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Should I create a singles profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey Fabbers. I (Mrs L) am looking to explore some one on one fun with a women. Will I have more success if I create a singles profile? Obviously I will point out that I am married but I wonder if this will help me show up in the right searches?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading the forum's FF is a very hard thing to find ..but having a single profile will help you..some folk are a bit wary if it's a couples account, because they might presume the male may want to take part in some way .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reading the forum's FF is a very hard thing to find ..but having a single profile will help you..some folk are a bit wary if it's a couples account, because they might presume the male may want to take part in some way .."
That is exactly what I thought. Hubby is happy for me to have one on one fun but those viewing our couples profile may not know this. Thanks guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reading the forum's FF is a very hard thing to find ..but having a single profile will help you..some folk are a bit wary if it's a couples account, because they might presume the male may want to take part in some way ..
That is exactly what I thought. Hubby is happy for me to have one on one fun but those viewing our couples profile may not know this. Thanks guys x"
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"I’ve given up looking for FF. *cries inside*
 I wonder if there are club nights that cater for this?"
There are!
Cupids host "jugs" which is just us girls. The club is on 2 levels so male partners are allowed to visit too but they have to stay upstairs, downstairs is for the ladies only to socialise and play. If you choose to involve the men you play upstairs. Have a look on the club events page, they usually post details on there.
There may be other clubs that hold ladies only events too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve given up looking for FF. *cries inside*
I wonder if there are club nights that cater for this?
There are!
Cupids host "jugs" which is just us girls. The club is on 2 levels so male partners are allowed to visit too but they have to stay upstairs, downstairs is for the ladies only to socialise and play. If you choose to involve the men you play upstairs. Have a look on the club events page, they usually post details on there.
There may be other clubs that hold ladies only events too."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be more likely to chat with a woman on a singles profile than a couples. As stated before id be waiting for the "do you mind if hubby joins us?". "
Thanks and would you ladies mind if I took a video of it to show hubby? |
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I’m trying to arrange a girly weekend away for those interested. There’s 3 or 4 interested in coming it’s just working out Whos coming from where and where is fair and interesting etc.
It’d be like a hen do without some poor bitch having to get married and lots of playtime in the rooms afterwards !! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single women you will get all the success you want x"
No we don't.
To the OP, if you're hoping to meet women but the boyfriend will be watching/joining in, you'll have a difficult time finding a single women for that.
Meeting completely alone, you'll have more interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be more likely to chat with a woman on a singles profile than a couples. As stated before id be waiting for the "do you mind if hubby joins us?".
Thanks and would you ladies mind if I took a video of it to Yoire show hubby?"
Lol knew that was coming. 
I for one would reject that suggestion as I know many other single women would too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be more likely to chat with a woman on a singles profile than a couples. As stated before id be waiting for the "do you mind if hubby joins us?".
Thanks and would you ladies mind if I took a video of it to Yoire show hubby?
Lol knew that was coming.
I for one would reject that suggestion as I know many other single women would too."
Thanks for the honest feedback. Looks like I will have to just talk him through it instead of a video  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be more likely to chat with a woman on a singles profile than a couples. As stated before id be waiting for the "do you mind if hubby joins us?".
Thanks and would you ladies mind if I took a video of it to show hubby?"
I wouldn't be happy being videoed no. For me it would feel too staged and like you were doing it for him not us.
If I'm meeting someone one on one I'd want to be their sole focus in that time.
Plus the whole privacy thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be more likely to chat with a woman on a singles profile than a couples. As stated before id be waiting for the "do you mind if hubby joins us?".
Thanks and would you ladies mind if I took a video of it to show hubby?
I wouldn't be happy being videoed no. For me it would feel too staged and like you were doing it for him not us.
If I'm meeting someone one on one I'd want to be their sole focus in that time.
Plus the whole privacy thing. "
Yes that makes sense. I personally wouldn't want someone to video it as I would worry it would get out there, so I totally get that. |
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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey Fabbers. I (Mrs L) am looking to explore some one on one fun with a women. Will I have more success if I create a singles profile? Obviously I will point out that I am married but I wonder if this will help me show up in the right searches? "
I've thought of doing this for the same reason...but I'm put off by the SM attention. Not that I wouldn't be flattered! Would just like to meet a local single fem who wants to explore as much as me!
Will keep eye on thread! Do say if it's worked please!  x |
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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to arrange a girly weekend away for those interested. There’s 3 or 4 interested in coming it’s just working out Whos coming from where and where is fair and interesting etc.
It’d be like a hen do without some poor bitch having to get married and lots of playtime in the rooms afterwards !! Lol"
Haha - Sounds good! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey Fabbers. I (Mrs L) am looking to explore some one on one fun with a women. Will I have more success if I create a singles profile? Obviously I will point out that I am married but I wonder if this will help me show up in the right searches?
I've thought of doing this for the same reason...but I'm put off by the SM attention. Not that I wouldn't be flattered! Would just like to meet a local single fem who wants to explore as much as me!
Will keep eye on thread! Do say if it's worked please! x"
I will disable messages from SM on my singles profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m trying to arrange a girly weekend away for those interested. There’s 3 or 4 interested in coming it’s just working out Whos coming from where and where is fair and interesting etc.
It’d be like a hen do without some poor bitch having to get married and lots of playtime in the rooms afterwards !! Lol"
This would be so hot if we had a local group. Sadly we seem too far away |
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By *an42Woman
over a year ago
Sunderland |
I have a couples profile and my single profile.
I constantly get asked by couples on my single profile,
But they obviously don’t read the profile.
My hubby encourages me to have a good time and enjoy myself meeting other lady’s by myself.
More than happy to get together one night and make a girly party think we should all get together and meet in the middle xx |
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By *an42Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to arrange a girly weekend away for those interested. There’s 3 or 4 interested in coming it’s just working out Whos coming from where and where is fair and interesting etc.
It’d be like a hen do without some poor bitch having to get married and lots of playtime in the rooms afterwards !! Lol"
I’d be interested in coming along if your arranging something xx |
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"I’m trying to arrange a girly weekend away for those interested. There’s 3 or 4 interested in coming it’s just working out Whos coming from where and where is fair and interesting etc.
It’d be like a hen do without some poor bitch having to get married and lots of playtime in the rooms afterwards !! Lol
I’d be interested in coming along if your arranging something xx"
Of course xx |
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