Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?
I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever
Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !
If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed
Thoughts ?
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"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?
I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever
Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !
If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed
Thoughts ?
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im the same as u |
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"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?
I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever
Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !
If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed
Thoughts ?
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I totally agree also, the anticipation and the build up to the meet is far better than boasting about scenarios and what will go on. |
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Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!
Instantly blocked on my phone! |
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"Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!
Instantly blocked on my phone! "
On a seperate note, I love lynmouth. You live in a beautiful town. |
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Too much build up, pic sharing, endless messages etc really put me off.
I get bored of it.
If we've not fucked before I find it quite difficult to get into much dirty chat before the meet.
Keep some mystery and excitement for the meeting itself, hold something back. It's like a good night out, the best ones are always unplanned and spontaneous!
Mrs x |
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I think it's possible to text the fun out of a situation. There should remain some sense of the Unknown. There's little point in bragging or talking things up because you can never be certain how things are going to turn out. Surely this just heaps more pressure on.. |
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"Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!
Instantly blocked on my phone!
On a seperate note, I love lynmouth. You live in a beautiful town. "
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"Too much build up, pic sharing, endless messages etc really put me off.
I get bored of it.
If we've not fucked before I find it quite difficult to get into much dirty chat before the meet.
Keep some mystery and excitement for the meeting itself, hold something back. It's like a good night out, the best ones are always unplanned and spontaneous!
Mrs x "
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Every bloke I’ve given my number to always asks ‘so what are you in to’ or what are going to do to me.
I always respond with ‘what works with one person doesn’t always work with another’ |
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I thought I was just being an ice queen pmsl
Actually makes me go cold if too much
Oh and another thing I can’t stand guys sending me their sex vids !
C’mon really ? Why oh why do I want to see you having sex with another woman when we are arranging a meet ? Are you trying to prove to me that you know where to put your willy ?
And does that poor girl know that you are sharing her ‘special’ moment she had with you for all to see ?
I’ve cancelled for less haha |
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"Happens more than I can say sadly! Now not giving my number out until the day before a meet to stop this. I had one ask what you having for tea and wishing me sweet dreams!
Instantly blocked on my phone! "
I have a separate fab phone for meets x |
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I never do it. As soon as someone starts sexting I know they aren't genuine to meet so don't reply anymore. Sexting is only fun after you've met the person. Adds to the flirting and working your way up for the filth to follow. Plus you can't really trust people on here to be who they are on their profile (fakes). |
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"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?
I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever
Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !
If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed
Thoughts ?
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Yes I have to say I’m the same. I’m not much for sexting anyway as I’m not that good at it.
I think mainly it’s because too much “I’m going to make you squirt” and “it’ll be the best fuck too ever had” I’m more likely to get the “ick”  |
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"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?
I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever
Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !
If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed
Thoughts ?
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Does nothing for me either. A little flirting/banter at the start is fine but after that just a random hows things leading up to the date us fine. |
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"Too much build up, pic sharing, endless messages etc really put me off.
I get bored of it.
If we've not fucked before I find it quite difficult to get into much dirty chat before the meet.
Keep some mystery and excitement for the meeting itself, hold something back. It's like a good night out, the best ones are always unplanned and spontaneous!
Mrs x "
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"Is there anyone else that really gets fed up with this ?
I mean if I’ve arranged a meet say for a couple weeks time, after finding out that yes i fancy them and want to meet them and a little initial flirting / banter I really don’t want to be endlessly talking about what we are going to do , sending loads of pics and telling me how they will be the best ever
Just turn up , have shit loads of fun and if any good hook up again !
If they talk it up too much and I’m often left disappointed
Thoughts ?
Yes I have to say I’m the same. I’m not much for sexting anyway as I’m not that good at it.
I think mainly it’s because too much “I’m going to make you squirt” and “it’ll be the best fuck too ever had” I’m more likely to get the “ick” "
I’m rubbish to at it too ... I find it boring
I’m much more of a do-er |
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"I thought I was just being an ice queen pmsl
Actually makes me go cold if too much
Oh and another thing I can’t stand guys sending me their sex vids !
C’mon really ? Why oh why do I want to see you having sex with another woman when we are arranging a meet ? Are you trying to prove to me that you know where to put your willy ?
And does that poor girl know that you are sharing her ‘special’ moment she had with you for all to see ?
I’ve cancelled for less haha "
that is out of order something I’d never do but iv been asked many times |
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"I thought I was just being an ice queen pmsl
Actually makes me go cold if too much
Oh and another thing I can’t stand guys sending me their sex vids !
C’mon really ? Why oh why do I want to see you having sex with another woman when we are arranging a meet ? Are you trying to prove to me that you know where to put your willy ?
And does that poor girl know that you are sharing her ‘special’ moment she had with you for all to see ?
I’ve cancelled for less haha that is out of order something I’d never do but iv been asked many times "
I’m very glad to hear it
Anyway who wants to see someone else’s sex tapes ??
It’s about making your own memories right ? |
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I do love a good sext and plenty of flirting etc but i believe that it should only be for a little while as it does get boring saying the same thing over and over.
We are working on the same wave length here |
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