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Who met their sexy partner on FAB
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over a year ago
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I did. We had an amazing and very gratifying relationship.
Involved in vanilla lives, children and family (after 6 months) as well as the swinging lifestyle together. Having trips away most months swinging, as well as vanilla times. Not sure its often you can find a balance. An amazing 20 months. I'm lucky we are still great friends. I'm looking forward to finding that again with someone and hopefully longer x |
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over a year ago
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"could you ever fully trust someone you met on here ?? unless of course your both happy to play alone from time to time with other people "
How would it be any different than meeting someone elsewhere? So many people are on here cheating so it’s a matter of trust no matter what. |
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over a year ago
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"We met on another site 10 years ago and have been together ever since and are very, very happy so don't rule out love where you least expect it."
Wow 10 years! That is amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on a fetish site 12 years ago"
Good for you guys - we had really good friends who were a cuck couple - witnesses at our wedding - amazing and prolific pics guys xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"could you ever fully trust someone you met on here ?? unless of course your both happy to play alone from time to time with other people
How would it be any different than meeting someone elsewhere? So many people are on here cheating so it’s a matter of trust no matter what. "
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We met on here and have been together for 3 years now. We're a proper couple - we even go to garden centres and everything 
Some friends know how we met, but most friends and family get an....edited version! |
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We didn’t meet on fab but on killing kittens.
Set out to be party partners and f-buddies, moves in with each other after 6 months and got married September 2016.
Easily the happiest, most secure relationship we’ve both been in. No need for lies, trust is 100%.
We totally adore each other but also still love seeing each other being utter filthbags... hahaha
Can heartily recommend this way into a relationship!
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It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we met on fab I was the fem part of a 3some, didn't know him until that day but very glad he made it to the meet. Been together for 2 years now and leading both the Vanilla and Swing life ever since. |
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket."
^^^ This! ^^^
Visiting clubs, couple meets, swinging holidays etc. If you’re in the lifstyle it’s so much easier with someone with a similar outlook.
Not easy to find buddy’s looking for a partner too (who isn’t at the other end of the country etc).
Hope springs eternal... |
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over a year ago
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket."
I strongly disagree.... I adore vanilla dating and relationships.. I enjoy going out on dates and not talking about the swinging lifestyle... In fact I only date career women or divorced women who basically didn’t have any sexual fun and now want to explore..
They are like a blank canvas, that I can paint a masterpiece.... And I enjoy introducing them to swinging and Bdsm....
Dating a hardened swinger is like dating a boxer past his prime.... they have done it all before and basically you’re just one person in a very long swinging life.... |
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket.
I strongly disagree.... I adore vanilla dating and relationships.. I enjoy going out on dates and not talking about the swinging lifestyle... In fact I only date career women or divorced women who basically didn’t have any sexual fun and now want to explore..
They are like a blank canvas, that I can paint a masterpiece.... And I enjoy introducing them to swinging and Bdsm....
Dating a hardened swinger is like dating a boxer past his prime.... they have done it all before and basically you’re just one person in a very long swinging life...."
You are being disingenuous ( and that’s the politest term to describe it) with those vanilla women you contact on normal dating sites because there is no way you will be putting on your vanilla dating profile ‘looking for a lady to introduce to swinging’ .You must regard them as simply fresh meat to be seduced as the swinger ladies on here are past their prime according to your own words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on fab nearly four years ago now.
Been engaged and living together for last three years."
Mr and Mrs Woo!! Congratulations.
The age gap couple. Your profile is full of interesting and fun things. Thank you for sharing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on fab nearly four years ago now.
Been engaged and living together for last three years.
Mr and Mrs Woo!! Congratulations.
The age gap couple. Your profile is full of interesting and fun things. Thank you for sharing "
Thanks for the kind comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket.
I strongly disagree.... I adore vanilla dating and relationships.. I enjoy going out on dates and not talking about the swinging lifestyle... In fact I only date career women or divorced women who basically didn’t have any sexual fun and now want to explore..
They are like a blank canvas, that I can paint a masterpiece.... And I enjoy introducing them to swinging and Bdsm....
Dating a hardened swinger is like dating a boxer past his prime.... they have done it all before and basically you’re just one person in a very long swinging life....
