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How much do you weight honesty and correctness in swinging?
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
We wouldn't play with anyone if we didn't have an attraction and feel comfortable with ourselves or who we were meeting with.
We always have a social first to see how we all get on and if that attraction is there.  |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples."
Am sure lots are not honest. |
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"We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples."
That’s cool , and you are perfectly entitled to feel like that .
However , we feel it’s best to be honest too , and if you don’t just jump in playing , how do you know what you will like ?
We’ve always found this is the best way to find out , no dilly dallying , just crack on  |
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"We noticed that some couples are not honest as well as correct. In simple worlds they dont know what they like and they just jump in playing. We are a bit fed up in meeting these couples.
That’s cool , and you are perfectly entitled to feel like that .
However , we feel it’s best to be honest too , and if you don’t just jump in playing , how do you know what you will like ?
We’ve always found this is the best way to find out , no dilly dallying , just crack on "
So true! Why loads of rules? We just go with the flow, you can always say no to something, has never caused a problem! |
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"To all participants... Shall we write down a rule of honesty and correctness or its better to go with the flow? "
The thing is that once you get the whole list of rules thing , we will have walked away and said thanks but no thanks .
It’s supposed to be fun , and there’s no fun to be had when you are trying to remember this that and the other that other people don’t want .
A quick chat outlining the no way on stuff is fine , but long lists ? No thanks .
So go with the flow for us . |
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