FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Impossible blowjob!
Impossible blowjob!
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
It's damn near impossible for me to cum from a blowjob. I was away for a dirty weekend, and I just couldn't cum from one.
She was fantastic, so it's not her fault. Just wondered if any guys are the same?
Also, I know it frustrated the lady, so how do ladies feel about it when it doesn't happen? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's damn near impossible for me to cum from a blowjob. I was away for a dirty weekend, and I just couldn't cum from one.
She was fantastic, so it's not her fault. Just wondered if any guys are the same?
Also, I know it frustrated the lady, so how do ladies feel about it when it doesn't happen?"
I never cum just from sucking
Angie loves it and is very very good but no joy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ykeymm8Man
over a year ago
southampton |
I find it very hard. A couple of very hard working ladies have pulled it off but it did require a Lot of hand work too.
It really does seem to get some girls down so if they want to try i tend to let them have a go before sex, because second time around i can last fucking ages.
That being said... I have had a couple of ladies saying how good they were, that had clearly been lied to by other guys. I can say FAB has provided my best oral experience ever and it was cuckold. Maybe you have a kink that you are yet to find or maybe you are just unlucky and like some women can't climax orally.
Personally I just tried different stuff til it happened. Maybe you need a couple, or a guy or some anal milking just enjoy experimenting and let the girl know its probably not her fault. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Same here. I can get off by wanking while my balls are being sucked, but never been able to get off from a blowjob. The upside is I get so frustrated from that, the sex that follows tends to be really rough  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I’m not the only one then...I really enjoy it, and it does happen, though the theory that blokes just want to have their cocks sucked, for myself is flawed...it’s just part of the bigger picture, an aspect of sex that I embrace, but don’t just live for! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m not the only one then...I really enjoy it, and it does happen, though the theory that blokes just want to have their cocks sucked, for myself is flawed...it’s just part of the bigger picture, an aspect of sex that I embrace, but don’t just live for! "
Exactly this. I would rather eat a woman out than get my cock sucked |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *cilWoman
over a year ago
Wexford |
You are not alone, lots of guys can't cum from A bj. If someone is like that then I never make cumming the focus. Just lie back and enjoy the pleasure and experience of receiving without pressure. It works wonders! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Same here. I can get off by wanking while my balls are being sucked, but never been able to get off from a blowjob. The upside is I get so frustrated from that, the sex that follows tends to be really rough "
Exactly the same. Phew  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If it's not happening and they're enjoying it, i'll just carry on until i want to do something else! If they want to guide or use hands i'm very happy for that. Everyone's different, that's the fun of it all.
I don't take ot personally or find it frustrating. If it is personal, then you'll have to give me a clue "loves this bit, can ypu try this too" kind of thing is always great. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You are not alone, lots of guys can't cum from A bj. If someone is like that then I never make cumming the focus. Just lie back and enjoy the pleasure and experience of receiving without pressure. It works wonders!"
Exactly! I’ve no hang ups, but there’s many ways to enjoy one another  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them .
My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too .
It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oresexMan
over a year ago
South West coast |
Never struggled to cum from a bj, a little gentle guiding to increase or decrease suction or technique goes a long way with a new partner, I take instruction well too, when repaying the favour. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them .
My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too .
It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem ! "
Could just be that those of us who struggle arent having it done for long eough |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them .
My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too .
It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem !
Could just be that those of us who struggle arent having it done for long eough"
That could be the case , and maybe the giver doesn’t want to spend an inordinate amount of time sucking a cock either . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"From a woman’s perspective , we actually say on our profile that if guys struggle to cum we don’t want to meet them .
My Mrs loves cum , it’s the man reason we meet and I love to see her happy . She certainly isn’t here for meeting guys who have issues with not being able to cum, and the majority if guys who can’t cum from a bj either wank too much or are thinking about holding back for penetration . Some also think they shouldn’t cum too quickly and that stops it too .
It should be a natural release when they want to cum , sometimes it’s only a few minutes , others up to twenty minutes , with hands used too , but ultimately a fun and enjoyable experience for both parties . I would guess that she has got over a thousand guys off from a bj in the time we have been swinging so it’s not really a common problem ! "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Thanks, glad it's not just me.
The lady did say it will happen, and as I said she was good. So is still determined and not upset, which is good. Maybe it's just the whole 'new person' thing. So I had warned her that I generally take a long time. Always openly communicating...was on the brink as well, so close but no cigar ?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
If I couldn't cum from a blowjob I would be gutted.
It's the most amazing orgasm ever as you cum into a ladies mouth, the intensity of it actually makes me scream, much better than penetrative orgasms.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If I couldn't cum from a blowjob I would be gutted.
It's the most amazing orgasm ever as you cum into a ladies mouth, the intensity of it actually makes me scream, much better than penetrative orgasms.
"
Totally agree |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point.
I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point.
I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! "
I never have a problem with second wind. But you always have to make the lady cum first, it's just manners!
I have cum from a blowjob before, so I do know the intensity (that's why I said damn near,and not just impossible).
Guessing I'm just missing something. I even said to the lady, I know a way we could cheat, but she refused! Guessing that's just determination on her part then! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point.
I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! "
To be fair, you could have got your bra and knickers off, it’s just that I’d fallen asleep by then  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point.
I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers! "
Im The same. Even had a fb that as my blow jobs were so good he cdnt last long.
Wdnt bother me either if he didn't cum but never had that problem. Even the guy that sd no way will it happen. Now why would u give a stubborn woman a challenge like that.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's damn near impossible for me to cum from a blowjob. I was away for a dirty weekend, and I just couldn't cum from one.
She was fantastic, so it's not her fault. Just wondered if any guys are the same?
Also, I know it frustrated the lady, so how do ladies feel about it when it doesn't happen?"
I have a mixed response it tends to help whilst my head is in fantasy, watching others in a shared room or when it is as part of other play. I tend to find hand and mouth works better but at a slow rate. Not sure if this is normal though, what's normal lol.
My wife is fine now that she knows it isn't as a result of her work and that slow is better. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Don't think I've ever failed when cumming through oral was the aim, but oral is a damn signature more then sucking, it's about using all of your assets, moouth, tongue, hands everything you can. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I love sucking cock so whether he comes or not whilst i’m doing it i’m not that bothered, so long as he comes at some point.
I have made the mistake of going all in on a blowjob early in a meet and the guy has come quickly and then been unable to get a second wind, before i’ve even taken my bra off, nevermind my knickers!
Im The same. Even had a fb that as my blow jobs were so good he cdnt last long.
Wdnt bother me either if he didn't cum but never had that problem. Even the guy that sd no way will it happen. Now why would u give a stubborn woman a challenge like that. "
Haha, perseverance in its finest form I'd say! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
