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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I prefer if someone has. It depends on many factors including time since they did it or how thorough they’ve been.
A quick shower gelled finger might clean far enough up for rimming. Once a cock enters there, there’s still a risk of some mess: a badly done douching can sometimes have even worse consequences than none at all |
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"I prefer if someone has. It depends on many factors including time since they did it or how thorough they’ve been.
A quick shower gelled finger might clean far enough up for rimming. Once a cock enters there, there’s still a risk of some mess: a badly done douching can sometimes have even worse consequences than none at all "
Water, not shower gel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. But I'm paranoid...
And one day when I've got someone who I'm confident to have BB me, I'm gonna suck his cock afterwards...
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I do that with my LTP, never tastes of anything. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer if someone has. It depends on many factors including time since they did it or how thorough they’ve been.
A quick shower gelled finger might clean far enough up for rimming. Once a cock enters there, there’s still a risk of some mess: a badly done douching can sometimes have even worse consequences than none at all
Water, not shower gel."
I was meaning the outer area and people who *assume* that the above is considered sufficient.
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"I always douche and shower just before a meet. Hygiene is high priority. Anal doesn't always happen but if it does I like to know I'm ready for it. "
Hygeine is paramount and I guess some aren't too fussy, but then I avoid those anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer if someone has. It depends on many factors including time since they did it or how thorough they’ve been.
A quick shower gelled finger might clean far enough up for rimming. Once a cock enters there, there’s still a risk of some mess: a badly done douching can sometimes have even worse consequences than none at all
Water, not shower gel.
I was meaning the outer area and people who *assume* that the above is considered sufficient.
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You said far enough up. Up what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer if someone has. It depends on many factors including time since they did it or how thorough they’ve been.
A quick shower gelled finger might clean far enough up for rimming. Once a cock enters there, there’s still a risk of some mess: a badly done douching can sometimes have even worse consequences than none at all
Water, not shower gel.
I was meaning the outer area and people who *assume* that the above is considered sufficient.
You said far enough up. Up what?"
And, as you said, the badly done douchuing, that is more like an enema, can leave water inside that comes out when you put something in. |
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Always, not only is it polite and considerate to be immaculately clean and fresh for your playmate it also gives you more confidence and allows your mind to be firmly on the pleasure of play and not worrying about any mess. Although I should add even if you do there are no guarantees that you won't still encounter some mess. There are always going to be times when you have a meet with someone who hasn't for various reasons and that is also ok, just have some baby wipes to hand to have a quick clean before and after! Oh and if you do encounter some mess please dont mention it to them or do anything to make them feel self conscious, just get your baby wipes and discreetly clean it up. If you are squeamish about a little bit of poop maybe you should aviod anal. |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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We have a fail safe way to avoid any problems, we use a a shower hose attached to a enema bulb a bit like a cock.
This gives a thorough enema and never any dramas, you can regulate the flow too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always, not only is it polite and considerate to be immaculately clean and fresh for your playmate it also gives you more confidence and allows your mind to be firmly on the pleasure of play and not worrying about any mess. Although I should add even if you do there are no guarantees that you won't still encounter some mess. There are always going to be times when you have a meet with someone who hasn't for various reasons and that is also ok, just have some baby wipes to hand to have a quick clean before and after! Oh and if you do encounter some mess please dont mention it to them or do anything to make them feel self conscious, just get your baby wipes and discreetly clean it up. If you are squeamish about a little bit of poop maybe you should aviod anal. "
This, if you're gonna play in the field, expect to get muddy. Be grown up and considerate if something happens, letting the receiver know you're grossed out will only lessen your chances of it happening again due to embarrassment. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer if someone has. It depends on many factors including time since they did it or how thorough they’ve been.
A quick shower gelled finger might clean far enough up for rimming. Once a cock enters there, there’s still a risk of some mess: a badly done douching can sometimes have even worse consequences than none at all
Water, not shower gel.
I was meaning the outer area and people who *assume* that the above is considered sufficient.
You said far enough up. Up what?