You are being disingenuous ( and that’s the politest term to describe it) with those vanilla women you contact on normal dating sites because there is no way you will be putting on your vanilla dating profile ‘looking for a lady to introduce to swinging’ .You must regard them as simply fresh meat to be seduced as the swinger ladies on here are past their prime according to your own words."
I’ve been in the swinging scene 10 years and have learned a lot.... in fact I’m still learning...
What I would like to do is meet a lady , fall in love , get married, have children, and raise a family.... Then after we have that solid bond.. I would like to start swinging... This has been the strongest couples I’ve encountered in my 10 years...
The inverse of this would be to meet a single woman swinger... make a couples profile.. then proceed to going to couples only parties and club nights to try to shag the wives of couples that don’t meet single guys.....
Just to add ... I’m never disingenuous to women on dating websites to the point of me being labeled as a serial dater and commitmentphobe.... |
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"Wondered how many met their sexy partner in crime on FAB. Would love to meet a sexy lady to get together with and enjoy the swinging lifestyle, does it ever happen? "
Yep we were both singles on Fab. Moved in together. Two years later we got married. Happy as anything with no secrets! Woo hoo! |
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket.
I strongly disagree.... I adore vanilla dating and relationships.. I enjoy going out on dates and not talking about the swinging lifestyle... In fact I only date career women or divorced women who basically didn’t have any sexual fun and now want to explore..
They are like a blank canvas, that I can paint a masterpiece.... And I enjoy introducing them to swinging and Bdsm....
Dating a hardened swinger is like dating a boxer past his prime.... they have done it all before and basically you’re just one person in a very long swinging life....
You are being disingenuous ( and that’s the politest term to describe it) with those vanilla women you contact on normal dating sites because there is no way you will be putting on your vanilla dating profile ‘looking for a lady to introduce to swinging’ .You must regard them as simply fresh meat to be seduced as the swinger ladies on here are past their prime according to your own words.
I’ve been in the swinging scene 10 years and have learned a lot.... in fact I’m still learning...
What I would like to do is meet a lady , fall in love , get married, have children, and raise a family.... Then after we have that solid bond.. I would like to start swinging... This has been the strongest couples I’ve encountered in my 10 years...
The inverse of this would be to meet a single woman swinger... make a couples profile.. then proceed to going to couples only parties and club nights to try to shag the wives of couples that don’t meet single guys.....
Just to add ... I’m never disingenuous to women on dating websites to the point of me being labeled as a serial dater and commitmentphobe...."
Our point is you are addicted to fucking lots of different women and you will never have a loving stable relationship that lasts very long that involves monogamy because you can’t do that.. That’s what we mean by swinging being one way ticket and most of us are in the same boat. It’s like the Hotel California ie you can check in but you can never check out .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket.
I strongly disagree.... I adore vanilla dating and relationships.. I enjoy going out on dates and not talking about the swinging lifestyle... In fact I only date career women or divorced women who basically didn’t have any sexual fun and now want to explore..
They are like a blank canvas, that I can paint a masterpiece.... And I enjoy introducing them to swinging and Bdsm....
Dating a hardened swinger is like dating a boxer past his prime.... they have done it all before and basically you’re just one person in a very long swinging life....
You are being disingenuous ( and that’s the politest term to describe it) with those vanilla women you contact on normal dating sites because there is no way you will be putting on your vanilla dating profile ‘looking for a lady to introduce to swinging’ .You must regard them as simply fresh meat to be seduced as the swinger ladies on here are past their prime according to your own words.
I’ve been in the swinging scene 10 years and have learned a lot.... in fact I’m still learning...
What I would like to do is meet a lady , fall in love , get married, have children, and raise a family.... Then after we have that solid bond.. I would like to start swinging... This has been the strongest couples I’ve encountered in my 10 years...
The inverse of this would be to meet a single woman swinger... make a couples profile.. then proceed to going to couples only parties and club nights to try to shag the wives of couples that don’t meet single guys.....
Just to add ... I’m never disingenuous to women on dating websites to the point of me being labeled as a serial dater and commitmentphobe....
Our point is you are addicted to fucking lots of different women and you will never have a loving stable relationship that lasts very long that involves monogamy because you can’t do that.. That’s what we mean by swinging being one way ticket and most of us are in the same boat. It’s like the Hotel California ie you can check in but you can never check out ...."
