We're not swinging but i just asked my fella if he was ok having an account on here so i could meet guys for sex, which he was up for then he changed his mind (before i met anyone luckily) so we're taking it slower now.
We're using this account sign up for club events, and he is fine with it.
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"Hmm, how would you guys put forth that idea of swinging to your other half? "
you married then? Or is this a new partnership, it's easier with a new partner not so easy if it's your wife and you've been here over a year but just say I've been having great fun the past year fancy joining me
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By discussing it before I even thought of opening a fab account.
If it’s a new relationship and for you it’s a deal breaker, if they aren’t keen on the idea and tell you no, I’d leave and move on.
If it’s a long term relationship/marriage, and your partner says no, leave it at that and do not pursue anything. People cannot be ‘convinved’ to try swinging. You can’t (well, you can but shouldn’t) pressure anyone into liking something.
If they are keen for trying out, then brilliant! Maybe set up a couples account on fab.
But yes - a serious chat is needed. If you watch porn together, maybe watch threesomes, gangbangs, swingers etc and see how she reacts. Or maybe just say you heard something about swinging on tv and have been thinking about it - and ask what her thoughts are.  |
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"By discussing it before I even thought of opening a fab account.
If it’s a new relationship and for you it’s a deal breaker, if they aren’t keen on the idea and tell you no, I’d leave and move on.
If it’s a long term relationship/marriage, and your partner says no, leave it at that and do not pursue anything. People cannot be ‘convinved’ to try swinging. You can’t (well, you can but shouldn’t) pressure anyone into liking something.
If they are keen for trying out, then brilliant! Maybe set up a couples account on fab.
But yes - a serious chat is needed. If you watch porn together, maybe watch threesomes, gangbangs, swingers etc and see how she reacts. Or maybe just say you heard something about swinging on tv and have been thinking about it - and ask what her thoughts are. "
There's always that Wanderlust programme on TV, perhaps you could watch that to bring up the conversation... |
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With us it was easy. I knew C had been with a woman beforehand. I said jokingly id like to see that. She said it could be arranged and then she found a few sites! We havnt had any luck with what were after yet but were open to ideas and its made our sexlife better and more open
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"By taking them to a swingers club as a surprise birthday treat?
If my husband had done that without talking to me I would have killed him.  "
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