And, as you said, the badly done douchuing, that is more like an enema, can leave water inside that comes out when you put something in. "
Yes I didn’t word my original post as intended. It was meant to refer to those who say “yes I’ve cleaned” when all they have done is had a quick poke with the Radox |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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"We have a fail safe way to avoid any problems, we use a a shower hose attached to a enema bulb a bit like a cock.
This gives a thorough enema and never any dramas, you can regulate the flow too."
I have a shower douche separate from the shower itself. It’s commonly referred to as a “bidet hose, bum gun or Shattaff” the latter I find childishly funny.
If I’m giving myself a clean or a partner wants to have a clean, the standard spray head is changed for a nozzle. A relaxing while later, and after a short walk to the main shower to clean off completely, we’re good to go |
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"I always douche and shower just before a meet. Hygiene is high priority. Anal doesn't always happen but if it does I like to know I'm ready for it. "
What they said - I just hope the prospective partner does too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always, not only is it polite and considerate to be immaculately clean and fresh for your playmate it also gives you more confidence and allows your mind to be firmly on the pleasure of play and not worrying about any mess. Although I should add even if you do there are no guarantees that you won't still encounter some mess. There are always going to be times when you have a meet with someone who hasn't for various reasons and that is also ok, just have some baby wipes to hand to have a quick clean before and after! Oh and if you do encounter some mess please dont mention it to them or do anything to make them feel self conscious, just get your baby wipes and discreetly clean it up. If you are squeamish about a little bit of poop maybe you should aviod anal.
This, if you're gonna play in the field, expect to get muddy. Be grown up and considerate if something happens, letting the receiver know you're grossed out will only lessen your chances of it happening again due to embarrassment."
Yep, if you play in the arse, it's always a risk. This is the best way to handle it! |
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"We have a fail safe way to avoid any problems, we use a a shower hose attached to a enema bulb a bit like a cock.
This gives a thorough enema and never any dramas, you can regulate the flow too.
I have a shower douche separate from the shower itself. It’s commonly referred to as a “bidet hose, bum gun or Shattaff” the latter I find childishly funny.
If I’m giving myself a clean or a partner wants to have a clean, the standard spray head is changed for a nozzle. A relaxing while later, and after a short walk to the main shower to clean off completely, we’re good to go"
We have the one attached to the shower already, just turn the knob and bingo, surprising what you can buy on eBay.  |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"I always douche and shower just before a meet. Hygiene is high priority. Anal doesn't always happen but if it does I like to know I'm ready for it. "
Same here.
I'd be paranoid otherwise which will just ruin the meet for me. |
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By *utiee26TV/TS
over a year ago
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Yeh same as the majority here will douche everytime if I can makes me relax a lot more knowing nothing embarrassing will happen lol although the occasional d*unken night has prevented me from douching with no bad consequences |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Always douche thoroughly before any meet regardless of whether anal play is on the cards or not - for one it allows for the eventuality if it should arise and secondly it means I feel clean regardless of the play involved  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought I would bring the subject up as I wondered how many do. Had a few guys mention it as they were put by previous encounters with other girls, I hasten to add not on this site. "
Hahahahahahaha
That ole chestnut???
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By *abrielle247 OP Couple (FF)
over a year ago
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"I thought I would bring the subject up as I wondered how many do. Had a few guys mention it as they were put by previous encounters with other girls, I hasten to add not on this site.
Hahahahahahaha
That ole chestnut???
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Really, like being fab straight you mean.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always, not only is it polite and considerate to be immaculately clean and fresh for your playmate it also gives you more confidence and allows your mind to be firmly on the pleasure of play and not worrying about any mess. Although I should add even if you do there are no guarantees that you won't still encounter some mess. There are always going to be times when you have a meet with someone who hasn't for various reasons and that is also ok, just have some baby wipes to hand to have a quick clean before and after! Oh and if you do encounter some mess please dont mention it to them or do anything to make them feel self conscious, just get your baby wipes and discreetly clean it up. If you are squeamish about a little bit of poop maybe you should aviod anal. "
Totally agree with this! You can not always predict what the human body will do and as stated above if your squeamish maybe you should avoid anal. Having said that I would always make sure I’m clean and ready for a meet and would expect the same in return  |
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