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I'm running out of patience
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I met with a guy a few month ago now. I made it very clear that it was a no strings attached meet.
Afterwards I started receiving a lot of weird possessive messages off the guy. I'm talking 15-20 messages everytime I went offline. I blocked him and moved on thinking that would be the end of it.
He is still messaging me from different accounts and I'm really running out of patience. Ignoring or blocking doesn't seem to do anything and other than deleting my account and starting again I really don't know what to do.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you tried speaking to admin? They may be able to block his IP address."
Would only work if he had a static ip address but even that can be changed with a vpn. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"So I met with a guy a few month ago now. I made it very clear that it was a no strings attached meet.
Afterwards I started receiving a lot of weird possessive messages off the guy. I'm talking 15-20 messages everytime I went offline. I blocked him and moved on thinking that would be the end of it.
He is still messaging me from different accounts and I'm really running out of patience. Ignoring or blocking doesn't seem to do anything and other than deleting my account and starting again I really don't know what to do.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
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Was his name Joe? Have you seen "You" on Netflix? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would blocking him and changing your account name to something different so that he couldn't find you on a different account? Maybe also the area you live just make a bit different? I guess it would be the same as starting over but not actually so you don't lose any of your veris or contacts/friends? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I met with a guy a few month ago now. I made it very clear that it was a no strings attached meet.
Afterwards I started receiving a lot of weird possessive messages off the guy. I'm talking 15-20 messages everytime I went offline. I blocked him and moved on thinking that would be the end of it.
He is still messaging me from different accounts and I'm really running out of patience. Ignoring or blocking doesn't seem to do anything and other than deleting my account and starting again I really don't know what to do.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
Was his name Joe? Have you seen "You" on Netflix?"
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
"So I met with a guy a few month ago now. I made it very clear that it was a no strings attached meet.
Afterwards I started receiving a lot of weird possessive messages off the guy. I'm talking 15-20 messages everytime I went offline. I blocked him and moved on thinking that would be the end of it.
He is still messaging me from different accounts and I'm really running out of patience. Ignoring or blocking doesn't seem to do anything and other than deleting my account and starting again I really don't know what to do.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
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Sadly this happens with a few men probably best just to hide one account and open up another so he dosn't know you have done this. But make sure you use a different location and pictures sadly its the only way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would blocking him and changing your account name to something different so that he couldn't find you on a different account? Maybe also the area you live just make a bit different? I guess it would be the same as starting over but not actually so you don't lose any of your veris or contacts/friends? "
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Deleting and recreating may be the option, if hiding your profile, apart from to frieds, isn't good. If a new account has different personal qualities, such as town, height etc, then it would be harder to track you. Always report to Admin, as they will take some action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I met with a guy a few month ago now. I made it very clear that it was a no strings attached meet.
Afterwards I started receiving a lot of weird possessive messages off the guy. I'm talking 15-20 messages everytime I went offline. I blocked him and moved on thinking that would be the end of it.
He is still messaging me from different accounts and I'm really running out of patience. Ignoring or blocking doesn't seem to do anything and other than deleting my account and starting again I really don't know what to do.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
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Yes. Report to admin |
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I've not looked at your profile but be wary of forming a replacement that looks nearly identical: the same friends/veris plus height, body type etc. I'd experiment and mix things up a little. I'm assuming it's possible but needs the right relationship but a couples account, with a friend etc, whatever gender, may also throw someone off the scent. |
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Depending on how persistent it is, plus worrying (is this person potentially a threat? Are the messages threatening in tone?), it may be worth recording the messages in some way in case you do decide to talk to the police.
Not everyone is dangerous, some are just a few screws loose, but better safe than sorry. Document. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depending on how persistent it is, plus worrying (is this person potentially a threat? Are the messages threatening in tone?), it may be worth recording the messages in some way in case you do decide to talk to the police.
Not everyone is dangerous, some are just a few screws loose, but better safe than sorry. Document. "
I definitely think it's more of a screw loose type situation fortunately. I find it more annoying than threatening.
I'm fortunate in that he doesn't know my real name, address or has any proper contact information, but the messages can be super wierd.
I think I'll definitely take on board all of the helpful advice on here and only escalate it further if it continues! |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"So I met with a guy a few month ago now. I made it very clear that it was a no strings attached meet.
Afterwards I started receiving a lot of weird possessive messages off the guy. I'm talking 15-20 messages everytime I went offline. I blocked him and moved on thinking that would be the end of it.
He is still messaging me from different accounts and I'm really running out of patience. Ignoring or blocking doesn't seem to do anything and other than deleting my account and starting again I really don't know what to do.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
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Do one last attempt to put him straight then report to admin then im afraid its police. |
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