drink."
Yeah, this is my thought that a meet veri is stronger but it's just so hard to even get that sociable drink organised. As above, what kind of thing draws you to meet with someone if you don't mind me asking? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"be patient ,thoughtful in your approach,dont show cock pics on your profile or in a message ,ask them if by all means they wish to see naughtier pictures but dont presume all women want to.Arrange a social first usually helps.Ive done ok over the years with this approach.
Cheers, I ditched the full frontal approach as fab is full of cock lol
It's even getting that conversation going, I'm struggling somewhere! ?
Get to a club! "
I won't lie...The idea of a club on my own scares the shi out of me! Can just imagine being sat there on my own looking like a pervert! |
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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago
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you wont be on your own as most clubs have a lot of blokes heavy ratio to couples/women. Chat away stay in the bar area at first intoduce yourself to people without sounding desparate ,if people are interested they will generally chat away and ask you questions .Its not to far away from normal pub banter most of the time.
Not everyone wants to talk about sex either straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, I am relatively new to this site but it's obvious that verification is massively important.
Does camera chat/play install the same level of confidence as a meet? After several weeks it just seems hard to get started.
Any tips about getting that first verification would be greatly appreciated please.
For me I'm only interested in in person meets. There's no proof the guy on cam is the guy that will turn up to meet me...stranger things have happened! Nothing beats in person meet up. Even if it's just an hour over a drink.
Yeah, this is my thought that a meet veri is stronger but it's just so hard to even get that sociable drink organised. As above, what kind of thing draws you to meet with someone if you don't mind me asking? "
It's not difficult to meet for a social lol. If you can find time to go out drinking etc with friends then you have time to meet from here. People join fab to aquire meets! So make the time and effort. One hour at lunch, weekend, evening etc isn't all that hard to arrange.
What draws me in to want to meet a guy? Well simple really... mutal attraction, single, local/nearby, lives alone and accommodates. I travel and drive to him. Not much to ask for really. |
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