This is very interesting..... I find swinging to be just a hobby and not a lifestyle for me. I have lived out every fantasy I can think of and now I find myself becoming very lazy....
Honestly I could be in a monogamous relationship for the rest of my life and never look back....The reason I know this is because I was swinging hard for 4 years... 2-3 different women a week , gangbangs , parties every weekend, and vacations with couples....
Then I realized something..... in 4 years I was spending every holiday by myself with family and the couples had each other... then I started dating vanilla women and they would ask about my dating life for the last 4 years... I had nothing to say. I thought about telling them I was in jail or held hostage in the Middle East rather than I was fucking every woman in site from the internet.....
But I might be the exception not the rule.... |
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Tomma
We met on fab and now married! We don’t play alone ever. Why would you assume that because you where on fab as a single it would make you less trustworthy?
In our experience because we are swinger! The communication in the relationship is amazing and if one of us wants to try something then we talk and try to fulfill it. So why would we be untrustworthy. |
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"could you ever fully trust someone you met on here ?? unless of course your both happy to play alone from time to time with other people
How would it be any different than meeting someone elsewhere? So many people are on here cheating so it’s a matter of trust no matter what. "
Sex doesn’t mean nothing it’s just something that feels good for a little while so I’d never be upset by my wife doing something that feels good but the betrayal of going behind your back and having romantic affairs is the truth one!
So if you met on here and both had the freedom to play surely you’d trust each other more? No reason to go behind each other’s backs it’s all there for the taking anyway!
I think it’s important to both enjoy the same hobbies and do stuff together what ever that maybe and swinging is no different!
Unfortunately my wife isn’t quite into this side as much as I’d like but we do go to clubs together and play together there. And share an interest in all other sides of our life’s too which makes our marriage strong!
So trusting someone you meet on here? Yes why not it’s just another hobbie swinging doesn’t make you a monster it’s the quiet ones you gotta watch lol |
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We meet not on fab but at uni back in 1992...Yes 92!!! Well before the internet and fab, it was the precuser to fab. The wife had only been with women until then but her and her gf though they would spice it up with a male.... the rest is history but glad to say I've seen every cock go in her. |
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket."
I think your so right! |
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"Tomma
We met on fab and now married! We don’t play alone ever. Why would you assume that because you where on fab as a single it would make you less trustworthy?
In our experience because we are swinger! The communication in the relationship is amazing and if one of us wants to try something then we talk and try to fulfill it. So why would we be untrustworthy. "
Agreed we have a closer than we’ve ever had before due to the fact we talk and have no secrets. We always play as a couple. (Even if I means one of us ends up not play and just taking pics!!) |
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"It makes total sense swinging singles finding husbands and wives on Fab because they will never be happy in the future if they get married to a vanilla person who won’t contemplate swinging . It’s very addctive just like heroin and smoking etc so don’t think you have any simple way back to the pre swinging world you came from it’s a one way ticket.
I strongly disagree.... I adore vanilla dating and relationships.. I enjoy going out on dates and not talking about the swinging lifestyle... In fact I only date career women or divorced women who basically didn’t have any sexual fun and now want to explore..
They are like a blank canvas, that I can paint a masterpiece.... And I enjoy introducing them to swinging and Bdsm....
Dating a hardened swinger is like dating a boxer past his prime.... they have done it all before and basically you’re just one person in a very long swinging life...."
Don’t think she was saying only date swingers but that if you date a complete straight vannila who won’t partake in this lifestyle would you be happy to never dip your toe in the swinging world again?
Besides what ever you have both done before you get a chance to do it all again together |
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"Tomma
We met on fab and now married! We don’t play alone ever. Why would you assume that because you where on fab as a single it would make you less trustworthy?
In our experience because we are swinger! The communication in the relationship is amazing and if one of us wants to try something then we talk and try to fulfill it. So why would we be untrustworthy. "
Perfect!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After reading all of these stories I wish I had joined a lot sooner. I had no idea all of this was going on! Better late than never.
Let me just get the pre honeymoon period of rejoining the lifestyle out of my system 
Then the real fun will begin! |
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