It's simple just stay away from couples..
I used to meet couples but in the end i had to delete my profile and start again under a totally different name ..
That's another story ..
Happened more than once though .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stuff happens .... they may have a genuine reason why they couldn't meet ."
ive been here before and know that couples are mainly the let downs and dreamers more than single females hahahaha
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone who lets you down should be blocked , simple
Surely once should be forgiven if they have a genuine unavoidable reason?"
an emergency that said ha but on the site most of the day! I smell something.... BS |
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"Couples that let you down saying something come up should be deleted from friends list?
Why did they let u down"
emergency they said but on the page all day so I doubt it |
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over a year ago
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"They let you know op,things happen in life.If it makes you feel better then delete...
Miss"
not till the time they was supposed to be at my house! And I did mail beforehand to make sure we was still meeting and all was good and they said yes |
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"Couples that let you down saying something come up should be deleted from friends list?"
Yes probably. I have little time for short notice cancellations. But it really depends on how they dealt with it. If they were full of apologies, gave an understandable explanation, and were keen to reschedule, they I would give the benefit of the doubt.
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"Couples that let you down saying something come up should be deleted from friends list?
Yes probably. I have little time for short notice cancellations. But it really depends on how they dealt with it. If they were full of apologies, gave an understandable explanation, and were keen to reschedule, they I would give the benefit of the doubt.
Mrs"
yes it was the opposite to what you said x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples that let you down saying something come up should be deleted from friends list?
Yes probably. I have little time for short notice cancellations. But it really depends on how they dealt with it. If they were full of apologies, gave an understandable explanation, and were keen to reschedule, they I would give the benefit of the doubt.
Mrs yes it was the opposite to what you said x"
In that case they are not interested, and should not have led you on. |
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"Not just couples. Single gems. Blokes acting as couples and us blokes.
Should be able to report/ tell on late or last minute cancellation. There will be a pattern I think "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couples that let you down saying something come up should be deleted from friends list?
Yes probably. I have little time for short notice cancellations. But it really depends on how they dealt with it. If they were full of apologies, gave an understandable explanation, and were keen to reschedule, they I would give the benefit of the doubt.
Mrs yes it was the opposite to what you said x
In that case they are not interested, and should not have led you on. "
Those who lead you on are only on here for kicks and not looking to meet that how it goes on the web some are lucky some are not so lucky  |
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With a couple, you have twice the potential for last-minute issues that may lead to them having to bail. We've arranged to meet several couples so far and only one of them has called it off at the last minuted due to life emergencies.
If you want to block this couple because they cancelled on you then that's up to you. Keep in mind that you may be killing the chance of something good happening in the future with them if their excuse was legitimate. Personally, we'll give people a second chance to meet so long as they actually let us know they weren't going to be there. If they just didn't show then we wouldn't.
Inviting a stranger into your relationship is a huge thing to do. It may just be that the pressure of the reality freaked one of them out too much. I know we've cancelled club plans on the day for similar reasons (although we hadn't arranged to meet anyone). We would absolutely choose to bail on someone instead of forcing ourselves into a situation that we realised wasn't right for us. |
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"With a couple, you have twice the potential for last-minute issues that may lead to them having to bail. We've arranged to meet several couples so far and only one of them has called it off at the last minuted due to life emergencies.
If you want to block this couple because they cancelled on you then that's up to you. Keep in mind that you may be killing the chance of something good happening in the future with them if their excuse was legitimate. Personally, we'll give people a second chance to meet so long as they actually let us know they weren't going to be there. If they just didn't show then we wouldn't.
Inviting a stranger into your relationship is a huge thing to do. It may just be that the pressure of the reality freaked one of them out too much. I know we've cancelled club plans on the day for similar reasons (although we hadn't arranged to meet anyone). We would absolutely choose to bail on someone instead of forcing ourselves into a situation that we realised wasn't right for us."
As I said earlier it depends how the cancellation was handled. If something coincidentally happened to us the minute we were due to arrive at our playmates house (which is what happened to the OP) we would be mortified that we were letting someone down. We would be hugely embarrassed and afraid they wouldn't believe us. We would make sure the person we were letting down understood that something serious had happened and how sorry we were, and assure them that we would reschedule as soon as possible. How the OP describes it, implied to me that they were quite flippant, which is a behaviour I can't fathom.
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"Couples that let you down saying something come up should be deleted from friends list?"
Speaking from our own experience we have found single men have let us down more, which is a real shame as we really do put in the effort.......... |
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